# FET: Alternative Dating — user reviews > 2,135 indexed App Store user reviews of FET by Ideawise Ltd., rated 4.32/5 from 25,495 ratings. - Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/fet-alternative-dating/id1478870872/reviews - App overview in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/fet-alternative-dating/id1478870872.md - Rating breakdown: 5★ 17,338 · 4★ 3,483 · 3★ 2,077 · 2★ 615 · 1★ 1,975 ## Is FET safe? FET: Alternative Dating appears safe based on user ratings. The AppsHunter Safety Score for FET is 86 out of 100. This assessment is based on 25,495 user ratings, with an App Store average of 4.3 out of 5. Of 25,488 App Store ratings, 81.7% point to a safe experience, 8.1% suggest some concerns, and 10.2% point to a risky experience. ## Is FET legit? FET: Alternative Dating appears to be a legitimate app. The AppsHunter Legitimacy Score for FET is 100 out of 100 points across 7 verification signals from App Store and developer data. ## What do users think of FET? Reviews of FET are mixed: the Social Networking app is rated 4.3/5 from 25K App Store ratings. What users like most: smooth app experience, respectful community. Top complaints: glitchy notifications and messaging, paywall for many features. Summarized from real user reviews. **Pros** - 🚀 Smooth app experience - 👍 Respectful community - 🔒 Strict moderation - 💡 Unique features like spanking and gifting - 👍 Easy to navigate - 👍 Ability to filter messages **Cons** - 🐛 Glitchy notifications and messaging - 💰 Paywall for many features - 🤖 Presence of fake/inactive profiles - 🚫 Strict rules leading to bans - 🕰️ Slow verification process - 📍 Lack of users in some areas **Commonly reported bugs** - Accounts randomly getting logged out - Issues with photo uploads and verification - Messaging system glitches - Inconsistent app performance on different devices **Most requested features** - Improved filtering options - Faster verification process - Better moderation of fake profiles - More inclusive gender/sexuality options - Ability to delete/deactivate account ## Newest reviews (13 of 2,135) ### 2/5 — Needs better incognito mode *2026-10-30, version 16.0.0* Too busy!!!! ### 2/5 — Scammers and more *2026-10-30, version 16.0.0* Pretty sad state of really a bunch of scammers here ### 4/5 — Great app *2026-10-26, version 16.0.0* Never once has it let me down lol ### 4/5 — My thoughts *2026-10-25, version 16.0.0* Love the site, bringing the best of me out, enjoying being kinky being myself exploring with others ### 2/5 — Fake *2026-10-25, version 16.0.0* People on here are just bots and not within my location, plus having to pay to interact is a scam ### 4/5 — Fet *2026-10-25, version 16.0.0* Sweet ### 3/5 — Options *2026-10-25, version 16.0.0* It’d be cool to more options to view ads, so you can actually communicate ### 5/5 — Love this app *2026-10-24, version 16.0.0* Love this app but is a little buggy ### 5/5 — Great *2026-10-24, version 16.0.0* Love this app ### 5/5 — Fun *2026-10-24, version 16.0.0* Very fun app even without paying. ### 5/5 — Fun *2026-10-23, version 16.0.0* Fun app. A little slow in my area though. But nice for connecting with others in other areas ### 5/5 — A lot of fun *2026-10-23, version 16.0.0* The sites a lot of fun met a lot of great people ### 4/5 — Wow *2026-10-22, version 16.0.0* App is pretty good. Get to meet a variety of different people to see what works for you! ## Most critical reviews (10 lowest-rated) ### 1/5 — It’s alright *2026-10-31, version 16.0.0* Not my first go to ### 1/5 — After talking a bit with someone, you aren't able to anymore without paying. *2026-10-30, version 16.0.0* I gave the app a 4 star and they just lost it. Went to message someone I've been messaging for about 4 months and suddely I can't message them. "This kinkster is popular. Upgrade to message them." This is the second time this has happened. I like this guy and now he's gonna think I ghosted him. This is a dirty, low down, cruel thing to do. Makes me wonder if the ones that I messaged and never got a response was because they couldn't due to this "Oops you gotta pay to keep talking" BS. ### 1/5 — Terrible *2026-10-27, version 16.0.0* This app is garbage. I had it for under 10 mins before I deleted it. Interface sucks, text is cut off, and no matter how many time you correct it, you’ll only see people thousands of miles away. Yuck! ### 1/5 — This is designed horribly *2026-10-26, version 16.0.0* You can’t actually connect with anyone unless you pay for subscription or talk in a group chat which I think it just silly like why tease being able to talk 1/1 to people and then ask me to pay hundreds of pounds to be able to and it’s janky as well and alround not very well designed at all sorry ### 1/5 — Very poor *2026-10-26, version 16.0.0* Absolutely pathetic useless app unless you pay. ### 1/5 — Load of rubbish *2026-10-25, version 16.0.0* The app just doesn't work. There's no one in the roster, and no one seems to know what they want when you do happen to match. Don't bother ### 1/5 — It’s not a safe app to be on *2026-10-25, version 16.0.0* Harassment, bullying, stalking, chock full of bots. It tries to do everything and succeeds at none of it. It’s a dating app that looks down on “seekers” and a fetish app that kink shames pretty much everything, run by an antiquated group of mean girls that have all been partnered up for a decade. It’s a safe miss. ### 1/5 — LOGIN *2026-10-21, version 16.0.0* Why was I kicked out in the middle of messenging ??!?! Like whyyy hello and it’s not my phone ### 1/5 — Scam *2026-10-20, version 16.0.0* App is a scam now, you need to pay to be able to message almost everyone ### 1/5 — Garbage *2026-10-16, version 16.0.0* Another predatory dating app, what a surprise ## Most praised reviews (10 highest-rated) ### 5/5 — meet fun people *2026-10-30, version 16.0.0* the he best app ever ### 5/5 — Bam *2026-10-29, version 16.0.0* This site is unbelievable. I love it. ### 5/5 — Kinky for sure! *2026-10-29, version 16.0.0* The fellow fetish lovers live up to their profiles. ### 5/5 — Best BDSM app *2026-10-28, version 16.0.0* I’ve been on a few apps that are supposed to deal with the alternative lifestyle and they have not come up to scratch fit life does ### 5/5 — Best fetish app in uk *2026-10-28, version 16.0.0* Like above, best gblt ap ### 5/5 — FET of strength *2026-10-28, version 16.0.0* Like its a strong app.. yes. Anyway…. GetFet. ### 5/5 — Fffffun *2026-10-26, version 16.0.0* Safe transparent space for all ### 5/5 — Bot *2026-10-25, version 16.0.0* Too many bots on here other then that good fun ### 5/5 — Responding *2026-10-25, version 16.0.0* Ehh ### 5/5 — Yup *2026-10-24, version 16.0.0* Up up --- *Data collected daily from the US App Store and indexed by [AppsHunter](https://appshunter.io/). User reviews are verbatim App Store reviews. Ratings, prices and chart positions refresh continuously; this snapshot is from 2026-11-08.*