# BeeDee \| Beyond Vanilla Dating — With the non-vanilla test > BDSM compatibility dating app based on personality quiz results. (iPhone/iPad app by Beedee.) - Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/beedee-beyond-vanilla-dating/id1614103533 (this page in markdown: same URL + `.md`) - Developer: [Beedee](https://appshunter.io/developer/1666946940) - Category: Social Networking, Lifestyle - Price: Free with in-app purchases - Rating: 3.50/5 from 59 App Store ratings · 39 written reviews indexed - Age rating: 17+ - Requires: iOS 16.4 · 58 MB - Languages: American English - Released: 2022-12-05 - Data updated: 2026-08-25 - Monetization: free with in-app purchases - User reviews in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/beedee-beyond-vanilla-dating/id1614103533/reviews.md ## What is BeeDee | Beyond Vanilla Dating? BeeDee takes a personality first approach, helping you connect with people who share your desires, relationship dynamics, and lifestyle. Our smart matching system prioritizes compatibility, making it easy to find partners who truly align with what you’re looking for—whether that’s deep connections, meaningful relationships, or something more adventurous. Looking for a dating app that truly understands you? Find your people. Start your journey with BeeDee today. Download and sign up for free. ## Key features - BDSMTest compatibility matching - Pre-selected compatible matches - Dynamic role preference setting - Profile customization with prompts - Privacy-focused features - Link real partners ## Pricing and in-app purchases Base price: Free. **Subscriptions** | Subscription | Price | Period | | --- | --- | --- | | Premium membership - Monthly | $24.99 | per month | | Quarterly Membership | $59.99 | per 3 months | | Monthly Premium Membership | $19.99 | per month | | Monthly Premium Membership | $19.99 | per month | | 3 Months of BeeDee Premium | $44.99 | per 3 months | | 6 Months of BeeDee Premium | $59.99 | per 6 months | **One-time purchases** | Purchase | Price | Type | | --- | --- | --- | | "I'm invested" badge | $2.99 | one-time | | 5 Whips | $3.99 | one-time | | 1 Whip | $0.99 | one-time | | 10 Whips | $6.99 | one-time | ## Recent user reviews (10 of 39) All indexed reviews: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/beedee-beyond-vanilla-dating/id1614103533/reviews.md ### 3/5 — Good interface *2026-08-12* The interface is good and the option to send back to the queue is handy. One complaint: there needs to be a “last online” indicator. So many of the profile bios are clearly at least a year old and there’s no way to know if those users are still active or even have the app on their phones anymore. Because of this, using the “superlike” option is harder and harder to justify, since it might just be going into the void. ### 5/5 — This is honestly a great app, way more success than on Feeld *2026-06-26* Currently not a lot of users yet BUT because it links you with fellow kinksters who are compatible due to their test results it actually links up well and, as long as you’re able to string a sentence together, you can at least chat with folk with relative success. Have encountered a few fake profiles and the app REALLY needs to do what FABSwingers does and INSIST on verification via facial recognition software. For women (and men) worried about being scammed or even attacked, this app needs it to become a truly safe space. I have also found someone on it so overall I’m happy. The whips system works well, essentially you’re paying for likes. Personally I’d just stick with that and dump the membership thing. It is psychologically a much more appealing thing than having to sign up to ANOTHER app monthly membership. Good work whoever the developers are. Lastly I would like to have the option to have hidden images that could be more explicit, not allowing topless images of men seems a bit silly imo but I do understand that it removes that type of men so I get their decision. This is a really great app overall, just need to turn it into a truly safe space. **Developer response:** Thanks so much for taking the time to write such a detailed review! We're really happy to hear you've enjoyed using BeeDee and, even better, that you've found someone through the app. We also appreciate all of your suggestions; they've been passed on to the team. Thanks again for the kind words and for helping us make BeeDee better! Kind regards, BeeDee Team. ### 1/5 — payant *2026-06-17* en fait si on paie pas on peut rien faire 🤣 **Developer response:** Merci pour votre avis. La plupart des fonctionnalités principales de BeeDee sont gratuites, y compris la découverte des profils, les matchs et les discussions. L’abonnement Supporter débloque des fonctionnalités supplémentaires, mais n’est pas nécessaire pour utiliser l’application. ### 2/5 — Selecting a birthday *2026-03-16* Hi, When I was creating my account on my Macbook, I cannot change the birth date from March 16th, 2006 to anything else. I think this is an amazing concept for an app, but I just want my profile to be accurate. ### 2/5 — cant access *2026-03-14* it seems like a good app but i can’t get past the bdsm results, the app is constantly glitching so i cant even scroll dont to the continue button, i literally cant get onto the app **Developer response:** Hi, we're sorry this is happening, that sounds really frustrating. You should be able to complete that step without issues. Please reach out via beedee.com/helpdesk/ so we can look into it and help you get set up. Kind regards, BeeDee Team. ### 1/5 — Doesn’t actually work *2026-03-08* I was unable to get past the screen where you attach your test results. The screen just kept cycling and cycling, making it impossible to actually hit the save button and move on. So, my review is that it’s unusable. Will be deleting. **Developer response:** Hi, sorry this is happening, that shouldn’t be the case. That step should work without looping like that. Please reach out via beedee.com/helpdesk/ so we can look into it and help you get through setup. Kind regards, BeeDee Team. ### 1/5 — Do not use *2026-03-06* Barely let you match or speak to anyone and charged my account even tho i cancelled the subscription way before because they don’t allow anything and show me the same people over and over again **Developer response:** Hi, thanks for your feedback. We understand your frustration. If you’re using the skip option, those profiles can reappear later, as it’s meant for revisiting rather than dismissing. Regarding the subscription, please reach out via beedee.com/helpdesk/ so we can look into that for you. Kind regards, BeeDee Team. ### 5/5 — Solid and Promising, Great App *2026-02-11* Overall satisfied with my experience so far, app is very user-friendly and is well-maintained. I find most of the negative reviews to be moot as the app doesn’t charge for anything every other dating app doesn’t also charge for, and in fact seems to offer more free/unique features than most others. Pros: The test is seamlessly included in profiles, making compatibility easy to assess. I haven’t encountered even a single bot/fake account/scammer so far which cannot be said for any other app I’ve tried. Users are much more likely to actually read your profile here as the buttons to like or decline are placed at the bottom of the page. Developers are transparent, friendly, and helpful. Interface is easy to use and not cluttered, nor are there constant ads like other apps. Previously declined profiles can be reevaluated for free unlike other major apps. Cons: Free users are limited to 10 likes per day, though this is hardly a con in my opinion as it encourages more thoughtful matching. FAQ section, while solid, seemingly has not been updated in a long time. Website and in-app contact forms appear to be outdated or non-functional, but developers respond quickly on socials. Discovery filters are basic, only allowing for gender, age, and distance (+ignore/allow country borders). Again, overall a great app, pros greatly outweigh the cons for me. Sad to see so many negative reviews when my experience has been nothing but positive, would absolutely recommend. **Developer response:** Hi, thanks so much for taking the time to write this, it really means a lot. We're glad to hear the experience has been positive and that the things we care about (profiles, matching, and keeping things genuine) are coming through. We also appreciate the notes on the FAQ and contact forms, that’s helpful and something we’ll look into. Thanks again for the support. Kind regards, BeeDee Team. ### 5/5 — Solid and Promising, Great App *2026-02-09* Overall satisfied with my experience so far, app is very user-friendly and is well-maintained. I find most of the negative reviews to be moot as the app doesn’t charge for anything every other dating app doesn’t also charge for, and in fact seems to offer more free/unique features than most others. Pros: The test is seamlessly included in profiles, making compatibility easy to assess. I haven’t encountered even a single bot/fake account/scammer so far which cannot be said for any other app I’ve tried. Users are much more likely to actually read your profile here as the buttons to like or decline are placed at the bottom of the page. Developers are transparent, friendly, and helpful. Interface is easy to use and not cluttered, nor are there constant ads like other apps. Previously declined profiles can be reevaluated for free unlike other major apps. Cons: Free users are limited to 10 likes per day, though this is hardly a con in my opinion as it encourages more thoughtful matching. FAQ section, while solid, seemingly has not been updated in a long time. Website and in-app contact forms appear to be outdated or non-functional, but developers respond quickly on socials. Discovery filters are basic, only allowing for gender, age, and distance (+ignore/allow country borders). Again, overall a great app, pros greatly outweigh the cons for me. Sad to see so many negative reviews when my experience has been nothing but positive, would absolutely recommend. ### 1/5 — Maybe try hiring intelligent people *2026-02-06* It's obvious that the people who run this app are complete morons. It's virtually impossible to make any sort of real connection here and they want $20 a month? That's insane. there's a reason why your rating is so pathetic. i'm not a complete idiot so if you want me to come in there and whip the place into shape let me know. ## Frequently asked questions about BeeDee | Beyond Vanilla Dating ### What is BeeDee and how does it work? BeeDee is a dating app designed for individuals interested in BDSM and kink. It utilizes compatibility matching based on the BDSMTest.org personality quiz. Users take the quiz within the app or link their existing results to see profiles of people with aligned dynamics and preferences, ensuring more meaningful connections. ### What kind of relationships can I find on BeeDee? BeeDee caters to a wide range of relationship types within the kink community. You can find play partners, explore Dominant/submissive dynamics, seek 24/7 lifestyle relationships, or connect for open, polyamorous, or monogamous partnerships. It also facilitates finding friendships within the kink community. ### Is BeeDee free to use? The app is free to download, match, and chat. However, there is a 'Premium' subscription that unlocks additional features such as unlimited daily likes, seeing who liked you, a weekly Superlike, and increased profile visibility. This offers enhanced functionality for users who wish to invest further. ### What are the privacy features of BeeDee? Privacy is a key focus, with no nudity required or allowed. Profiles can be anonymous as long as they are real, and visibility can be hidden at any time. Safe search blurs NSFW images, and phone-number verification is used to ensure users are interacting with real people. ### How is compatibility determined on BeeDee? Compatibility is determined through the official BDSMTest.org personality quiz. Users either take the quiz within the app or link their existing result ID. The app then displays a compatibility percentage with every profile in your feed, ensuring that you only see people whose BDSMTest results align with yours. ## Version history (last 5 releases) ### 2.5.7 — 2026-08-12 Redesigned the Supporter and Superlike pages, payment stability improvements. ### 2.5.6 — 2026-08-07 Fixed an app crash in the chat screen ### 2.5.5 — 2026-07-18 Added more options on long-tap on a conversation, made it easier to copy part of a message. ### 2.5.3 — 2026-07-10 New: travel mode! BeeDee Supporters can now match in a place different from where they actually are. Profiles using this feature are clearly labeled as such. Also fixed bugs in chat and signup. ### 2.5.2 — 2026-06-21 You can now pin your favorite matches to the top of the conversations screen. ## Apps similar to BeeDee | Beyond Vanilla Dating | App | Rating | Price | Category | | --- | --- | --- | --- | | [Plura: Meet Partners & Friends](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/plura-meet-partners-and-friends/id1528252601) | 4.6 (1,942) | Free | Social Networking | | [Kinkotine](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/kinkotine/id1558564586) | 4.7 (333) | Free | Social Networking | | [Open-Minded Dating App:Fantasy](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/open-minded-dating-appfantasy/id1230109516) | 2.9 (303) | Free | Social Networking | | [KINK People - BDSM Dating App](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/kink-people-bdsm-dating-app/id1554727507) | 4.6 (2,125) | Free | Social Networking | | [Kinks: Meet Couples & Singles](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/kinks-meet-couples-and-singles/id1446392306) | 4.4 (502) | Free | Social Networking | | [FetD: Like Minded Social](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/fetd-like-minded-social/id1494308185) | 2.3 (37) | Free | Social Networking | --- *Data collected daily from the US App Store and indexed by [AppsHunter](https://appshunter.io/). User reviews are verbatim App Store reviews. Ratings, prices and chart positions refresh continuously; this snapshot is from 2026-08-25.*