# FET: Kinky BDSM Dating App — user reviews > 1,919 indexed App Store user reviews of FET by Ideawise Ltd., rated 4.30/5 from 23,555 ratings. - Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/fet-kinky-bdsm-dating-app/id1478870872/reviews - App overview in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/fet-kinky-bdsm-dating-app/id1478870872.md - Rating breakdown: 5★ 16,024 · 4★ 3,243 · 3★ 1,915 · 2★ 557 · 1★ 1,816 ## What do users think of FET? Overall sentiment: neutral **Pros** - 🚀 Smooth app experience - 👍 Respectful community - 🔒 Strict moderation - 💡 Unique features like spanking and gifting - 👍 Easy to navigate - 👍 Ability to filter messages **Cons** - 🐛 Glitchy notifications and messaging - 💰 Paywall for many features - 🤖 Presence of fake/inactive profiles - 🚫 Strict rules leading to bans - 🕰️ Slow verification process - 📍 Lack of users in some areas **Commonly reported bugs** - Accounts randomly getting logged out - Issues with photo uploads and verification - Messaging system glitches - Inconsistent app performance on different devices **Most requested features** - Improved filtering options - Faster verification process - Better moderation of fake profiles - More inclusive gender/sexuality options - Ability to delete/deactivate account ## Newest reviews (14 of 1,919) ### 2/5 — Unskippable ads *2026-08-29, version 15.0.0* Use to be somewhat decent and loved that you could get premium for a low week price. Now they have unskippable ads every time you open the app or try to message anyone ### 2/5 — Fr? *2026-08-29, version 15.0.0* A lot of games and fake accounts. ### 2/5 — Moar women please *2026-08-28, version 15.0.0* Far too much male attention ### 2/5 — Help desk Contact Challenges *2026-08-27, version 14.6.0* I’ve been an user for a few days and been unsuccessful in contacting The Fet App help desk. Specifically, sending a message through to the help desk. Thus, disabling me to utilize features to it’s extent, unlock photos of other users, view who’s interested in me, complete my profile, etc. ### 4/5 — For *2026-08-26, version 15.0.0* Love it ### 2/5 — Need more options *2026-08-26, version 14.6.0* Should be able to send messages to who ever on app ### 2/5 — App has bugs *2026-08-23, version 14.6.0* Been on the app less than two days and it’s broken all the pictures on mine and everyone else profile says this picture isn’t available right now ### 4/5 — It’s been interesting. *2026-08-23, version 14.6.0* Slow at first but it takes a minute to find someone especially close by. ### 3/5 — Meh *2026-08-23, version 14.6.0* It’s alright, other apps are better. ### 1/5 — Can’t *2026-08-23, version 14.6.0* Been days. Still havnt had my verification reviewed. ### 1/5 — Unsatisfied as hell *2026-08-22, version 14.6.0* We bought the premium talked to a few people but no meet ups the rest is getting harassed by old men not worth my time or money ### 1/5 — Everything is a subscription *2026-08-22, version 14.6.0* Don’t download, everything is a subscription, boosted by bot accounts ### 1/5 — Clickbait garbage *2026-08-22, version 14.6.0* Unskippable adds and charges you to do everything. Not worth it, just use the actual fetlife website. ### 1/5 — Don’t waste your time or money *2026-08-22, version 14.6.0* Lots of fake profiles and rude people. ## Most critical reviews (10 lowest-rated) ### 1/5 — Terrible *2026-08-30, version 15.0.0* Do not use this app ### 1/5 — Not worth it *2026-08-29, version 15.0.0* The free version has no real features. Anyone that “likes” your profile is hidden unless you have a paid subscription. I’ve had it about a week, and I’m deleting it. I don’t recommend it. ### 1/5 — Fake app *2026-08-28, version 15.0.0* The app is not real, no one on it is apart from apart 2%. Everything behind pay wall, paid to prove. Nothing there even when you pay Weird app ### 1/5 — App Doesn’t Work *2026-08-27, version 15.0.0* Worst app how do I even delete my account? ### 1/5 — Don’t waste your time *2026-08-27, version 15.0.0* I had a few people messaging but then they totally ghost me I don’t understand why we live in a society where you message someone then they don’t respond back. Also the spam accounts are ridiculous, you’re better off finding someone at a bar or on Facebook than this! ### 1/5 — You can’t check likes *2026-08-25, version 15.0.0* when you like a profile, called “spanks” there is no wya to go back and view those profiles unless you memorized the usernames, absolutely garbage feature, the only way is to pay money to undo the like ### 1/5 — Can not log in *2026-08-25, version 15.0.0* I’ve been using app ok. Then after update it asks me for a photo to verify. Which I had already completed. I give it a photo anyway then it gets stuck pending. Saying it needs to be checked. Then never moves from page. Have tried re installing and usual things that fet suggests. It’s a shame. ### 1/5 — Awful app *2026-08-24, version 14.6.0* Devs are same as fetlife and are known to have fake accounts and horrible tech backing the site. ### 1/5 — Banned saying no dominatrix *2026-08-23, version 14.6.0* Banned and account removed saying they do not allow dominatrix. Sounds pretty anti-female to me. ### 1/5 — Pay *2026-08-23, version 14.6.0* You have to pay for all of it. It cost $19 a week. ## Most praised reviews (10 highest-rated) ### 5/5 — More free *2026-08-29, version 15.0.0* Needs less payment access ### 5/5 — App *2026-08-29, version 15.0.0* Great app ### 5/5 — The worst experience haha *2026-08-26, version 15.0.0* I have paid for the premium version of this app just to see who is looking at my profile and so I get the read receipts, and there is so many bots on here. Or people thousands of miles away claiming to be in your town. But on their profile, it shows 2000 km away. Then they will ask for your personal information. And anybody that is real, will ghost you. Not worth spending money on and definitely not worth downloading. ### 5/5 — The best app *2026-08-26, version 15.0.0* I like it ### 5/5 — Having fun *2026-08-23, version 14.6.0* I have met a few ladies here ### 5/5 — First timer *2026-08-22, version 14.6.0* It’s okay ### 5/5 — Review *2026-08-21, version 14.6.0* Craig Arellano ### 5/5 — App *2026-08-20, version 14.6.0* Great app ### 5/5 — Rate *2026-08-20, version 14.6.0* Good app thanks for the upgrade ### 5/5 — Best *2026-08-19, version 14.6.0* Best app I’ve been on so far --- *Data collected daily from the US App Store and indexed by [AppsHunter](https://appshunter.io/). User reviews are verbatim App Store reviews. Ratings, prices and chart positions refresh continuously; this snapshot is from 2026-09-04.*