# Elate: Dating & Relationships — The Anti-Ghosting Dating App > Dating app for serious relationships with anti-ghosting and curated matches. (iPhone/iPad app by Elated Ltd.) - Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/elate-dating-and-relationships/id1504459301 (this page in markdown: same URL + `.md`) - Developer: [Elated Ltd](https://appshunter.io/developer/1504459300) - Category: Lifestyle, Social Networking - Price: Free with in-app purchases - Rating: 3.75/5 from 4 App Store ratings · 27 written reviews indexed - Age rating: 17+ - Requires: iOS 15.0 · 70 MB - Languages: English - Released: 2020-07-18 - Data updated: 2026-06-10 - Monetization: free with in-app purchases - User reviews in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/elate-dating-and-relationships/id1504459301/reviews.md ## What is Elate? Bored of swiping and sick of timewasters? Download Elate, made to make dating better. Elate is a free dating app for singles looking for serious relationships, not hookups! With less ghosting, less swiping and fewer timewasters. With unique features you won't find in apps like Hinge, Bumble or Tinder: THREE CHATS AT A TIME Less is more so chat with just three matches at a time for better conversations and less ghosting. The rest wait in your match queue until you both have a space to chat. QUALITY OVER QUANTITY We bring you a daily selection of highly curated recommendations, so you can spend more time chatting and less time endlessly swiping. MATCHED ON MORE THAN LOOKS It’s easy to find someone you fancy, but harder to find someone you like. So we match you on personality, values, interests AND looks. ANTI-GHOSTING We let you know if your date has moved on to chat with someone new, so you always know where you stand and aren’t left wondering and waiting. ZERO-TOLERANCE ON BAD BEHAVIOUR We have a zero-tolerance, one-strike and you’re out policy for any type of harassment reported. No exceptions! Don’t hinge your dating and relationship success on apps that rely on endless options instead of curated recommendations. Use an app with fewer timewasters or superficial matches that never say anything. Download Elate (elatedate), made to make dating and relationships better. ## Key features - Three chats at a time - Curated daily recommendations - Match on personality, values, interests, and looks - Anti-ghosting notifications - Zero-tolerance for bad behavior ## Pricing and in-app purchases Base price: Free. **Subscriptions** | Subscription | Price | Period | | --- | --- | --- | | Elate+ Subscription | $4.99 | per 7 days | | Elate+ | $10.99 | per month | | Elate+ | $29.99 | per 3 months | ## Recent user reviews (10 of 27) All indexed reviews: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/elate-dating-and-relationships/id1504459301/reviews.md ### 1/5 — App is a ghost town! *2025-08-01, version 1.0.1.2.9.4.4* Downloaded the app, it’s slow, buggy, missing core filters, in fact the filters don’t even work if you’re trying to use them, unless there’s no one around me for 5000+ km! Swerve this app, stick to the core ones. ### 1/5 — Can’t recommend sadly *2025-01-05, version 1.0.1.2.9.4.2* The app isn’t functional + no one available to swipe yes or no to so it’s kinda pointless anyway. ### 1/5 — Terrible filters *2024-03-13, version 1.0.0.3* I am a 22 year old guy why is it showing me ladies far older than me when I make it a match filter. This app has some serious UX issues ### 3/5 — Ok app idea *2022-06-05, version 2.0* App is good idea and would be great but. IT NOT AVAILABLE EVERYWHERE IN UK, It only useful in places like London,Manchester , Sheffield. This app should be useable everywhere not certain parts of UK ### 5/5 — Love this! *2022-06-01, version 2.0* The quality of the profiles were a bit hit and miss at first but they got better and scarily accurate (in a good way!) the longer I used it! ### 5/5 — Great support *2022-05-31, version 2.0* It’s not always easy to work your way through new apps, the support on this one was exceptional…….well done. ### 1/5 — Buggy *2022-05-04, version 2.0* Tried creating a profile via facebook, apple and phone and the app couldn’t process any of them. ### 1/5 — Not in north of England *2022-04-01, version 2.0* Long sign in, with lots of prompts and questions, to be told no one’s on from the north of England. Location on of the first questions asked so could have saved my time. ### 3/5 — There’s some potential but…. *2021-12-18* This app looks pretty good at a first glance but one major flaw is that it’s not as big as I thought it would be. I live in one of the most well known places in the U.S. and this app has mainly cites in California; New York would be the “closest option” for me but that’s a 3 hour drive from where I actually live. TL;DR: This app needs to expand its horizons ### 5/5 — A bit confusing at first but good once you get the hang of it! *2021-08-31, version 2.0* Really like what this app is trying to do. I like that you can only talk to three people at once and that it’s not just a bunch of bots and fake profiles. I’m guessing the other feed tab is supposed to make the algorithm for suggestions better?? but I reckon you should probably combine them with the suggestions one. Other than that though it’s really good! ## Frequently asked questions about Elate ### What is Elate dating app? Elate is a free dating app designed for singles seeking serious relationships. It aims to improve the dating experience by reducing ghosting, endless swiping, and time-wasters, focusing instead on quality connections. ### How does Elate's 'three chats at a time' feature work? This feature limits users to chatting with only three matches simultaneously. Once a conversation ends or a space opens up, users can then engage with others from their match queue, promoting more meaningful interactions and less ghosting. ### Is Elate a free app? Yes, Elate is a free dating app. While the core features are available at no cost, it does offer in-app purchases for additional functionalities or enhancements. ### What makes Elate different from other dating apps like Hinge or Bumble? Elate differentiates itself by focusing on serious relationships and combating common dating app frustrations. It offers curated matches based on personality, values, interests, and looks, alongside unique features like the three-chat limit and anti-ghosting notifications, which are not typically found on apps like Hinge or Bumble. ### What kind of matches can I expect on Elate? Elate provides a daily selection of highly curated recommendations. Matches are made based on a combination of personality, values, interests, and physical appearance, aiming to foster deeper connections beyond just initial attraction. ## Version history (last 5 releases) ### 1.0.1.2.9.4.9 — 2026-04-16 Performance updates ### 1.0.1.2.9.4.8 — 2026-03-30 Bug fixes, improvements and security updates ### 1.0.1.2.9.4.7 — 2025-09-11 Bug fixes and performance updates ### 1.0.1.2.9.4.6 — 2025-09-10 Fixed bug with onboarding getting stuck on family question. ### 1.0.1.2.9.4.5 — 2025-08-27 Bug fixes ## Apps similar to Elate | App | Rating | Price | Category | | --- | --- | --- | --- | | [Hily Dating App: Meet. 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