# Bristlr, dating for alt fans — Find your alternative match

> Dating app for alternative music and lifestyle enthusiasts. (iPhone/iPad app by John Kershaw.)

- Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/bristlr-dating-for-alt-fans/id943951836 (this page in markdown: same URL + `.md`)
- Developer: [John Kershaw](https://appshunter.io/developer/642903655)
- Category: Social Networking, Entertainment
- Price: Free
- Rating: 2.62/5 from 13 App Store ratings · 50 written reviews indexed
- Age rating: 17+
- Requires: iOS 12.0 · 4 MB
- Languages: English
- Released: 2014-12-21
- Data updated: 2026-06-10
- Monetization: free
- User reviews in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/bristlr-dating-for-alt-fans/id943951836/reviews.md

## What is Bristlr, dating for alt fans?

Discover a way to connect with likeminded people with that alternative edge.

We find all the local alternative-loving singles near you and make magic happen.

We've created more than half a million matches and several weddings. We've been beard-centric dating, on a global scale. Described by CNBC as the "Tinder for beards", and now with an alternative streak.

Sign up quickly and easily, and after answering a few quick questions you can start looking for your perfect partner. You can filter by gender, distance, and age, and instantly be matched with people looking for you.

Join the thousands of alternative scene enthusiasts who have already found love and friendship using Bristlr!

Bristlr works if you're straight, gay, bi, and/or just beard-curious.

## Key features

- Find local alternative singles
- Filter by gender, distance, age
- Quick and easy sign-up
- Facilitates matches and connections
- Inclusive for all sexual orientations

## Recent user reviews (10 of 50)

All indexed reviews: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/bristlr-dating-for-alt-fans/id943951836/reviews.md

### 2/5 — Can’t send messages to matches

*2025-02-11, version 3.1.0*

Possibly the stupidest rule on any dating site. You get a match, and can’t send them a message without paying for it. Upon writing this review, I had to double check this is the case, because it seems so pointless. In an already crowded market of dating apps, this only encourages users to walk away to one of your competitors. It’s a shame, because my beard game is strong 👌🏼

### 1/5 — Totally rubbish

*2023-03-03, version 2.6.0*

The owner should feel ashamed at the low ratings and if he was worth his weight in gold he could have changed this bristlir to make it better but instead he obviously is not bothered . The app does not connect you have to switch off phone put it back on and  it needs a revamp . I would not bother joining its totally crap hence the bad reviews

### 1/5 — Wisdom man

*2021-12-09*

I have liked eventually all the profile on the app but I’m yet to receive a like or message from anyone, besides that I realize they haven’t updated their application for over 2yrs now or more. Although it’ll be one of the best dating app if only they can update and have members respond to likes or messages.. Thanks

### 1/5 — Name is already taken?

*2020-11-17, version 2.5.0*

So apparently this is an app where you need a unique username, which means I have to present myself as Name1234 as if I’m an AOL screen name or something.

I’m a human being, not a fictional character. Lots of people have the same name.

### 1/5 — Worthless

*2018-12-29, version 2.1.0*

One month in and there are no new users to "like" after my initial use on day one.

### 1/5 — Not user friendly and shows incorrect matches

*2018-08-23, version 2.0.0*

I’m getting women’s profiles despite giving my preferences and so many clicks are needed to navigate this app. Yet it hasn’t been improved in about a year! Also finding many people use just one photo that doesn’t show them clearly. All advice for profiles recommends using multiple images of you not your car. Why isn’t Bristlr cracking down so it can rise in the ranks of dating apps?! Quitting it again and won’t be back unless it improves

### 3/5 — Was Really Excited...

*2018-03-27*

As a woman who loves a bearded man, I was super excited to get started with this app. The concept is so cool but so far everyone I’ve liked appears to be an inactive profile! They are all noted as being “online more than a week ago”, which is disappointing— they have great beards! I’ve expanded my search area to the near max and get very few new profiles to look at. Please Bristlr, this is such a great concept you have created, I just wish it had more available (and active) beards!

### 4/5 — Good but problems.

*2018-02-23*

The idea is great! But there aren’t many people on here. I wen through all the girls in 2 days, and it’s been a month and I’ve only had 3 new girls appear. Since there aren’t  a lot of users, not many people go on as there’s no one to look at.

### 1/5 — It's embarrassing

*2017-12-20, version 2.0.0*

I came to look because someone had told me this was some kind of new 'gender free' dating etc... the reality is it's just a gimmick with some really unconvincing upgrades you have to pay for.

### 2/5 — Maybe marketing would help.

*2017-12-03*

The problem with this app is simply that there is no one on it. It seems to list people in order of there last login. I live in an urban area and I set my radius to 50 miles, yet somehow the third person it shows me hasn’t logged in in the past week.
Kick some money towards marketing. This could be enjoyable, but it’s a waste of time.

## Frequently asked questions about Bristlr, dating for alt fans

### What is Bristlr?

Bristlr is a dating application designed to connect individuals who have an 'alternative edge.' It focuses on finding local singles who share similar alternative music tastes and lifestyles, aiming to facilitate meaningful connections and relationships.

### What are the key features of Bristlr?

Key features include the ability to discover local alternative-loving singles, quick and easy sign-up with a few initial questions, and filtering options by gender, distance, and age. The app is designed to instantly match you with compatible individuals.

### Is Bristlr free to use?

Based on the provided information, the app is free to use. There are no mentions of in-app purchases or subscription models, suggesting a completely free experience for users.

### Who is Bristlr for?

This app is for anyone looking to connect with people who have an alternative style or enjoy alternative music genres. It's inclusive and works for straight, gay, bi individuals, and those who are beard-curious, emphasizing shared interests within the alternative scene.

### How does Bristlr help users find matches?

Bristlr helps users find matches by identifying local singles with an alternative edge. After a simple sign-up and answering a few questions, users can filter potential partners by gender, distance, and age, leading to instant matches with people looking for them.

## Version history (last 5 releases)

### 3.1.0 — 2024-05-29

We've updated our notifications to give you more information and to improve reliability.

### 3.0.0 — 2023-08-08

Welcome to the new look Bristlr. More secure, more stylish, and more opportunities to find alternative-minded matches.

### 2.6.0 — 2021-07-17

We've removed Facebook so they can't be creeps, and we fixed a whole bunch of bugs making it even easier to find beard touching near you.

### 2.5.0 — 2020-02-05

We've fixed a few bugs, sped up the app, and generally given it a spring clean. Did you know that if you give a llama too much to carry, it just sits down and will refuse to move? We could all learn a lesson from the llama.

### 2.2.0 — 2019-02-04

More beards, more speed, more compatibility with iOS 12.

Still a bit ugly, but what can you do? Our budget is equivalent to a round of drinks in a medium-tier London pub.

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*Data collected daily from the US App Store and indexed by [AppsHunter](https://appshunter.io/). User reviews are verbatim App Store reviews. Ratings, prices and chart positions refresh continuously; this snapshot is from 2026-06-10.*
