# FET: Kinky BDSM Dating App — Love kink? Chat. Meet. Date.

> Kinky BDSM dating community for connecting, learning, and exploring alternative lifestyles. (iPhone/iPad app by Ideawise Ltd..)

- Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/fet-kinky-bdsm-dating-app/id1478870872 (this page in markdown: same URL + `.md`)
- Developer: [Ideawise Ltd.](https://appshunter.io/developer/719462186)
- Category: Social Networking, Lifestyle
- Price: Free with in-app purchases
- Rating: 4.30/5 from 23,555 App Store ratings · 1,908 written reviews indexed
- Age rating: 17+
- Requires: iOS 15.1 · 198 MB
- Languages: American English, Czech, Danish, Dutch, Finnish, French (France), German (Germany), Hungarian, Italian, Japanese and 7 more
- Released: 2019-11-13
- Data updated: 2026-08-29
- Monetization: free with in-app purchases
- User reviews in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/fet-kinky-bdsm-dating-app/id1478870872/reviews.md

## What is FET?

Tired of the same dating apps? At FET, you'll find an open-minded community where people can explore alternative lifestyles, discover shared interests, and connect with others who understand their perspective.

DISCOVER LIKE-MINDED PEOPLE

Finding and staying in touch with community members is easy with our newsfeed, messaging, forum, and live chat features. Join conversations, exchange ideas, and build meaningful connections with people who share your interests and values.

LEARN, EXPLORE, AND CONNECT

Whether you're completely new to alternative lifestyles or already part of the community, FET offers a welcoming space to learn and grow. Explore articles, discussions, and community-created content covering a wide range of topics, experiences, and perspectives.

FIND EVENTS AND COMMUNITY ACTIVITIES

Discover local gatherings, social meetups, workshops, and community events. Meet people who share your interests, expand your network, and explore new experiences in a respectful and supportive environment.

CREATE YOUR PROFILE

Build a profile that reflects who you are. Share photos, tell your story, highlight your interests, and connect with others who appreciate authenticity and openness.

PRIVACY AND SAFETY FIRST

We believe trust is essential. Profile verification helps members show they're genuine, while privacy controls and message filters give you control over your experience. Choose how you interact, what you share, and who can contact you.

WELCOME TO FET

Our vision is to be the world's most trusted community for alternative lifestyles. We provide a welcoming space for experienced members and the curious alike, helping people connect, learn, and explore in an environment built on respect, consent, and inclusion.
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The app is free to download and use. FET also offers an optional subscription package.

Subscription Service Conditions:

• The membership costs 18.49 USD / 19,99 EUR / 17.99 GBP for 1 month; 63.99 USD / 69,99 EUR / 63.99 GBP for 6 months; and 90.99 USD / 99,99 EUR / 90.99 GBP for 12 months (Prices may vary slightly depending on location and currency).
• Payment will be charged to your iTunes Account at confirmation of purchase

• Your subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24-hours before the end of the current period

• Your account will be charged for renewal within 24-hours prior to the end of the current period

• You can manage your subscription and switch off the auto-renewal by accessing your Account Settings after purchase

• You cannot cancel the current subscription during the active subscription period
• Any unused portion of a free trial period, if offered, will be forfeited if you purchase a subscription to that publication.


More details here: https://www.fet-app.com/en/terms
All personal data is handled under the terms and conditions of FET's privacy policy. More details can be found here: https://www.fet-app.com/en/privacy

## Key features

- Kinky BDSM dating community
- 24/7 newsfeed
- Free messaging and live chat
- Educational resources on kink and BDSM
- Profile verification for safety
- Privacy and message filters

## Pricing and in-app purchases

Base price: Free.

**Subscriptions**

| Subscription | Price | Period |
| --- | --- | --- |
| 1 Month | $19.99 | per month |
| 12 Months | $79.99 | per year |
| 1 Month | $21.99 | per month |
| 1 Month | $18.49 | per month |
| 6 Months | $63.99 | per 6 months |
| 12 Months | $90.99 | per year |
| 6 Months Premium Membership | $34.99 | per 6 months |
| 1 Month Membership | $10.99 | per month |
| 12 Months Premium Membership | $59.99 | per year |
| 1 Week | $6.99 | per 7 days |

**One-time purchases**

| Purchase | Price | Type |
| --- | --- | --- |
| 20000 Points | $74.99 | one-time |
| 10000 Points | $44.99 | one-time |
| 1000 Points | $6.99 | one-time |


## Chart rankings

- #54 in Top Free · Social Networking (US App Store)
- #34 in Top Grossing · Social Networking (US App Store)

## What do users think of FET?

Overall sentiment: neutral

**Pros**

- 🚀 Smooth app experience
- 👍 Respectful community
- 🔒 Strict moderation
- 💡 Unique features like spanking and gifting
- 👍 Easy to navigate
- 👍 Ability to filter messages

**Cons**

- 🐛 Glitchy notifications and messaging
- 💰 Paywall for many features
- 🤖 Presence of fake/inactive profiles
- 🚫 Strict rules leading to bans
- 🕰️ Slow verification process
- 📍 Lack of users in some areas

**Commonly reported bugs**

- Accounts randomly getting logged out
- Issues with photo uploads and verification
- Messaging system glitches
- Inconsistent app performance on different devices

**Most requested features**

- Improved filtering options
- Faster verification process
- Better moderation of fake profiles
- More inclusive gender/sexuality options
- Ability to delete/deactivate account

## Recent user reviews (10 of 1,908)

All indexed reviews: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/fet-kinky-bdsm-dating-app/id1478870872/reviews.md

### 4/5 — For

*2026-08-26, version 15.0.0*

Love it

### 2/5 — Need more options

*2026-08-26, version 14.6.0*

Should be able to send messages to who ever on app

### 5/5 — The worst experience haha

*2026-08-26, version 15.0.0*

I have paid for the premium version of this app just to see who is looking at my profile and so I get the read receipts, and there is so many bots on here. Or people thousands of miles away claiming to be in your town. But on their profile, it shows 2000 km away. Then they will ask for your personal information. And anybody that is real, will ghost you. Not worth spending money on and definitely not worth downloading.

### 5/5 — The best app

*2026-08-26, version 15.0.0*

I like it

### 1/5 — You can’t check likes

*2026-08-25, version 15.0.0*

when you like a profile, called “spanks” there is no wya to go back and view those profiles unless you memorized the usernames, absolutely garbage feature, the only way is to pay money to undo the like

### 1/5 — Can not log in

*2026-08-25, version 15.0.0*

I’ve been using app ok. Then after update it asks me for a photo to verify. Which I had already completed. I give it a photo anyway then it gets stuck pending. Saying it needs to be checked. Then never moves from page. Have tried re installing and usual things that fet suggests. It’s a shame.

### 1/5 — Awful app

*2026-08-24, version 14.6.0*

Devs are same as fetlife and are known to have fake accounts and horrible tech backing the site.

### 1/5 — Banned saying no dominatrix

*2026-08-23, version 14.6.0*

Banned and account removed saying they do not allow dominatrix. 
Sounds pretty anti-female to me.

### 2/5 — App has bugs

*2026-08-23, version 14.6.0*

Been on the app less than two days and it’s broken all the pictures on mine and everyone else profile says this picture isn’t available right now

### 4/5 — It’s been interesting.

*2026-08-23, version 14.6.0*

Slow at first but it takes a minute to find someone especially close by.

## Frequently asked questions about FET

### What is this app about?

This app is a dedicated community for individuals interested in kink and BDSM dating. It provides a platform to connect with like-minded people, discover events, and learn more about alternative lifestyles in a safe and inclusive environment.

### What are the key features of the app?

Key features include a 24/7 newsfeed, free messaging, live chat, educational resources on kink and BDSM, profile verification for enhanced safety, and privacy filters to control your experience. You can also discover munches and kinky parties.

### Is the app free to use?

The app is free to download and use. However, it also offers an optional subscription package for enhanced features and access. Subscription costs vary based on the duration chosen.

### Is this app available on all devices?

The provided description does not specify compatibility with different operating systems or devices. However, it mentions that payment for subscriptions is handled through iTunes Account, suggesting it is available on iOS devices.

### How does the app ensure safety and privacy?

The app prioritizes safety and privacy with features like profile verification, which helps confirm authenticity. It also offers privacy and message filters, putting users in control of what they view and share, and emphasizes safe, sane, and consensual interactions.

## Version history (last 5 releases)

### 15.0.0 — 2026-08-24

Improvement: We fixed a couple of nasty bugs to improve your kinky experience on FET

### 14.6.0 — 2026-07-15

Improvement: We fixed a couple of nasty bugs to improve your kinky experience on FET.

### 14.5.0 — 2026-06-29

Improvement: We fixed a couple of nasty bugs to improve your kinky experience on FET.

### 14.4.0 — 2026-06-19

Improvement: We fixed a couple of nasty bugs to improve your kinky experience on FET

### 14.3.0 — 2026-06-13

Improvement: We fixed a couple of nasty bugs to improve your experience on FET

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