# Ashley Madison Discreet Dating — user reviews > 1,549 indexed App Store user reviews of Ashley Madison Discreet Dating by Ruby Life Inc., rated 4.00/5 from 77,802 ratings. - Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/ashley-madison-discreet-dating/id359478823/reviews - App overview in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/ashley-madison-discreet-dating/id359478823.md - Rating breakdown: 5★ 50,513 · 4★ 6,950 · 3★ 5,579 · 2★ 3,191 · 1★ 11,569 ## What do users think of Ashley Madison Discreet Dating? Overall sentiment: negative **Pros** - 👍 User-friendly interface - 🚀 Efficient communication **Cons** - 💰 Expensive credits system - 🤖 Fake/bot profiles - 🚫 Difficult to delete account - 🔒 Privacy and security concerns - 🔍 Lack of profile verification - 🔍 Unclear pricing structure **Commonly reported bugs** - Inbox issues with deleted messages reappearing - Glitches with photo uploads and profile editing **Most requested features** - Unlimited free messaging - Improved profile verification - Better customer support ## Newest reviews (18 of 1,549) ### 1/5 — Sucks *2026-08-31, version 8.16.2* Bots. Too much micro pay for “messages” from not real people. ### 1/5 — Paywalls messages *2026-08-31, version 8.16.2* You can match with someone but have to pay like 300 dollars to message someone. Horrible app. ### 2/5 — Unless you are willing to pay… *2026-08-28, version 8.16.2* You have to spend so much money in credits… accounts are not been filtered properly, a supposedly verified account finished been a scammer… ### 1/5 — Warning *2026-08-27, version 8.16.2* Ashley Madison Review ⚠️ Rating: 1/5 His profile said: “Not looking to change my situation or yours.” We chatted a few months; within one month of being intimate he left his wife. I felt recruited, responsible, and carried all the chaos for 3 years — like being stuck in a washing machine non‑stop. After he discarded me, I needed therapy for PTSD, hypervigilance, and nervous system collapse. My advice: If a guy leaves his wife almost immediately after you become intimate — turn around, say “Thank you, but this is not mine to hold” — and walk away. That burden is not yours to carry. His words were a lie; the platform offers no protection against misleading intentions. Don’t make my mistake. Copy this directly — it’s tight, honest, and includes every key point exactly as you said. 💛 ### 1/5 — Account *2026-08-27, version 8.16.2* My account doesn’t get approved when I don’t want to verify with my ID because I find it very personal ### 1/5 — Fake Accounts Galore *2026-08-26, version 8.16.2* So many fake accounts that just eat up all of your credits ### 1/5 — There’s barely any one on here in Austin TX *2026-08-25, version 8.16.1* It’s basically the same 5 profiles. There’s really no one on here and no one will show their face. So you have no clue if there is anyone half way decent ### 1/5 — Too many paywalls *2026-08-25, version 8.16.1* Decided to check out this app as a way to find a hook up or two… too bad it’s pay walls for days! Wanna message someone… paywall… wanna like them…. Pay walls….. Also the credits are minimum 100 credits at somewhere around .60 per credit…. Nah find something else ### 4/5 — Fakes - Catfish - Rude Ladies *2026-08-24, version 8.16.0* Been on around 5 weeks. Cant hardly weed through the fakes and scams fast enough. New members are particularly vulnerable and targeted. They will say the nicest things ever. Or promise you the world. Really they just want your money. A good number are not even ladies - just my opinion. If you really want to make your new crush show their cards ask them for a phone call. Better yet a video call. They will say I’m busy, I’m tired, going golfing with my aunt. Anything not to talk to you!! If you keep insisting they will say don’t you trust me and make you feel guilty for wondering if they are real (they are not). If you try too hard they will wipe the chat and block you. Had 5-10 play nice, get my number and immediately block me so I couldn’t see their profile or write them back. The real live women also freak out if you try to talk to them. 95 percent apparently want to be courted and you pay for every message. I think there is a contest with the scammers. Whoever can get some of my money first wins. No luck so far guys!! Rude: real (I think) ladies will keep you dangling. Eventually they want a man right? They don’t act like it. They will start a chat on AM or another app and disappear in the middle of it. They might come back in ten minutes or two days. Or you chat great for two days and they never come back. Could you just say it’s been nice but I’m closing out this chat. Say something. Some men deserve nasty treatment but not all of us. Enough for tonight. Frustrating but we still hope the one is out there. ### 1/5 — Disappointing *2026-08-23, version 8.16.0* I have yet to find anyone that’s seems to be real. All appears to be bots, fake or scammers. Disappointing ### 1/5 — Put the new messages on the top scrolling to find a message is terrible *2026-08-23, version 8.16.0* New messages should be on top ### 1/5 — App Filters = App Failure *2026-08-22, version 8.16.0* In the app I’ve attempted to set the filters specific to what/whom I’m seeking numerous times with zero success. I’ve reached out to support/customer service three different times and have learned they’re nonexistent. I’ve since discovered that all features seem to work when logging in online via my tablet. Skip the app. It sucks!! ### 3/5 — AM used to be better. *2026-08-22, version 8.16.0* I have used AM many years ago and it was a lot better than now. Why taking forever to approve a new picture to post publicly? My account was verified with my driver license picture. Still a lot of pictures were not posted publicly but privately by AM. Men are too cheap to send messages. Good luck for those cheap men to find sexy women. ### 1/5 — Fake profiles *2026-08-21, version 8.16.0* Too make fake profiles and bots. Also it’s too expensive ### 1/5 — Scams *2026-08-21, version 8.16.0* If you’re not getting scammed by the people who actually own and run a.m. then they’re just allowing nonsense the trans Fire. Stolen photos fake phone numbers 29 out of 30. I’ll guarantee your garbage and not real or they are looking just to gather one piece of information from each of us. One piece of information here with your name with your phone number. They’re halfway to your Social Security number. ### 1/5 — Terrible *2026-08-21, version 8.16.0* Just terrible. Not user friendly at ALL. You sign up and can’t access the platform without verifying your email but then again they don’t send any emails to verify, not in your spam folder or anywhere. CS responds several days later after misreading your issue. A week later, just like magic, you do get a verification message. Log in and upload photos: several disappear at different times without explanation so you try to check what others see but you can’t preview your own profile. In the meantime your profile is getting zero attention since the pic vanished so you try to resubmit. Asked if you want to make it a profile pic, even when you agree, it doesn’t end up as a profile pic because the option to turn it into one is available again just like magic. You try to add other non profile pix, app asks you if you’d like to hide anything in it by suggesting masks etc. I request to cover part of the face or something else…but the pic suddenly disappears again with NO notice. I had a full public NON profile pic turned private turned public that always vanishes: I’m dressed in a seat shown up to the nose. If it’s against their policies for whatever strange reason, are we supposed to figure that out? Why suggest masks etc then? Now I’m trying to upload a new pic and the app would only import it fully blurred from iCloud for some other strange reason. DEFINITELY not recommended. ### 1/5 — Complete garbage *2026-08-21, version 8.16.0* Profile verification means nothing. I’ve encountered several id verified profiles that quickly wanted to chat on WhatsApp, a huge red flag. When I suggested other platforms, they blocked me. Ashely Madison doesn’t care about this as they are only concerned with their ill gotten gain. Am has declined below worthless over the recent years. At least 95% of profiles are fake. Even some of the verified profiles are fake. If most of the stats section is ask me, they are fake. I’m cautiously burning up my last bit of credits and will never return to this completely fake app. Support is nonexistent and does absolutely nothing besides giving false responses ### 1/5 — Don’t waste your money! *2026-08-21, version 8.16.0* The app itself is fine but sometimes has a few functionality issues. The service itself is absolutely abhorent. As a male user, it’s full of spam and bots. There are so many fake profiles that constantly bombard you with messages. There is a function in the app to report fake profiles, but it doesn’t work. AM needs to do a better job of incorporating spam detection for their customers. Becareful gentlemen, you will lose money quickly on fake profiles. Also, you used to have the ability to categorize married/single women. They’ve done away with this capability. Bring it back! ## Most critical reviews (10 lowest-rated) ### 1/5 — You still do not Put the new messages on the top ! scrolling to find a message is terrible *2026-09-07, version 8.17.0* New messages should be on top ### 1/5 — Disappointed *2026-09-07, version 8.17.0* The app won’t even allow me to upload the profile picture that I want. Very annoying ### 1/5 — This app is full of BOTS *2026-09-03, version 8.17.0* Been on this app for about a month You message somebody, be nice and cordial with a good intention And you never get a response. The only profiles that hit you up are out of state.. They do not have a picture They do not have a description And they start with the same exact intro How are you doing, handsome?? This app is nothing but a money pit to get you keep purchasing tokens so you can have conversation with absolutely nobody I’m assuming the bots are employees of Ashley Madison. To string you along. Do not waste your time and money on this stupid app.. ### 1/5 — Fraud *2026-09-03, version 8.17.0* Scam ### 1/5 — No *2026-09-03, version 8.17.0* Terrible app don’t bother ### 1/5 — 0 stars *2026-09-03, version 8.17.0* Do not download. This is a waste of money. In theory, could be a great app. Prices are ridiculous. ### 1/5 — No Authenticator App worked. Locked out of account. *2026-09-01, version 8.16.2* I wanted security. So I decided to use a code authentication method for logins. Now, I can’t login to my account. The customer service is a joke. ### 1/5 — Too much to sort thru *2026-09-01, version 8.16.2* Messages have no sort capability.. too many bots sending fake winks . ### 1/5 — Too costly. *2026-08-31, version 8.16.2* Pretty expensive. Probably going to cancel after my coins are used up. Feels like extortion. ### 1/5 — Be careful *2026-08-31, version 8.16.2* If you have $$$$ to spare and don’t mind spending it, pretty much whenever you want to send messages and also enjoy weeding through fake profiles and scam messages, this app may be for you! ## Most praised reviews (10 highest-rated) ### 5/5 — Hot *2026-08-29, version 8.16.2* I love the great connections I’ve made. ### 5/5 — Too many fake people *2026-08-24, version 8.16.1* Everyone is fake this site is a waste of time and money! ### 5/5 — Great experience *2026-08-20, version 8.16.0* Really enjoyed the experience. The app is easy to use, and it’s a good place to meet new people and have interesting conversations. So far, I’m enjoying it and would recommend it to others. ### 5/5 — A classy way to disappoint Jesus *2026-08-18, version 8.15.0* It helps me get a boner. ### 5/5 — Lovely *2026-08-11, version 8.15.0* The fastest way to fine companion ### 5/5 — First Timer *2026-06-24, version 8.12.0* Amazed ### 5/5 — Great *2026-06-22, version 8.11.1* Love it ### 5/5 — Wow *2026-06-05, version 8.10.0* I love it 🥰 ### 5/5 — My review *2026-05-07, version 8.8.0* Great so far. Happy to see where it goes ### 5/5 — Es mi primera app *2026-04-19, version 8.7.0* Aún no inicio pero podría gustarme estar aquí --- *Data collected daily from the US App Store and indexed by [AppsHunter](https://appshunter.io/). User reviews are verbatim App Store reviews. Ratings, prices and chart positions refresh continuously; this snapshot is from 2026-09-15.*