BeeDee | Beyond Vanilla Dating

BeeDee | Beyond Vanilla Dating

With the non-vanilla test

69 ratings
41 reviews
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  • Released
  • Updated
  • December 1, 2025
  • September 5, 2026
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About

This dating app uses a scientifically developed personality quiz to match users based on BDSM compatibility. It filters potential partners to ensure shared dynamics and relationship preferences, streamlining the search for play partners, lifestyle relationships, or friendships within the kink community.

BDSMTest compatibility matching
Pre-selected compatible matches
Dynamic role preference setting
Profile customization with prompts
Privacy-focused features
Link real partners
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What's New in BeeDee | Beyond Vanilla Dating

2.5.9

September 5, 2026

You can now see which country a profile is in, see when someone unmatched you and you can earn rewards for referring friends to BeeDee

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Premium membership - Monthly

Premium membership, rebilled monthly.

$24.991 Month
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User reviews

NICEEE

I first I was scared that all the functionality will cost money but you can match as much as u want without spending money and overly the app is really well done to met new peoples and talk abt ur kinks and stuff I 100% recommend! The people now what they are here for and won’t judge you for your kinkss and fantasy .
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Response from developer

Thank you so much! 🖤 We’re really happy you’re enjoying BeeDee and that you’ve found it to be an open, judgment-free place to meet people. Keeping matching and chatting free is really important to us. Thanks for the lovely review and for being part of our community!

Mid so far

In my opinion, one feature that this app should include is a notification similar to those found in most apps, indicating when a user is currently active on the platform. This would be beneficial, as it feels like that users aren't very active on the app

Response from developer

Thanks for the feedback! We can definitely see why knowing if someone is still active would make BeeDee better to use. You’re not the only one who’s asked for this, and feedback like this genuinely helps us decide what to improve next. 🖤

Good interface

The interface is good and the option to send back to the queue is handy. One complaint: there needs to be a “last online” indicator. So many of the profile bios are clearly at least a year old and there’s no way to know if those users are still active or even have the app on their phones anymore. Because of this, using the “superlike” option is harder and harder to justify, since it might just be going into the void.
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Response from developer

Thanks for the feedback! We’re glad you like the interface and the option to reconsider profiles. We completely understand why knowing whether someone is still active would be useful, especially before using a Super Like. We appreciate the suggestion and have passed it on to the team!

This is honestly a great app, way more success than on Feeld

Currently not a lot of users yet BUT because it links you with fellow kinksters who are compatible due to their test results it actually links up well and, as long as you’re able to string a sentence together, you can at least chat with folk with relative success.
Have encountered a few fake profiles and the app REALLY needs to do what FABSwingers does and INSIST on verification via facial recognition software. For women (and men) worried about being scammed or even attacked, this app needs it to become a truly safe space. I have also found someone on it so overall I’m happy.
The whips system works well, essentially you’re paying for likes. Personally I’d just stick with that and dump the membership thing. It is psychologically a much more appealing thing than having to sign up to ANOTHER app monthly membership. Good work whoever the developers are.
Lastly I would like to have the option to have hidden images that could be more explicit, not allowing topless images of men seems a bit silly imo but I do understand that it removes that type of men so I get their decision. This is a really great app overall, just need to turn it into a truly safe space.
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Response from developer

Thanks so much for taking the time to write such a detailed review! We're really happy to hear you've enjoyed using BeeDee and, even better, that you've found someone through the app. We also appreciate all of your suggestions; they've been passed on to the team. Thanks again for the kind words and for helping us make BeeDee better! Kind regards, BeeDee Team.

payant

en fait si on paie pas on peut rien faire 🤣

Response from developer

Merci pour votre avis. La plupart des fonctionnalités principales de BeeDee sont gratuites, y compris la découverte des profils, les matchs et les discussions. L’abonnement Supporter débloque des fonctionnalités supplémentaires, mais n’est pas nécessaire pour utiliser l’application.

FAQ

What is BeeDee and how does it work?

BeeDee is a dating app designed for individuals interested in BDSM and kink. It utilizes compatibility matching based on the BDSMTest.org personality quiz. Users take the quiz within the app or link their existing results to see profiles of people with aligned dynamics and preferences, ensuring more meaningful connections.

What kind of relationships can I find on BeeDee?

BeeDee caters to a wide range of relationship types within the kink community. You can find play partners, explore Dominant/submissive dynamics, seek 24/7 lifestyle relationships, or connect for open, polyamorous, or monogamous partnerships. It also facilitates finding friendships within the kink community.

Is BeeDee free to use?

The app is free to download, match, and chat. However, there is a 'Premium' subscription that unlocks additional features such as unlimited daily likes, seeing who liked you, a weekly Superlike, and increased profile visibility. This offers enhanced functionality for users who wish to invest further.

What are the privacy features of BeeDee?

Privacy is a key focus, with no nudity required or allowed. Profiles can be anonymous as long as they are real, and visibility can be hidden at any time. Safe search blurs NSFW images, and phone-number verification is used to ensure users are interacting with real people.

How is compatibility determined on BeeDee?

Compatibility is determined through the official BDSMTest.org personality quiz. Users either take the quiz within the app or link their existing result ID. The app then displays a compatibility percentage with every profile in your feed, ensuring that you only see people whose BDSMTest results align with yours.