# Are We Dating The Same Guy? — user reviews > 430 indexed App Store user reviews of Are We Dating The Same Guy? by Spill the Tea, Inc., rated 4.86/5 from 10,029 ratings. - Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/are-we-dating-the-same-guy/id6459230401/reviews - App overview in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/are-we-dating-the-same-guy/id6459230401.md - Rating breakdown: 5★ 8,298 · 4★ 247 · 3★ 60 · 2★ 25 · 1★ 221 ## What do users think of Are We Dating The Same Guy?? Overall sentiment: neutral **Pros** - 🚀 Great app to save women - 🔒 Keeps women safe - 👍 Necessary in 2024 - 👍 For women by women - 👍 Safely dating finally! - 👍 Amazing group of women - 👍 A supportive group for women - 👍 Finally a safe space for dating as a woman! - 👍 Helpful tool for every woman - 👍 Looks good! - 👍 Makes dating safer - 👍 AMAZING FOR SAFETY - 👍 No more blindly dating! - 👍 Safe space for women **Cons** - 🐛 App not working - 🐛 Glitchy - 🐛 Posts deleting - 🐛 Doesn't allow location options - 🐛 Doesn't support all women - 🔒 Invasion of privacy, masked as safety - 🔒 Toxicity and invasion of privacy, masked as safety - 🔒 Scam - 🔒 Toxic App - 🔒 EVIL - 🔒 Vindictive bitter single women keeping other women bitter and single - 🔒 Violates apples terms of service - 🔒 Innocent lives are being destroyed daily here - 🔒 Insane Privacy Violations - 🔒 Scam **Commonly reported bugs** - Login screen freezes - Incompatible with older devices - Glitches when switching between cities **Most requested features** - Edit feature for cities - Ability to upload photos - Ability to join multiple cities ## Newest reviews (10 of 430) ### 3/5 — Review about rejected desperate women *2025-10-24, version 1.0.26* Desperate women I guess you need this app to express yourself after being rejected , everyone using this should not date please instead of giving your fake opinion stop dating if you hate man, a lot of man are victims too of these desperate toxic women ### 5/5 — An essential! *2025-10-13, version 1.0.26* Every women should have this! This is a necessary tool in the dating world these days. Huge thank you to the women who created this as well! ### 5/5 — Helpful *2025-10-12, version 1.0.26* This app helps so many women stay safe! I love that the app was able to be created so people could post anonymously that previously weren’t able to, some people are victims of abuse of any sort and it’s safest for them to remain anonymous. This app gives women the opportunity to learn about someone from people that know them BEFORE making the decision to meet a stranger! And no, it’s not bashing the opposite gender considering when people see someone they know, they’ll leave comments praising them if they know they’re a good person. ### 4/5 — Women unite to protect *2025-10-11, version 1.0.26* I love the concept of this app. I love that it’s free. I think it’s a really important service for the women of Calgary. Or people who identify as women. Unlike what men believe this app to be, it’s only exposing men who are cheaters or who are dangerous. Legitimately dangerous. It’s an incredible resource., And it’s something we’ve needed for a really long time. The only thing I will say is that it’s quite difficult when you want to post in an area that doesn’t contain a group. For example, the Yukon does not have a group., So it’s really hard to post anything when there’s no group. I know that this app is a work in progress and I take that into account because otherwise it’s fabulous. Small glitches here and there, but it’s well on its way. ### 5/5 — Love it! *2025-10-11, version 1.0.26* Women keeping women safe feels good. ### 5/5 — So relieved! *2025-10-10, version 1.0.26* Reassured by this app. Allllll women should get it. Let’s build eachother up-instead of continuing to allow men to push us down in the world! ### 5/5 — Easy to use *2025-10-08, version 1.0.26* Better and faster than the “tea” app! ### 5/5 — Safe & dependable app *2025-10-06, version 1.0.25* Great way to help single ladies in the dating life safe & smart! The rose colored glasses can get foggy and there are a ton of nondable losers trying to lie & ruin our good vibes! ### 5/5 — Feeling safer *2025-10-03, version 1.0.25* Great app to protect women! ### 5/5 — Excellent *2025-10-02, version 1.0.25* Super excellent ## Most critical reviews (10 lowest-rated) ### 1/5 — Delay? *2025-11-03, version 1.0.26* It’s been over 3 weeks and I m still on the waiting list. Deleted the app. ### 1/5 — Profoundly unethical *2025-11-02, version 1.0.26* Despite the good intent it results in mean spirited bullying. Deeply harmful to our society. Should be illegal. ### 1/5 — Banned like many others after downloading the app *2025-10-30, version 1.0.26* I’ve heard that many people have experienced being blocked from the Facebook pages after trying to download and be verified on the app. Today I found the same has happened to me, I’m not able to see the group when I search it yet a friend can still see it on her own Facebook. I actually used the group for its intended purpose, didn’t screenshot, followed all rules. Not sure why you’re doing this? ### 1/5 — Shut this app down & the FB GROUP💯 *2025-10-29, version 1.0.26* It’s a group designed to doxx/cyberstalk men. While it claims to be for women's safety- it is effectively just a gossip group where women doxx and cyberstalk men. Since there is no moderation or fact checking, it’s harming millions of men daily with unsubstantiated rumors/lies/gossip. Women definitely deserve safety... but a gossip group designed to doxx and cyberstalk men is absolutely illegal. Its a yelp review for men- ... where unlike yelp the men have no idea they are being posted/gossiped about and no ability to defend, or respond to the posts.j ### 1/5 — Misleading and dangerous *2025-10-23, version 1.0.26* There seems to be a lot of negativity, false accusations / defamation, bullying/doxxing in this app - use with caution ### 1/5 — Scam *2025-10-17, version 1.0.26* This site will put guys on blast but won’t let them in to defend themselves. Women on here can lie through their teeth and us guys can’t do anything about it. Defamation ### 1/5 — Doesn’t support ALL women *2025-10-15, version 1.0.26* This app claims to support women, but my experience shows otherwise. They will remove you from the group or app without any explanation or warning — not even a brief message to tell you why. Once you’re kicked out, it’s as if you never existed. You’re given no chance to defend yourself or clarify any misunderstanding. What’s worse is that there are thousands of women who have gone through the same thing — women who turned to this platform for support, safety, or answers, only to be shut out without a word. How is that supporting women? For an app that’s supposed to empower and protect us, they sure have a way of turning their backs on the very people who need it most ### 1/5 — Don’t support ALL women *2025-10-14, version 1.0.26* This app claims to support women, but my experience shows otherwise. They will remove you from the group or app without any explanation or warning — not even a brief message to tell you why. Once you’re kicked out, it’s as if you never existed. You’re given no chance to defend yourself or clarify any misunderstanding. What’s worse is that there are thousands of women who have gone through the same thing — women who turned to this platform for support, safety, or answers, only to be shut out without a word. How is that supporting women? For an app that’s supposed to empower and protect us, they sure have a way of turning their backs on the very people who need it most ### 1/5 — Terrible app *2025-10-13, version 1.0.26* The app has no activity. It’s quite useless. The Facebook Groups have blocked many members without warning and without reason. App is a last resort and doesn’t do any good because there is hardly any activity. The mods in the FB groups are terrible. Hoping people will make more groups that aren’t associated with Poala (sp) and are actually useful and won’t kick you out for no reason! ### 1/5 — lame and nobody uses it *2025-10-11, version 1.0.26* got removed out the fb group for no reason-as in i have never posted in it. so joined the group this way in the app and nobody uses it… shame on the moderators ## Most praised reviews (10 highest-rated) ### 5/5 — Be a girls girl *2025-11-04, version 1.0.26* If you’ve been physically or in any other way harmed by a partner, this app is designed to help you help others. It has helped prevent me from going on further dates with men with abusive pasts who were presenting red flags already. Safety first! ### 5/5 — Get the app! *2025-11-02, version 1.0.26* Much safer than the fb groups. Just need more members using the app and more cities will get added. ### 5/5 — Required Reading *2025-10-30, version 1.0.26* Every woman needs to know about this app. ### 5/5 — AWDTSG *2025-10-24, version 1.0.26* The is the safest & best way to warn your sista from anotha mister about the red flags in her life, it doesn’t allow screenshots, therefore there’s nothin to show & tell later on. I told all the important women in my life ### 5/5 — love it *2025-10-23, version 1.0.26* #loveit ### 5/5 — I warned many women about my ex *2025-10-18, version 1.0.26* With this app, I was able to warn several women talking to my ex about sending s3xually explicit videos of people he was intimate with to prevent them from going through the same things I did. This app is a community of women protecting women-would highly recommend. ### 5/5 — Very useful *2025-10-17, version 1.0.26* This app is so great for my friends (I’m in a healthy relationship) it’s nice to have girls helping girls and that’s what this app is all about ### 5/5 — Entertaining, helpful, solid *2025-10-16, version 1.0.26* Love this app! It’s great to get the scoop on potential dates, on who to stay away from and it’s entertaining if none of that applies to you. I love the screening process when you first sign up too. All around great app! ### 5/5 — Safe place *2025-10-15, version 1.0.26* Safe place for women ### 5/5 — Great App *2025-10-15, version 1.0.26* Thank you so much for providing this safe space for women 🫶🏾 --- *Data collected daily from the US App Store and indexed by [AppsHunter](https://appshunter.io/). User reviews are verbatim App Store reviews. Ratings, prices and chart positions refresh continuously; this snapshot is from 2026-06-10.*