# HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating — Date Asexual, Bi, Trans, Women

> LGBTQ+ dating and community app for queer women, lesbians, and nonbinary individuals. (iPhone/iPad app by Bloomer Inc.)

- Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/herlesbian-and-queer-lgbtq-dating/id573328837 (this page in markdown: same URL + `.md`)
- Developer: [Bloomer Inc](https://appshunter.io/developer/573328840)
- Category: Lifestyle, Social Networking
- Price: Free with in-app purchases
- Rating: 4.40/5 from 64,059 App Store ratings · 1,679 written reviews indexed
- Age rating: 17+
- Requires: iOS 16.0 · 286 MB
- Languages: French (France), German (Germany), American English, European Spanish, Japanese
- Released: 2012-11-24
- Data updated: 2026-08-28
- Monetization: freemium
- User reviews in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/herlesbian-and-queer-lgbtq-dating/id573328837/reviews.md

## What is HER?

Join 14 million+ queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming folks on HER - the world's most loved LGBTQ+ dating & community app. Your people are here.

App Store Editors' Choice Award recipient 3 years running - HER is built by queers for queers. We're proud to provide a safe dating and conversation features for the LGBTQIA2S+ community to form meaningful relationships and gatherings.

Download HER and let us welcome you to a supportive and inclusive place filled with people like you.

All of our core features are completely free.

• Safe Queer Dating - match and chat with people from your neighborhood and all over the world.
• Community - hang out with others who have similar values, interests, or hobbies by joining as many of our 30+ communities as you'd like!
• Stand Out  - add pronouns, pride pins, gender identities, fun facts, spotify go-to's, and more to your profile. Be authentically you.

Unlock more features with premium!

• Incognito mode - no one can see you unless you like them first.
• Additional search filters - find exactly who you're looking for.
• Online now - send a real-time hello to someone online!
• Ad-free experience - we won't interrupt your groove.

See you around!
Instagram & TikTok - @hersocialapp
https://www.weareher.com

HER PREMIUM MEMBERSHIP






Her operates a global business, and our pricing varies by a number of factors. We frequently offer promotional rates - which can vary based on region, length of subscription, bundle size and more. We also regularly test new features and payment options.




Payment will be charged to your iTunes account at confirmation of purchase.
Subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off in the iTunes Store at least 24hrs before the end of the current period.
Current HER Premium subscription prices start at $14.99 USD/month.
Prices are in U.S. dollars, may vary and are subject to change without notice.
No cancellation of the current subscription is allowed during the active subscription period.


More details on HER premium can be found at:
http://weareher.com/terms
http://weareher.com/privacy

## Key features

- Safe queer dating and chat
- Join 30+ interest-based communities
- Customizable profiles with pronouns and pride pins
- Incognito mode
- Advanced search filters
- Ad-free experience

## Pricing and in-app purchases

Base price: Free.

**Subscriptions**

| Subscription | Price | Period |
| --- | --- | --- |
| HER Gold | $9.99 | per month |
| HER Platinum | $29.99 | per month |
| Her Premium | $14.99 | per month |
| HER Gold | $14.99 | per month |
| HER Platinum | $24.99 | per month |
| HER Platinum | $24.99 | per month |
| HER Platinum | $24.99 | per month |
| Her Platinum | $24.99 | per month |
| HER Platinum | $24.99 | per month |
| Her Platinum | $29.99 | per month |
| Her Platinum | $31.99 | per month |
| HER Platinum | $19.99 | per 7 days |
| Her Platinum | $31.99 | per month |
| HER Platinum | $31.99 | per month |
| Her Platinum | $29.99 | per month |
| Her Platinum | $29.99 | per month |
| Her Platinum | $29.99 | per month |
| Her Platinum | $29.99 | per month |


## Chart rankings

- #171 in Top Free · Lifestyle (US App Store)
- #40 in Top Grossing · Lifestyle (US App Store)

## What do users think of HER?

Overall sentiment: mixed

**Pros**

- 💕 Found my soulmate
- 🌈 Inclusive community
- 👥 Diverse user base
- 📢 Helpful community features

**Cons**

- 💰 Expensive subscription
- 🤖 Lots of fake/scam profiles
- 🔍 Limited search/filter options
- 🐛 Buggy app experience
- 📤 Inability to delete matches

**Commonly reported bugs**

- Repeated profiles showing up
- Incorrect location detection
- Accounts being suspended/deleted without reason

**Most requested features**

- Ability to set permanent location
- More profile customization options
- Improved notification controls
- Better messaging system

## Recent user reviews (10 of 1,679)

All indexed reviews: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/herlesbian-and-queer-lgbtq-dating/id573328837/reviews.md

### 1/5 — Weird

*2026-08-26, version 6.29.3*

They said it was an app for lesbians, which I myself am one, so naturally I went on, but no matter what men would always like or message me even though my profile says lesbian/attracted only to women. I don’t want to see trans men or non-binary, I only want women and it’s sad to see that it simply isn’t an option to be considered. When I did look and see if there was anything I could do to fix this, it didnt let me unless I paid. Why would I need to pay to only get women? That’s so weird and excluding to lesbians. 

Anyway, I suggest getting another dating app. Dont get this one if you’re only attracted to one gender, because they will always throw anybody and everybody at you.

### 1/5 — Scam

*2026-08-24, version 6.29.3*

Scammed no help.

### 5/5 — Good vibes only

*2026-08-24, version 6.29.3*

Good

### 4/5 — Great when the person is real

*2026-08-23, version 6.29.3*

The app is great but the chat is a little buggy and doesn’t refresh well. I have to go out and back in often. 
My biggest issue is the abundance of fake profiles. If I talk to 10 connections, 8 of them are fake people trying to get your off app to chat for a scam. Yes, they are fake and soon after you refuse they block you. HER needs to verify people better that they are real. An email just isn’t enough. Other apps do better.

### 1/5 — Nah

*2026-08-22, version 6.29.3*

Not enough engagement on the app like other dating apps. The girls are extremely desperate.

### 1/5 — Disappointed

*2026-08-22, version 6.29.3*

I’m already having a issue with the app can’t update the app

### 1/5 — Pleas change your ai face review to ID photos

*2026-08-22, version 6.29.3*

I’m sure the actual app is good but tbh I’m quite angry with it. I tried to make an acount as an 18 year old woman I have several health conditions that make my face seem a lot younger then 18 I was prepared to take a photo of my I’d to prove I was 18, which other apps do which I think is quite reasonably and important, but instead it wanted me to take a photo of my face and then let ai analyse it to work out if I was 18. which tbh I think is discriminative and exclusionary as a lot of people look younger then they actually are due to many reasons so then it blocked me from going on the app because some ai decided I wasn’t 18. I really think you should change this to taking a photo of passports and ids if you don’t want any other people to be excluded from your app.

### 1/5 — They do not respond to emails

*2026-08-21, version 6.29.3*

Have been sending emails regarding a cancellation for 3 weeks requesting a refund and a cancellation of the subscription and no one has gotten back to me!

### 1/5 — Unauthorised charges

*2026-08-21, version 6.29.3*

Not using this app again. Just got charged for the next week subscription few day AFTER canceling and deleting my account. This is not cool at all

### 1/5 — This app sucks

*2026-08-20, version 6.29.3*

Not only is there guys on here but after like 3 messages with people, they just stop responding. This is extremely frustrating.

## Frequently asked questions about HER

### What is HER: Lesbian & Queer LGBTQ+ Dating?

HER is a dating and community app designed for queer women, lesbians, bisexual, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming individuals. It allows users to connect with others for dating, friendships, and community gatherings through features like matching, chatting, and joining interest-based groups.

### What are the key features of HER?

Key features include safe queer dating with matching and chat capabilities, the ability to join over 30 communities based on shared values or hobbies, and customizable profiles that allow users to express their identity with pronouns, pride pins, and more. Premium users also gain access to incognito mode, additional search filters, and an ad-free experience.

### Is HER free to use?

Yes, all core features of HER are completely free to use. This includes matching, chatting, and joining communities. There is also an optional premium membership that unlocks additional features for an enhanced experience.

### How much does HER Premium cost?

HER Premium subscription prices start at $14.99 USD per month, though actual pricing can vary based on region, subscription length, and promotional offers. Payment is charged to your iTunes account, and subscriptions automatically renew unless turned off at least 24 hours before the current period ends.

### Who is HER for?

HER is specifically built for the LGBTQIA2S+ community, focusing on queer women, lesbians, bisexual, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming individuals. It aims to provide a safe and inclusive space for users to find meaningful relationships and connections within their community.

## Version history (last 5 releases)

### 6.29.3 — 2026-08-19

Various stability improvements and bug fixes to keep things running smoothly.

### 6.29.2 — 2026-08-10

What's new:

- When there are no events nearby, the Events tab now suggests people for you to discover, so you can always find your people.
- Blocking and reporting are now clearer with a redesigned Support & Safety screen, plus new in-app links for reporting illegal content.

### 6.29.1 — 2026-07-14

Updates and bug fixes

### 6.29.0 — 2026-07-07

Quality of life improvements for extended app usage

### 6.28.10 — 2026-06-24

Enhancement and bugfixes

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