# Ashley Madison Discreet Dating — Casual Meet & Chat

> Discreet dating app for casual encounters and alternative relationship exploration. (iPhone/iPad app by Ruby Life Inc..)

- Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/ashley-madison-discreet-dating/id359478823 (this page in markdown: same URL + `.md`)
- Developer: [Ruby Life Inc.](https://appshunter.io/developer/330038474)
- Category: Social Networking, Lifestyle
- Price: Free with in-app purchases
- Rating: 4.00/5 from 77,622 App Store ratings · 1,532 written reviews indexed
- Age rating: 17+
- Requires: iOS 16.0 · 250 MB
- Languages: Korean, Dutch, German (Germany), Russian, Norwegian Bokmål, Swedish, European Spanish, American English, Italian, Japanese and 6 more
- Released: 2014-03-29
- Data updated: 2026-08-28
- Monetization: free with in-app purchases
- User reviews in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/ashley-madison-discreet-dating/id359478823/reviews.md

## What is Ashley Madison Discreet Dating?

Ashley Madison®: Discreet Dating

Unlock desire with Ashley Madison®  -  the discreet dating app built on ethical discretion.

Available in 40+ countries. 91 million Members since 2002 (and counting).


YOUR DESIRES, YOUR RULES. 
Whether you’re seeking a new spark, exploring non-monogamy, or navigating the world of polyamory, Ashley Madison connects you with a community that speaks your language—all while keeping you in total control of your privacy.

PRIVACY ISN’T AN OPTION, IT’S OUR STANDARD. With Discreet Match™, Stealth Mode for iOS, private photo masking, discreet billing and more, you can navigate your desire with total anonymity. 

EVERYONE IS WELCOME
Be yourself and find what you want in a community that embraces authenticity, desire, and ethical discretion.


HOW AM WORKS 

- 100% free to download and easy to get started.

- Find matches that click using Search Filters and Interests & Desires Tags.

- Send Messages, Winks, and Private Key Requests to connect with other Members.


DISCRETION-FIRST

- Discreet Match™ matches you with others who value privacy like you do — clearly, confidently, and discreetly.

- Photo privacy tools help protect your anonymity.

- Discreet billing and private payment options help keep your payment activity confidential*.

- Stealth Mode exclusively for iOS keeps your notifications under the radar and lets you customize their appearance.

- Regular app security updates keep your data and information protected.

- Your personal information is never sold to a third-party under any circumstances.

- We provide Trust & Safety tips to help you improve your safety while navigating Ashley Madison and other social media platforms.


CONNECT WITH CONFIDENCE

- Verify Your Profile: Build trust, boost credibility and prioritize communication with other Verified Members.

- Report a Profile: Quickly report profiles with suspicious activity or inappropriate behavior.

- Block Contacts: Take control and block profiles you don’t want to see on the app.

Your people are already here. Step into a global community where millions have already found the discreet connections they’ve been looking for.

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All photos are of models and used for illustrative purposes only.

Services received through the Ashley Madison mobile application are governed by the Ashley Madison Terms and Conditions.

Privacy: https://www.ashleymadison.com/privacy
Terms: https://www.ashleymadison.com/terms
Visit: https://www.ashleymadison.com

* To protect your privacy, the charge on your billing statement will appear as “AMDA” and not Ashley Madison unless modified by your credit card company and/or bank.

## Key features

- Discreet dating for casual encounters
- Support for non-monogamy and polyamory
- Advanced privacy and anonymity tools
- Stealth Mode for iOS
- Discreet billing and payment options
- Profile verification and reporting tools

## Pricing and in-app purchases

Base price: Free.

**Subscriptions**

| Subscription | Price | Period |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Ashley Madison Preferred | $32.99 | per month |

**One-time purchases**

| Purchase | Price | Type |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Introductory Package | $84.99 | one-time |
| Ultimate Package | $299.99 | one-time |
| Elite Package | $149.99 | one-time |
| Ultimate Package | $249.99 | one-time |
| Boost | $7.99 | one-time |
| Introductory Package | $71.99 | one-time |
| Premium Package | $104.99 | one-time |
| Premium Package | $120.99 | one-time |
| Elite Package | $186.99 | one-time |
| Elite Package | $197.99 | one-time |
| 50 Credit Promo | $14.99 | one-time |


## Chart rankings

- #126 in Top Free · Social Networking (US App Store)
- #60 in Top Grossing · Social Networking (US App Store)

## What do users think of Ashley Madison Discreet Dating?

Overall sentiment: negative

**Pros**

- 👍 User-friendly interface
- 🚀 Efficient communication

**Cons**

- 💰 Expensive credits system
- 🤖 Fake/bot profiles
- 🚫 Difficult to delete account
- 🔒 Privacy and security concerns
- 🔍 Lack of profile verification
- 🔍 Unclear pricing structure

**Commonly reported bugs**

- Inbox issues with deleted messages reappearing
- Glitches with photo uploads and profile editing

**Most requested features**

- Unlimited free messaging
- Improved profile verification
- Better customer support

## Recent user reviews (10 of 1,532)

All indexed reviews: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/ashley-madison-discreet-dating/id359478823/reviews.md

### 1/5 — There’s barely any one on here in Austin TX

*2026-08-25, version 8.16.1*

It’s basically the same 5 profiles. There’s really no one on here and no one will show their face. So you have no clue if there is anyone half way decent

### 1/5 — Too many paywalls

*2026-08-25, version 8.16.1*

Decided to check out this app as a way to find a hook up or two… too bad it’s pay walls for days! Wanna message someone… paywall… wanna like them…. Pay walls….. 

Also the credits are minimum 100 credits at somewhere around .60 per credit…. Nah find something else

### 5/5 — Too many fake people

*2026-08-24, version 8.16.1*

Everyone is fake this site is a waste of time and money!

### 3/5 — Fakes - Catfish - Rude Ladies

*2026-08-24, version 8.16.0*

Been on around 5 weeks. Cant hardly weed through the fakes and scams fast enough. New members are particularly vulnerable and targeted. They will say the nicest things ever. Or promise you the world. Really they just want your money. A good number are not even ladies - just my opinion. If you really want to make your new crush show their cards ask them for a phone call. Better yet a video call. They will say I’m busy, I’m tired, going golfing with my aunt. Anything not to talk to you!! If you keep insisting they will say don’t you trust me and make you feel guilty for wondering if they are real (they are not). If you try too hard they will wipe the chat and block you. Had 5-10 play nice, get my number and immediately block me so I couldn’t see their profile or write them back. The real live women also freak out if you try to talk to them. 95 percent apparently want to be courted and you pay for every message. I think there is a contest with the scammers. Whoever can get some of my money first wins. No luck so far guys!! 
Rude: real (I think) ladies will keep you dangling. Eventually they want a man right? They don’t act like it. They will start a chat on AM or another app and disappear in the middle of it. They might come back in ten minutes or two days. Or you chat great for two days and they never come back. Could you just say it’s been nice but I’m closing out this chat. Say something. Some men deserve nasty treatment but not all of us. Enough for tonight. Frustrating but we still hope the one is out there.

### 1/5 — Disappointing

*2026-08-23, version 8.16.0*

I have yet to find anyone that’s seems to be real.  All appears to be bots,  fake or scammers. Disappointing

### 1/5 — Put the new messages on the top scrolling to find a message is terrible

*2026-08-23, version 8.16.0*

New messages should be on top

### 1/5 — App Filters = App Failure

*2026-08-22, version 8.16.0*

In the app I’ve attempted to set the filters specific to what/whom I’m seeking numerous times with zero success. I’ve reached out to support/customer service three different times and have learned they’re nonexistent. I’ve since discovered that all features seem to work when logging in online via my tablet. Skip the app. It sucks!!

### 3/5 — AM used to be better.

*2026-08-22, version 8.16.0*

I have used AM many years ago and it was a lot better than now.  Why taking forever to approve a new picture to post publicly?  My account was verified with my driver license picture.  Still a lot of pictures were not posted publicly but privately by AM.  Men are too cheap to send messages.  Good luck for those cheap men to find sexy women.

### 1/5 — Fake profiles

*2026-08-21, version 8.16.0*

Too make fake profiles and bots.  Also it’s too expensive

### 1/5 — Scams

*2026-08-21, version 8.16.0*

If you’re not getting scammed by the people who actually own and run a.m. then they’re just allowing nonsense the trans Fire. Stolen photos fake phone numbers 29 out of 30. I’ll guarantee your garbage and not real or they are looking just to gather one piece of information from each of us. One piece of information here with your name with your phone number. They’re halfway to your Social Security number.

## Frequently asked questions about Ashley Madison Discreet Dating

### What is Ashley Madison Discreet Dating?

Ashley Madison is a discreet dating app designed for individuals seeking casual connections, exploring non-monogamy, or navigating polyamory. It emphasizes user privacy and offers tools to ensure anonymity.

### What are the key privacy features?

The app offers Discreet Match™, Stealth Mode for iOS, private photo masking, and discreet billing to protect user anonymity. Your personal information is never sold to third parties.

### Is Ashley Madison free to use?

The app is free to download and get started. Users can find matches using search filters and interests. However, certain communication features and advanced options may require in-app purchases.

### What kind of connections can I find on Ashley Madison?

You can find connections for casual encounters, new sparks, or explore relationships within non-monogamous or polyamorous frameworks. The community embraces authenticity and desire with discretion.

### How does discreet billing work?

To protect your privacy, charges on your billing statement will appear as 'AMDA' instead of Ashley Madison, unless modified by your credit card company or bank. This helps keep your payment activity confidential.

## Version history (last 5 releases)

### 8.16.2 — 2026-08-25

Addressed minor bugs and improved speed and performance.

### 8.16.1 — 2026-08-24

Addressed minor bugs and improved speed and performance.

### 8.16.0 — 2026-08-19

Addressed minor bugs and improved speed and performance.

### 8.15.0 — 2026-08-07

Resolved minor issues and optimized overall app functionality.

### 8.14.0 — 2026-07-21

Corrected various issues to ensure smoother experience and enhanced responsiveness.

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