# Are We Dating The Same Guy? — Safe Dating for Women by Women

> Women's community for sharing dating experiences and safety information. (iPhone/iPad app by Spill the Tea, Inc..)

- Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/are-we-dating-the-same-guy/id6459230401 (this page in markdown: same URL + `.md`)
- Developer: [Spill the Tea, Inc.](https://appshunter.io/developer/1693405306)
- Category: Lifestyle, Social Networking
- Price: Free
- Rating: 4.86/5 from 10,029 App Store ratings · 430 written reviews indexed
- Age rating: 17+
- Requires: iOS 15.1 · 148 MB
- Languages: English
- Released: 2024-07-16
- Data updated: 2026-06-10
- Monetization: free
- User reviews in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/are-we-dating-the-same-guy/id6459230401/reviews.md

## What is Are We Dating The Same Guy??

This app was created to be a safe place for women to support and empower other women by sharing information to protect each other from men who might exhibit any type of toxic or dangerous behavior.

This space can also be used to inquire about someone you're dating or may potentially date to see if anyone has had any experiences with them and give other women the chance to share relevant information.

This is also a welcoming space where women can ask for advice and relationship support, as well as post stories, memes, or anything else dating related that can help bring us together, keep us safe, or help us feel less alone.

Features of the AWDTSG app include:

-Screenshot & Screen-Record Blocking: The app prevents other users from taking screenshots or screen recordings of anything posted within the app, and creates logs of anyone who ever attempts to screenshot a post. We even block text from being copied out of the app. We’re always adding more features to do everything we can to keep your story private and safe.

-Anonymous Posting & Commenting: Feel free to post anonymously and know that your identity is safe with us. You can also comment anonymously on any post, with a uniquely generated name that is different for every single post!

-Verified Women: We make sure every person requesting was manually checked and confirmed to be a real woman by one of our volunteers.

-Stay Safe Wherever You Go: The app allows you to see and share information in multiple different cities, all in one place.

We do not allow any bullying, gaslighting, shaming, victim blaming, or aggressive behavior towards any other women on our app. Racism in any form will lead to immediate banning from the platform.

## Key features

- Screenshot & Screen-Record Blocking
- Anonymous Posting & Commenting
- Verified Women Users
- City-Specific Information Sharing
- Privacy Protection Features

## What do users think of Are We Dating The Same Guy??

Overall sentiment: neutral

**Pros**

- 🚀 Great app to save women
- 🔒 Keeps women safe
- 👍 Necessary in 2024
- 👍 For women by women
- 👍 Safely dating finally!
- 👍 Amazing group of women
- 👍 A supportive group for women
- 👍 Finally a safe space for dating as a woman!
- 👍 Helpful tool for every woman
- 👍 Looks good!
- 👍 Makes dating safer
- 👍 AMAZING FOR SAFETY
- 👍 No more blindly dating!
- 👍 Safe space for women

**Cons**

- 🐛 App not working
- 🐛 Glitchy
- 🐛 Posts deleting
- 🐛 Doesn't allow location options
- 🐛 Doesn't support all women
- 🔒 Invasion of privacy, masked as safety
- 🔒 Toxicity and invasion of privacy, masked as safety
- 🔒 Scam
- 🔒 Toxic App
- 🔒 EVIL
- 🔒 Vindictive bitter single women keeping other women bitter and single
- 🔒 Violates apples terms of service
- 🔒 Innocent lives are being destroyed daily here
- 🔒 Insane Privacy Violations
- 🔒 Scam

**Commonly reported bugs**

- Login screen freezes
- Incompatible with older devices
- Glitches when switching between cities

**Most requested features**

- Edit feature for cities
- Ability to upload photos
- Ability to join multiple cities

## Recent user reviews (10 of 430)

All indexed reviews: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/are-we-dating-the-same-guy/id6459230401/reviews.md

### 5/5 — Be a girls girl

*2025-11-04, version 1.0.26*

If you’ve been physically or in any other way harmed by a partner, this app is designed to help you help others. It has helped prevent me from going on further dates with men with abusive pasts who were presenting red flags already. Safety first!

### 1/5 — Delay?

*2025-11-03, version 1.0.26*

It’s been over 3 weeks and I m still on the waiting list. Deleted the app.

### 1/5 — Profoundly unethical

*2025-11-02, version 1.0.26*

Despite the good intent it results in mean spirited bullying. Deeply harmful to our society.  Should be illegal.

### 5/5 — Get the app!

*2025-11-02, version 1.0.26*

Much safer than the fb groups. Just need more members using the app and more cities will get added.

### 1/5 — Banned like many others after downloading the app

*2025-10-30, version 1.0.26*

I’ve heard that many people have experienced being blocked from the Facebook pages after trying to download and be verified on the app. Today I found the same has happened to me, I’m not able to see the group when I search it yet a friend can still see it on her own Facebook. I actually used the group for its intended purpose, didn’t screenshot, followed all rules. Not sure why you’re doing this?

### 5/5 — Required Reading

*2025-10-30, version 1.0.26*

Every woman needs to know about this app.

### 1/5 — Shut this app down & the FB GROUP💯

*2025-10-29, version 1.0.26*

It’s a group designed to doxx/cyberstalk men.
While it claims to be for women's safety- it is effectively just a gossip group where women doxx and cyberstalk men. Since there is no moderation or fact checking, it’s harming millions of men daily with unsubstantiated rumors/lies/gossip.
Women definitely deserve safety... but a gossip group designed to doxx and cyberstalk men is absolutely illegal. Its a yelp review for men- ... where unlike yelp the men have no idea they are being posted/gossiped about and no ability to defend, or respond to the posts.j

### 3/5 — Review about rejected desperate women

*2025-10-24, version 1.0.26*

Desperate women I guess you need this app to express yourself after being rejected , everyone using this should not date please instead of giving your fake opinion stop dating if you hate man, a lot of man are victims too of these desperate toxic women

### 5/5 — AWDTSG

*2025-10-24, version 1.0.26*

The is the safest & best way to warn your sista from anotha mister about the red flags in her life, it doesn’t allow screenshots, therefore there’s nothin to show & tell later on. I told all the important women in my life

### 1/5 — Misleading and dangerous

*2025-10-23, version 1.0.26*

There seems to be a lot of negativity, false accusations / defamation, bullying/doxxing in this app - use with caution

## Frequently asked questions about Are We Dating The Same Guy?

### What is Are We Dating The Same Guy?

This app is a secure platform designed for women to share information and experiences about men they are dating or considering dating. Its primary goal is to empower women by providing a space to protect each other from potentially toxic or dangerous behavior and to offer support and advice on dating-related matters.

### How does the app protect user privacy?

The app implements robust privacy features, including blocking screenshots and screen recordings, and preventing text from being copied. It also allows for anonymous posting and commenting, ensuring users can share information without revealing their identity. User identities are manually verified by volunteers to ensure a safe and authentic community.

### Is there a cost to use Are We Dating The Same Guy?

The application is available for free to all users. There are no charges associated with downloading, using, or accessing any of its features. The app is funded without requiring any payment from its users.

### Who is the target audience for this app?

The app is specifically designed for women who are dating or looking to date. It caters to those who want to share their experiences, seek advice, and connect with other women for support and safety information regarding their dating lives.

### Can I share information about men in different cities?

Yes, the app allows you to see and share information across multiple different cities, all within one centralized platform. This feature enables users to gather and contribute dating insights regardless of their geographical location or the location of the person they are inquiring about.

## Version history (last 5 releases)

### 1.0.26 — 2025-10-07

Font style was updated to default setup.

### 1.0.25 — 2025-08-26

Security is enhanced and performance is improved.

### 1.0.24 — 2025-07-22

We’ve made some behind-the-scenes improvements to keep your experience smooth and stable:
– Improved app performance for faster and smoother interactions
– Fixed known bugs and minor glitches

### 1.0.23 — 2025-06-13

We added some minor updates, bug fixes, and text changes =) 

But that's pretty boring so here I also drew this owl:

  /\  /\ 
((ovo))
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  VVV

### 1.0.22 — 2025-06-05

We've added multiple new features including brand new alternate methods of login and verification, saved searches and notifications, updated location selecting options, and a ton of minor bug fixes and improvements! =)

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