# Ask Lily — Decision making for children

> Interactive educational app for children to learn decision-making and build self-esteem. (iPhone/iPad app by Janet Ng.)

- Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/ask-lily/id1454720488 (this page in markdown: same URL + `.md`)
- Developer: [Janet Ng](https://appshunter.io/developer/1440827320)
- Category: Education
- Price: Free
- Rating: 4.00/5 from 1 App Store ratings · 1 written reviews indexed
- Age rating: 4+
- Requires: iOS 11.0 · 197 MB
- Languages: English
- Released: 2019-03-11
- Data updated: 2026-06-10
- Monetization: free
- User reviews in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/ask-lily/id1454720488/reviews.md

## What is Ask Lily?

Read, watch, and listen to "Ask Lily" - a fun and engaging way for young children to learn simple decision-making skills that can help them make good choices, as well as help them stay out of harm's way should they be receive negative action messages from other sources.  Lily also helps build self esteem with random affirmations.

Lily (who by the way is a real dog, living in Texas) gently guides the child via video and printed text through the decision-making process, arriving at a sound answer after a thoughtful series of Yes/No questions.  As you can see in the question algorithm below, the child is finally guided to a grownup for consultation whenever the motivation to do something has come from a negative source, as well as for permission when it appears the desire to do something is the child's own positive motivation.  

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The questions are provided depending on the child’s yes/no responses, in the following algorithm.

QUESTIONS and ANSWERS:

**Do you have an important decision to make about something you're thinking about doing?

    No: Well, if something comes up later, I hope you will come back and talk with me about it.
    Yes: If you do this, will it hurt anyone?
          No: (next question)
          Yes: Did someone tell you to do this?
                Yes: Please talk to a trusted grownup about this right now before you do anything else.
                No: Do not do it.
   

**If you do this, will it hurt you?
          No: (next question)
          Yes: Did someone tell you to do this?
                Yes: Please talk to a trusted grownup about this right now before you do anything else.
                No: Do not do it.

If you do this, will it make anyone sad?
          No: (next question)
          Yes: Did someone tell you to do this?
                Yes: Please talk to a trusted grownup about this right now before you do anything else.
                No: Do not do it.

**Can you get in trouble if you do this?
          No: (next question)
          Yes: Did someone tell you to do this?
                Yes: Please talk to a trusted grownup about this right now before you do anything else.
                No: Do not do it.

**Is it a bad thing?
        No: (next question)
          Yes: Did someone tell you to do this?
                Yes: Please talk to a trusted grownup about this right now before you do anything else.
                No: Do not do it.

**Is it a good thing?
      Yes: It sounds like it might be okay - but just to be sure, make sure to get permission from a grownup, first.
      No: Did someone tell you to do this?
                Yes: Please talk to a trusted grownup about this right now before you do anything else.
                No: Do not do it.
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AFFIRMATIONS STAR:

When the child taps the star button, Lily provides a random affirmation.  Below is a list of included affirmations:

1. You are very helpful.
2. You are friendly. I like you.
3. You are very kind.
4. You are smart.
5. You are strong and brave.
6. You are so loving.
7.  I love you.
8.  You are very special.
9.  You are so fun to play with.
10.  You are strong and courageous.
11.  You get better and better, everyday.
12.  Your family and friends love you just the way you are.
13.  You, my friend, are very creative.
14.  Whatever you do, you always give your best.
15.  You are totally awesome.
16.  You are a really good friend.
17.  You are so thoughtful and kind.
18.  You are strong on the inside, and out.
19.  You are perfect just the way you are.
20.  You are important.
21.  You are very good.
22.  You are a winner, my friend.
23.  You deserve all the love and happiness in the whole wide world.
24.  You are beautiful.
25.  You are like a bright and shining star.
26.  I like you.
27.  I believe in you.
28.  You are my little sunshine.
29.  I like you because you are honest.

## Key features

- Interactive decision-making guidance
- Positive affirmations for self-esteem
- Video and text-based learning
- Safety-focused decision algorithms
- Encourages seeking adult consultation

## Recent user reviews (1 of 1)

All indexed reviews: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/ask-lily/id1454720488/reviews.md

### 4/5 — How do u know the decision

*2020-02-22, version 1.0.1*

I wish u could say what ur decision is I don’t have yes or no questions

**Developer response:** You can say what your decision is when you start.  :-) Then answer Lily’s yes/no questions to help you think it through before you do anything.  In the end, Lily will tell you if your decision is a good one.

## Frequently asked questions about Ask Lily

### How does Ask Lily teach decision making?

Ask Lily guides children through a series of yes/no questions to help them analyze potential actions. The app uses a structured algorithm to lead them to sound conclusions or to consult a trusted adult.

### What kind of affirmations does Ask Lily offer?

Ask Lily provides random affirmations designed to build self-esteem. Tapping the star button reveals a positive message to encourage the child.

### Is Ask Lily suitable for very young children?

Yes, Ask Lily is rated for ages 4 and up, making it appropriate for young children. The content is designed to be engaging and easy to understand for this age group.

### What devices is Ask Lily available on?

Ask Lily is available on iPhone, iPad, and iPod. It is designed to be accessible on Apple mobile devices.

### How often is Ask Lily updated?

The app was last updated on May 5, 2020, with version 1.0.2. Further update frequency is not specified but indicates ongoing development.

### Does Ask Lily have ads?

The provided data does not indicate the presence of advertisements in Ask Lily. It is listed as a free application.

### Can children use Ask Lily independently?

While the app guides children through decisions, the algorithm often prompts them to consult a grownup for permission or when dealing with negative influences. This encourages responsible decision-making with adult guidance.

### What is the learning methodology behind Ask Lily?

Ask Lily employs a guided inquiry approach, using a question-and-answer format to help children reason through choices. This method encourages critical thinking and problem-solving skills.

## Version history (last 1 release)

### 1.0.2 — 2020-05-05

Upgraded to iOS 11.

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