# helloPOLY: Polyamorous Dating — Poly Dating App & ENM

> Dating app for ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and kink communities. (iPhone/iPad app by Polyamorous Pty Ltd.)

- Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/hellopoly-polyamorous-dating/id1212811230 (this page in markdown: same URL + `.md`)
- Developer: [Polyamorous Pty Ltd](https://appshunter.io/developer/1169998605)
- Category: Social Networking
- Price: Free with in-app purchases
- Rating: 4.00/5 from 188 App Store ratings · 79 written reviews indexed
- Age rating: 17+
- Requires: iOS 15.6 · 158 MB
- Languages: American English
- Released: 2017-03-31
- Data updated: 2026-08-29
- Monetization: free with in-app purchases
- User reviews in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/hellopoly-polyamorous-dating/id1212811230/reviews.md

## What is helloPOLY?

Love doesn't always come in twos.

helloPOLY is an honest dating and community for people who love outside the mainstream — openly, and on their own terms.

Formerly PolyFinda — same community, new name.

How is helloPOLY different from regular dating apps?

Mainstream dating apps weren't built for the way you love. helloPOLY is purpose-built for people who are ethically non-monogamous (ENM), polyamorous, or seeking kink — so it's faster to find people who want the same thing, and you spend less time filtering out incompatible matches. Inclusive and supportive of diverse relationship styles, by design.

Looking for love? Friendship? Something kinky and fun? Someone to practice shibari or rope bondage with? There's room for all of it here — because there are more ways to love and connect in ethical non-monogamy. And you don't have to confine yourself to one identity: choose different styles of relating that interest you, so you find exactly what you're after and match with people looking for someone like you. New to the ENM or kink scenes, or experienced in both — helloPOLY helps you make real connections. Start meeting like-minded people near you today.

Who created helloPOLY, and why?

helloPOLY was founded by members of the ethical non-monogamy community to help people explore every form of ENM together. Its open-minded philosophy naturally draws people from the queer, BDSM, and kink communities too — but not everyone exploring ENM is into kink. So the app matches people on shared interests and keeps incompatible profiles out of your feed. It also has a particular focus on shibari, helping riggers and rope bottoms find each other to practice with.

For example, if you're after a kinky play partner or a shibari rope bottom, you can filter out every profile that doesn't list kink or shibari as an interest.

HOW IT WORKS

helloPOLY is free to join — find polyamorous, open, poly-curious, or kinky people near you in minutes.

APP FEATURES

- Inclusive profiles — choose from over 10 gender identities and relationship styles.
- Filter for exactly who you want — hide kinky profiles, or see only the kinksters. Same for shibari, and for monogamous or polyamorous. Your feed, your rules.- So much more than dating — helloPOLY is also where you'll find friendship, love, relationships, and marriage, shibari and kink events, local poly meetups, parties, education, and counselors and therapists who specialize in alternative relating.

helloPOLY PREMIUM

Go Premium to get the most from helloPOLY:

- Unlimited likes — like as many people as you want
- Unlimited messages and chat before matching
- See who's already liked you
- Boosted visibility — add your profile to the feature page for more likes
- Go incognito — only people you've liked can see your profile
- Superlikes to stand out
- Second Chance — revisit a profile you skipped too quickly
- Restore archived chats

helloPOLY Premium renews monthly unless you adjust or cancel it in your App Store settings.

FULL 1 month $29.99 (recurring)
FULL 3 month $39.99 (recurring)
FULL 6 month $59.99 (recurring)

Payment will be charged to iTunes Account at confirmation of purchase
Subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24-hours before the end of the current period
Account will be charged for renewal within 24-hours prior to the end of the current period, and identify the cost of the renewal
Subscriptions may be managed by the user and auto-renewal may be turned off by going to the user’s Account Settings after purchase

Privacy Policy https://hellopoly.co/privacy/
Terms of Use https://hellopoly.co/terms/
Community Guidelines: https://hellopoly.co/community-guidelines/

## Key features

- Inclusive profile options
- Customizable match preferences
- Multiple connection levels
- Search for kink and shibari partners
- Find polyamorous, open, or poly-curious individuals

## Pricing and in-app purchases

Base price: Free.

**Subscriptions**

| Subscription | Price | Period |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Females Membership | $9.99 | per month |
| Males Memberhsip | $9.99 | per month |
| Females in couple Membership | $9.99 | per month |
| Males in Couple Membership | $9.99 | per month |
| Non-binary membership | $9.99 | per month |
| Full Membership | $9.99 | per month |
| Full membership for Non-binary | $9.99 | per month |
| Full membership for Other | $9.99 | per month |
| premium | $59.99 | per 6 months |
| Upgrades give more benefits! | $29.99 | per month |
| premium | $59.99 | per 6 months |
| premium | $29.99 | per month |
| premium | $39.99 | per 3 months |
| Upgrades give more benefits! | $39.99 | per 3 months |
| premium | $39.99 | per 3 months |
| premium | $39.99 | per 3 months |
| premium | $29.99 | per month |
| Transfemale Membership | $9.99 | per month |
| Genderfluid Membership | $9.99 | per month |

**One-time purchases**

| Purchase | Price | Type |
| --- | --- | --- |
| 250 Credits for Female | $5.99 | one-time |
| 250 Credits Male | $5.99 | one-time |
| 250 Credits Female in Couple | $5.99 | one-time |
| 250 Credits Male in Couple | $5.99 | one-time |


## What do users think of helloPOLY?

Overall sentiment: negative

**Pros**

- 👍 Tailored for poly dating
- 👍 Good for ENM crowd
- 👍 Genuine app
- 👍 Easy to use
- 👍 Well-structured app
- 👍 Excellent UI
- 👍 User-friendly apps
- 👍 Intuitive to use
- 👍 Great way to meet poly people
- 👍 Good overall setup
- 👍 Legit and safe app
- 👍 Good layout and format
- 👍 Connects to poly events
- 👍 Great way to meet like-minded people
- 👍 App is working great
- 👍 Smooth and easy to use
- 👍 Allows multiple identity selections

**Cons**

- 🐛 Buggy and clunky
- 🐛 App won't work
- 🐛 All scammers
- 🐛 Can't get verification
- 🐛 Can't access account
- 🐛 Issues and bugs
- 🐛 Location not populating
- 🐛 Limited locations
- 🐛 Full of fake accounts
- 🐛 Not for Canadians
- 🐛 App not working
- 🐛 Never worked
- 🐛 Spyware concern
- 🐛 Insufficient users
- 🐛 Ghost town
- 🐛 Not finished
- 🐛 Slow and doesn't work
- 🐛 Account disappeared
- 🐛 Very few users
- 🐛 Clunky and stopped working
- 🐛 Lots of bugs
- 🐛 App doesn't work
- 🐛 Can't finish account
- 🐛 Can't log in
- 🐛 Doesn't work well
- 🐛 Can't load images
- 🐛 Not enough users
- 🐛 Can't edit settings
- 🐛 Can't finish profile
- 🐛 Doesn't open properly
- 🐛 Non-functional
- 🐛 Invalid URL error
- 🐛 Impossible to sign up
- 🐛 Can't sign up
- 🐛 Outdated iOS support
- 🐛 Verification not sent
- 🐛 Needs a URL
- 🐛 Waste of time

**Commonly reported bugs**

- App won't work
- Email verification not received
- Account creation failure
- Location not setting up
- Nothing populates
- Can't get verification number
- Can't access account
- System won't let enter location
- Location field remains blank
- App update issues with location field
- Signing up doesn't find locations
- Limited available places
- App crashes
- Events page crashes
- About page crashes
- App keeps looping back to select age range
- App freezes periodically
- Account deleted without notice
- Audio turns on when app opens
- Error: Try again later
- Avatar upload limit of 1MB
- Verification not sent to email
- App locked up and asks for valid URL
- Invalid URL error
- Can't edit matchmaking settings
- Save or next button is grayed out
- Doesn't load properly all the time
- Can't complete signup process
- Options hidden behind keyboard

**Most requested features**

- Allow uploading photos larger than 1MB
- Improve photo framing and rearrangement
- Add autocorrect functionality
- Increase search distance options
- Include imperial measurements
- Fix non-dismissible keyboard issue on iOS
- Add a way to rearrange photos

## Recent user reviews (10 of 79)

All indexed reviews: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/hellopoly-polyamorous-dating/id1212811230/reviews.md

### 5/5 — Polyamory

*2026-08-25*

Great site to checkout

### 3/5 — One more Tinder wanna be

*2026-07-30*

Can we stop making dating apps based on the swipe model? I just want to be able to look at all profiles that match my search criterias.

### 5/5 — Nice app

*2026-07-08*

I appreciate that this app makes room for real connection. I've met people looking for everything from friendship to long-term partners to community, and it never feels like the app is pushing one thing. You get to define what you're here for.

### 5/5 — Amazing app!

*2026-06-30*

I’d recommend this app, it’s great to see an app that welcomes poly, ENM and that you’re able to find like minded individuals and couples aswell as I like the fact there’s filters to find potentional matches in the kink aswell as shibari filters

### 5/5 — Cool app

*2026-06-20*

Cool app with a really welcoming vibe. Great for poly, ENM, and open-minded people who want to meet others without having to explain themselves all the time.

### 5/5 — Pretty good ENM dating app

*2026-06-13*

Didn’t expect much tbh, but I’ve met some really cool people here. Feels much more comfortable for poly and ENM folks than the usual dating apps.

### 5/5 — Finally for Poly Dating

*2026-06-09*

Finally, a dating app that actually feels built for poly dating, not just another vanilla dating app pretending to get it.

### 5/5 — Poly dating app

*2026-05-23*

Finally, a dating app that’s tailored for the ENM crowd!

### 1/5 — App Won’t Work

*2025-10-12*

Can’t even get an email verification or initial account creation to work. Is the app shut down now?

### 1/5 — All scammers

*2025-08-31*

Avoid at all cost total scam all users are scammers even the paid members are scammers had a woman try to get money out of by making a fake article about me being a rapist said if I don’t pay her 200 dollars she would post it and she was a full paid member will be reporting this site to Apple PLEASE DONT USE

## Frequently asked questions about helloPOLY

### What is PolyFinda?

PolyFinda is a dating app designed for individuals who practice ethical non-monogamy (ENM), polyamory, or are specifically seeking kink experiences. It aims to simplify the process of finding compatible matches by catering to diverse relationship styles and interests, reducing the need to filter through incompatible profiles on traditional dating apps.

### What are the key features of PolyFinda?

Key features include inclusive profile options with over 10 gender identities and relationship styles, customizable match preferences to specify what you're seeking (e.g., fun, dating, friendship, kink, shibari), and different levels of connection, allowing users to message without a match or bookmark profiles. Users can also specifically search for kink and shibari partners.

### How much does PolyFinda cost?

PolyFinda is free to join and allows users to find people nearby and chat. A full membership offers unlimited messages, boosted profile visibility, and the ability to see who has liked you. Full membership subscriptions auto-renew monthly unless canceled in app-store settings.

### Who is PolyFinda for?

This app is for anyone interested in ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, or kink. This includes individuals who are new to these scenes, experienced, or simply curious. It's designed to help people find love, friendship, or specific types of connections, including those interested in shibari/rope bondage.

### Can I find people interested in kink on PolyFinda?

Yes, PolyFinda has a specific focus on connecting individuals interested in kink experiences. You can customize your potential matches by selecting kink as an interest, and even filter for specific interests like shibari or finding riggers and bottoms for rope bondage practice.

## Version history (last 5 releases)

### 8.6.2 — 2026-08-27

Community Hub just got better with multiple event photos, clearer ticket links, broader image support, and stronger privacy and moderation. 

We’ve also improved photo uploads, profile browsing, and overall stability.

### 8.6.1 — 2026-07-04

Community Hub is here.

Explore groups, events, and forums created for the helloPOLY community. Share posts, photos, and images, comment on posts, and join conversations with people who understand your way of connecting.

We’ve also added voice notes in messages and screenshot protection for a safer, more private experience.

### 8.6.0 — 2026-06-11

Some bugs have been fixed!

### 8.5.9 — 2026-05-22

Some errors have been fixed!

### 8.5.8 — 2026-05-19

We’ve made a major update to the app to improve the overall experience.

This release includes significant performance optimizations, faster loading times, smoother navigation, and multiple UX improvements across key screens. We’ve also refined the interface, improved stability, and fixed several bugs to make the app more reliable and easier to use.

Update now to enjoy a faster, smoother, and more polished experience.

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