# CarpeDM: Date Black Women — Seize the Dating > Exclusive DC-area dating service for professional Black singles seeking serious relationships. (iPhone/iPad app by Carpe Diem Social, Inc..) - Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/carpedm-date-black-women/id1383599767 (this page in markdown: same URL + `.md`) - Developer: [Carpe Diem Social, Inc.](https://appshunter.io/developer/1455780292) - Category: Social Networking, Lifestyle - Price: Free - Rating: 4.30/5 from 106 App Store ratings · 20 written reviews indexed - Age rating: 17+ - Requires: iOS 16.0 · 74 MB - Languages: American English - Released: 2019-02-01 - Data updated: 2026-07-06 - Monetization: free with in-app purchases - User reviews in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/carpedm-date-black-women/id1383599767/reviews.md ## What is CarpeDM? WELCOME TO CARPEDM - The Fastest Growing DMV / DC Area Dating Service We’re the most exclusive DC based member-only dating community created for singles seeking meaningful relationships with professional Black women in Washington DC. We’ve elevated the Black online dating experience by providing personal matchmaking services to a vetted community of high quality singles using our patented video-first dating app. We’re online dating with a very personal touch. JOIN CARPEDM. FINALLY FIND LOVE. Whether you’re a professional Black woman, or someone looking to build a meaningful connection with one in the DC metro, here’s why you should apply for our exclusive platform: *Personal Matchmaking At Your Fingertips A dedicated matchmaker is with you every step of the way who deeply understands dating as a Black man/woman. We get to know your true needs and desires in a partner and guide you to your special someone by sending you matches curated to your preferences *Reclaim Your Time with a Dating App Done Right We know you’re swiped-out and we value your time. That’s why our tech is beautifully designed to enhance your life, not needlessly disrupt it. An alert from us means it’s time to meet someone Black and beautiful. *100% Verified and Exclusive Matches We only accept the best in the DC area! Through our proprietary one-on-one interview process and with our accredited background check partner, our team verifies every member’s identity and criminal history. We believe honesty and transparency are instrumental in any relationship and your safety is our priority. *Safe and Convenient Video Dates Chemistry is the key to a successful relationship. By requiring a 5-10 minute video date within 1 week of matching, you get to know your match from the comfort and safety of home before meeting in person. Only members that agree to remain matched after their first video chat are able to take their relationship to the next level. HOW TO BECOME A CARPEDM MEMBER STEP 1. Download the CarpeDM app, create a free profile, and submit an application to join our community. You must be at least 21 years old to become a member and be in the DMV / DC area. STEP 2. Once submitted, profiles are reviewed for completeness and community fit by one of our matchmakers. If your profile is approved, you are invited to reserve a time to meet your matchmaker. STEP 3. If you pass your matchmaker video interview, your application will be moved forward to verifications with our trusted partner. STEP 4. Once verified you’ll be invited to officially become a member. STEP 5. Peruse your curated, handpicked, and highly compatible Black love matches in the DC and DMV area. Seize the dating! MEMBERSHIP *All members receive access to our exclusive, vetted community of high quality singles, special content, and perks including expert dating advice, community engagement in our member-only forum, and exclusive partner discounts. QUESTIONS? WE’RE HERE TO HELP! Free Consultation:https://bit.ly/carpedmfreeconsultation Terms of Use: https://bit.ly/carpedmtermsofuse FAQs: https://bit.ly/AppStoreFAQs ## Key features - Personalized matchmaking services - Video-first dating approach - 100% verified and exclusive members - Safe and convenient video dates - Curated, handpicked matches - Expert dating advice ## Recent user reviews (10 of 20) All indexed reviews: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/carpedm-date-black-women/id1383599767/reviews.md ### 2/5 — They don’t have enough Men *2025-05-11, version 4.21* Carpe DM has not been a good experience so far. After paying thousands of dollars to receive 6 matches, I have only had one match. The match was wonky & did not match with me, yet it counted against me. The match said they been using the service for two years & only saw 1 person on a date. Other matchmakers guide you both to set up an in person date. I do not receive much feedback and regret using the service. I can’t recommend this service at all. It is worth $600 not anymore than that. ### 5/5 — So far So Good *2025-03-22, version 4.20* I hate matching with 40+ people on Hinge or other platforms and having to filter through them myself and plan multiple dates—all while managing an extremely busy life. CarpeDM came through. I read other reviews before joining, and yes, it is a tailored experience, so it takes time to find someone who truly matches you. I had a great onboarding process and told my matchmaker I only wanted 1 or 2 matches at a time—and they stuck to that. After one month, I had two matches. Both felt like perfect fits. The only downside? They lived about two hours away. But honestly, I didn’t mind—it gave me more time to get to know them at a deeper level. Overall, I highly recommend this service if you’re serious about finding your person and have the patience to understand that this isn’t Tinder or Hinge where you get 30 matches in a day. It’s intentional. It’s curated. It works. ### 1/5 — CarpeDM Review – Disappointing and Overpriced *2025-03-01, version 4.19* I signed up for CarpeDM in February 2024, hoping for a premium dating experience. Unfortunately, after a year, I’ve only received 5 out of the 12 promised matches. For the high cost, I expected better transparency and delivery, but it quickly became clear that the male pool is not large enough to support the number of women subscribing. Instead of being upfront about this, they continue to take payments while failing to meet their own match minimums. I requested a refund twice last year due to the lack of matches, but both times I was denied. Their solution? Extending my membership indefinitely until they can meet the required number of matches. However, of the 5 matches I did receive, only 3 were actual matches based on my preferences. It felt like they were just assigning men at random to fill quotas rather than providing quality connections. To make matters worse, I was even told that men in their late 30s to early 40s in the DMV area don’t want to date a woman with a child. If that’s the case, why take my money knowing they couldn’t match me? This experience has been incredibly disappointing. While the concept has potential, the execution falls short due to their lack of a balanced database. At this point, I feel trapped in a “death row” contract—paying for a service that hasn’t delivered what was promised. Unfortunately, I cannot recommend CarpeDM and would advise others to proceed with caution before committing. ### 1/5 — Not true matchmaking *2024-11-30, version 4.16* I joined for the 6 month membership with 4 matches, and 3 out of 4 matches wanted children when I was clear with my match maker that I didn’t. I gave them a height preference, that wasn’t met. I gave a weight preference, that wasn’t met. After the first match they stopped trying and paired me with anyone in the community which has extremely more women than men. Not worth your time. ### 1/5 — Terrible Matchmaking service *2024-10-15, version 4.15* After my first match I immediately asked for my money back. I could go through all the details but long story short, I would never in million years recommend any woman pay for this service -- unless you are just desperate to find someone. I met better quality men on my own irl and on Hinge. ### 1/5 — TERRIBLE…DONT DO IT *2024-10-01, version 4.14* Not only is the app very wonky; the service is a well. I am paid member and I have received 2 “matches” thus far. Both I could have easily found on me own. The kicker is, Carpe DM can show you a picture of someone and that is counted as a match. Now you may not want to meet that person and that person may not want to meet you. But it is still considered a match. Yes, you heard that right. As in my case, they presented a picture and a bio of a man that I had no interest in but said I would be a good sport and do a video call. He also felt that I would not be a good match so he didn’t want to do a video call. But he was still considered a “match”. So honestly, you could pay, they show you a bunch of pics and you never meet anyone and they will still have your money. Tell me how that is better than dating apps 🤷🏾‍♀️😂 ### 1/5 — Potential but not there yet *2023-04-27, version 3.8* This seems too good to be true because it is. They lure Black women in whether they service your region or not, obtain and keep your photos (even after account deletion request), and they try and hold your profile hostage until you pay a $99 deposit even when they’ve rejected your profile for being out of their region. ### 1/5 — Sent profile for “review” nothing since *2023-01-27, version 3.2* Whats the point? Collect all my info then im never contacted after the review of my requested profile. Dont waste your time. ### 5/5 — Where has this app been my life *2022-10-03, version 2.09* I love the streamlined and simplicity of the app. It has the best of online dating plus professional matchmaking. My only wish is for Android version so I can tell my other friends to join! ### 5/5 — Great dating app! *2020-02-04, version 1.9* Carpe DM is the future of dating apps! Less catfishing and more genuine connections. ## Frequently asked questions about CarpeDM ### What is CarpeDM? CarpeDM is an exclusive, member-only dating community for professional Black singles in the Washington DC metro area. It focuses on facilitating meaningful relationships through personal matchmaking and a video-first dating approach. ### How does the matchmaking work? A dedicated matchmaker works with you to understand your needs and desires, sending you curated matches based on your preferences. This personal touch aims to elevate the online dating experience and help you find compatible partners. ### Is there a cost to use CarpeDM? The app allows you to create a free profile and submit an application. While the initial application and profile creation are free, membership to the exclusive community may involve costs or in-app purchases. ### Who can join CarpeDM? To become a member, you must be at least 21 years old and located in the DMV/DC area. All applicants undergo a rigorous verification process, including identity and background checks, to ensure a safe and exclusive community. ### What are the benefits of video dates? Video dates are a core feature designed to help you gauge chemistry and get to know your match from the safety of your home before meeting in person. A required 5-10 minute video chat within one week of matching helps determine compatibility. ## Version history (last 5 releases) ### 4.25 — 2025-10-03 Bug fixes and improvements. ### 4.24 — 2025-09-23 Bug fixes & improvements. ### 4.23 — 2025-06-06 Bug fixes & improvements. ### 4.22 — 2025-05-28 Bug fixes & improvements. ### 4.21 — 2025-04-05 Improvements. ## Apps similar to CarpeDM | App | Rating | Price | Category | | --- | --- | --- | --- | | [High Reply: Meet. Date. 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