# Butter: the IRL app — Meet people. Do your thing.

> Social networking app for discovering and hosting local activities with like-minded individuals. (iPhone/iPad app by Butter Pty Ltd.)

- Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/butter-the-irl-app/id6448511258 (this page in markdown: same URL + `.md`)
- Developer: [Butter Pty Ltd](https://appshunter.io/developer/1684906289)
- Category: Social Networking, Lifestyle
- Price: Free
- Age rating: 17+
- Requires: iOS 15.1 · 90 MB
- Languages: American English
- Released: 2024-07-19
- Data updated: 2026-08-25
- Monetization: ad-supported
- User reviews in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/butter-the-irl-app/id6448511258/reviews.md

## What is Butter?

Butter is where plans happen with people who actually show up.

Your friends are busy, flaky or just not into hot yoga at 7am on a Tuesday. We get it. Butter connects you with people nearby who are already planning the things you want to do - from supper clubs to morning hikes to that niche film screening nobody in your group chat cares about.

How it works:
Discover: Explore clubs, plans and ideas happening around you. Think of it as a feed for your social life - curated by real people.
Join: Something catch your eye? Request a place, or save it for when the mood strikes.
Host: Have a thing? Post it and make it happen. The right people will come to you.
Chat: Get to know everyone before you show up; no walking in cold.

Why we’re different:
You stop waiting on your group chat. No more ‘who’s in?’ followed by silence. On Butter, people are already interested - that’s why they’re here.
It’s not Meetup and it’s not a dating app. It’s smaller, more intentional, and nobody’s standing around in a circle wearing name tags. We're for the plans you’d make with friends, but with people you haven’t met yet.

Melbourne, Sydney, LA. More cities soon.

## Key features

- Discover local clubs and plans
- Join existing activities
- Host your own events
- In-app chat for attendees
- Connect with people nearby
- Curated social feed

## Recent user reviews (10 of 17)

All indexed reviews: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/butter-the-irl-app/id6448511258/reviews.md

### 1/5 — Slow

*2026-08-17*

Extremely slow to load. Every single time. Plz fix! It’s not my phone, it’s the app

### 4/5 — Good but needs work

*2026-07-14*

I feel like there are some flaws in this app with the notification system. I wish I had the ability to mute people without unfriending them. I don’t need to be notified about every single activity that every single person on my friends list joins. You really need to be able to customise notifications otherwise I’ve resorted to turning them all off because it’s just getting unbearable. There are other buggy things that happen such as the app prompting me to confirm my attendance to an event that has already passed or has been cancelled.

### 4/5 — Great app for the people

*2026-05-20*

Love the app, but it's not a 5 because some bugs need to be ironed out and a bit more money invested in usability. Otherwise, it beats Meetup and Facebook events fair and square. I hope it stays true to its roots once it goes commercial. Good luck!

### 1/5 — Great concept

*2026-02-19*

Be great if the ‘magic’ link didnt continually say its expired. Be good to simply get into the app.   Just let me set a password; not that hard

**Developer response:** Thanks for taking the time to leave a review. For bug reports and login issues, the App Store unfortunately doesn't give us the tools to actually help you - we can't access account details or troubleshoot from here.
For a real fix, drop us a line at hello@joinbutter.co or through the contact form at joinbutter.co. We'll get you sorted quickly once we can look into your account directly.
Hope to see you back in the community soon!
Butter HQ

### 3/5 — Changing States

*2026-01-06*

Hi, I like the concept of this app. I downloaded it because I am moving to Melbourne end of January and would like to meet new people. I downloaded it and tested it on my current place that I live Perth. Perth is locked though which is fine if that how the apps meant to work. But I am moving to Melbourne soon and I don’t see a way to change my location from Perth to Melbourne? It’s just stuck saying Perth is still locked. I would like to change it to Melbourne please so I can meet new people in a new city.

**Developer response:** Thanks for taking the time to leave a review Jak. We believe this one was sorted for you when you reached out over socials, but moving forward; for bug reports and login issues, the App Store unfortunately doesn't give us the tools to actually help you - we can't access account details or troubleshoot from here.
For a real fix, email us at hello@joinbutter.co or DM us in-app. We'll get you sorted quickly once we can look into your account directly. 
Thanks 
Butter HQ

### 3/5 — Good idea, but limited options at this time

*2025-11-04*

Sometimes you get a group interested in an idea, but you may feel you only resonate with one or two people in the group. Would be great if you could create a side chat or one on one chat with people you are interested in to perhaps plan something with individually. Or add friends so you can create mutual friendships.

**Developer response:** Great news - both of these features are live in the app now! 
You can DM anyone, and add friends and follow others to build your own community.
Make sure you've updated to the latest version and they should be right there for you. If you run into any trouble finding them, reach out at hello@joinbutter.co and we'll help you get set up!
Butter HQ

### 4/5 — I like the idea of this app

*2025-10-22*

I am someone that has organised events in the past and I am not surprised that a lot of the people that RSVP flake out of events it’s really hard to put in all the effort and people don’t show up. I feel like there should be some kind of thing in place for people that constantly RSVP and then. Don’t show up or remove themselves hours before the event and ghost or don’t give any reasonable explanation. This aside I have met a few lovely people and hope to continue doing so .

**Developer response:** Thanks for taking the time to leave a review. And you're right - when the minority flake it ruins the experience for the majority. We're building out tools to improve exactly this as we speak, and would love to have your thoughts as part of this to make sure we get it right! 
Glad to hear you've met some great new people outside of these experiences.

### 5/5 — Great way to meet friends!

*2025-09-28, version 1.16.0*

What an awesome way to meet new people and form new friendships. You can chat,  meet and join awesome clubs.

### 1/5 — Feels like Facebook meetup groups

*2025-08-27*

I was really keen to try this to expand my social circles, but honestly this is starting to feel like Facebook meetup groups in an app. Except those meetup groups even in melb have tens of thousands more people…

### 1/5 — Don’t bother!!

*2025-08-19*

You join a group and it states that it needs to reach 300 before your group can launch. However my group almost hit the 300 and suddenly we’re back to needing 243 to go. 

Also according to the app my group has 57 people signed up of the needed 300 but we’re apparently 51% there!!! What a joke. Don’t bother downloading you’ll never get to use it. 

It’s honestly giving data collecting pyramid scheme. 

I do not trust any of the positive reviews at all!!

**Developer response:** Thanks for taking the time to leave a review. To clear something up straight away - Butter is definitely not a pyramid scheme; the app is designed to help people meet IRL, and groups unlock based on interest so we can make sure there’s enough momentum behind them.
It sounds like the progress bar caused confusion; that’s on us. We’ve reworked how that’s displayed so it feels more accurate and transparent. Your group is still counted, and no one’s progress has been 'reset'. 
We've also just gone live to the first groups in Sydney, so hope to see you around the community soon!

## Frequently asked questions about Butter

### What is Butter?

Butter is a social networking app designed to help you discover and join local activities and events. It allows you to host your own plans and connect with people who share your interests before you meet.

### How does Butter help me find people?

Butter connects you with people nearby who are already planning activities you're interested in, such as supper clubs, hikes, or film screenings. It acts as a curated feed for your social life, driven by real people's plans.

### Can I host my own events on Butter?

Yes, you can host your own events on Butter. Simply post your plan and invite others to join. The app is designed to bring together people who are interested in what you have to offer.

### What makes Butter different from other social apps?

Butter focuses on intentional social connections and making plans happen without the delays of group chats. It's positioned as a more intimate and purposeful alternative to larger platforms, for plans you'd make with friends but with new people.

### Is Butter available in my city?

Butter is currently available in Melbourne, Sydney, and Los Angeles, with plans to expand to more cities soon. Check the app or website for the latest city availability.

### Does Butter have ads?

Yes, Butter contains advertisements. As a free application, it utilizes ads to support its services and operations.

### What is the age rating for Butter?

Butter has an age rating of 17+, indicating it is intended for mature audiences. This is common for social networking apps that facilitate real-world meetups.

### How often is Butter updated?

The latest version of Butter is 1.21.2, and it was last updated on July 5, 2026. This suggests a relatively frequent update cycle for the application.

## Version history (last 5 releases)

### 1.21.10 — 2026-08-20

Plans support multiple ticket variations

### 1.21.9 — 2026-07-31

Bug fixes.

### 1.21.8 — 2026-07-20

Bug fixes.

### 1.21.7 — 2026-07-18

Bug fixes.

### 1.21.6 — 2026-07-16

Bug fixes.

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*Data collected daily from the US App Store and indexed by [AppsHunter](https://appshunter.io/). User reviews are verbatim App Store reviews. Ratings, prices and chart positions refresh continuously; this snapshot is from 2026-08-25.*
