We been married 30 years and rebuilding our marriage…
So I appreciate this app and the thought behind it. I’ve honestly used some of the daily challenges, but sadly most of the suggestions just don’t seem to be in sync with where “we are at” right now. Many of the “challenges” for the day just don’t line up with my wife’s primary love language… “acts of service”. Or some challenges don’t seem “age appropriate”. We are 59 and 60. I realize you can’t address every “love language”, because that is not how your app works right now. But maybe down the road instead of just asking your participants who use your app if they are male or female, maybe you could go a little deeper and add the filter of “what is her/his primary love language”. Obviously this means the person using this app would need to have the answer to that question first though. Perhaps it would be helpful to devise a way for a newcomer to figure out their significant other’s PLL first?? Then build their uniquely individualized version of this app around their answer?? Thanks for hearing me out! Don Basch
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Bait-and-Switch; Gatekeeping; belittling to people not in their religion
Don’t get me wrong, there are good things about this app. I like that it’s not raunchy, and that it focuses on how important the actual relationship is in improving intimacy. At the beginning, I almost upgraded to the paid version. But I started noticing them gatekeeping in their articles…repeatedly… Over time I felt more and more alienated and downright disrespected. I sent them an email asking them to alter some of the language of their articles to make them more inclusive to non-Christians, and they responded enthusiastically thanking me… but instead of taking my advice they just published more articles implying even more strongly that Christian ideals were necessary in order for a relationship to be successful. I feel so disrespected and discriminated against.
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Love this app
Every intimate relationship needs this app. For our first year of marriage, it has helped me remember to prioritize my connection with my spouse, and also helps me remember to keep the fun flame alive! Sometimes it’s fun to joke and just say “hey look babe - my app says to flirt with you!” It just reminds us both to connect, and I love that!
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Excellent app
I’m so glad I found this app. I tried some other apps and they were made for people that have multiple sex partners. I have only had one partner and that is my beautiful wife. We have been happily married for 32 years and it gets better and better each year.
Colored Themes
I’ve learned soooo much about sex from this app! It would be really cool if there were different color schemes (i was initially thinking to add a “manly” theme for the app and homescreen thumbnail, but just different colors so people can find the look they want.) i just feel it looks very feminine and some men don’t like that look in their phone haha
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Get this app for you and your spouse
My wife and I just got married after 6 years dating and with the help this app provides, our love is stronger then ever. We enjoy the little challenges it provides to show each other the love and support, we both know we will need to make this last, from each other.
Unexpectedly Fun and Worth it
Before getting this app, my wife and I listened to the “get your marriage on” podcast, and they recommended this app. We were already having a good amount of intimacy prior to the podcast and the app, but since we’ve listened and used the app, our love life has been so much more connected and in-sync with each other. I had low expectations for the app, but have since been very impressed! My wife also has been impressed and uses it just as much as I do! Its fun to see her fantasies and its uplifting when she adds something she loves about me. The daily challenges are fun, sometimes they are easier than others (and we don’t always get them done) but the fact is, I find myself serving her more, and trying to do more for her. Give the app a try!
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So much included
There is so much included in this app! Challenges, games, and lots to read. What a great way to keep your sex knife alive ❤️🔥
Highly recommended!
The “Intimately Us” app has been an incredible blessing to me as a husband. I initially purchased this app with hopes to learn new ways of fanning the fires of passion in our almost twenty year old marriage. However, it has done so much more!
It has opened my eyes to so many things that I hadn’t given time to consider before. Each day I learn more and more about myself as a husband, and I have come to realize that I play much more of a role (in relation to the intimate aspect of our marriage) than I had known before.
I’m thankful to have had my eyes open to the fact that I am not the only one in this marriage and, once I choose to step back from selfishly striving to fulfill my own desires, I can reignit the passion I have for my wife and enjoy her even more!
Thanks so much and may God bless!
It has opened my eyes to so many things that I hadn’t given time to consider before. Each day I learn more and more about myself as a husband, and I have come to realize that I play much more of a role (in relation to the intimate aspect of our marriage) than I had known before.
I’m thankful to have had my eyes open to the fact that I am not the only one in this marriage and, once I choose to step back from selfishly striving to fulfill my own desires, I can reignit the passion I have for my wife and enjoy her even more!
Thanks so much and may God bless!
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Such a great tool to bring intimacy and knowledge to your marriage
After living 6 years in a marriage controlled by my past sexual traumas I have thrown in the towel of being a victim of negative reactivity towards my husband when it comes to intimacy and have found such freedom and truth in this app while also reading Sheila Gregoire’s books like the Great Sex Rescue and the Good Girls Guide to Great Sex. This app has such a true and beautiful approach to our intimacy with our spouse and now that I have found healing for my trauma I am now utilizing this app to make sex fun and enjoyable again for us both. My husband is also on the app and he loves it just as much as much I do. Thank you so much for creating this safe space for couples!
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