# Iconist - Polyamorous Dating — Meet Singles, Couples, Friends > Polyamorous dating and community app for singles, couples, and solo poly individuals. (iPhone/iPad app by Iconist Ltd.) - Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/iconist-polyamorous-dating/id1541646049 (this page in markdown: same URL + `.md`) - Developer: [Iconist Ltd](https://appshunter.io/developer/1541646051) - Category: Social Networking, Lifestyle - Price: Free with in-app purchases - Rating: 4.70/5 from 89 App Store ratings · 14 written reviews indexed - Age rating: 17+ - Requires: iOS 14.0 · 64 MB - Languages: English - Released: 2021-10-01 - Data updated: 2026-06-10 - Monetization: free - User reviews in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/iconist-polyamorous-dating/id1541646049/reviews.md ## What is Iconist? Iconist is rapidly growing to become the best polyamory dating and community app thanks to our iconic team & members. Love is limitless, so why should your relationships be limited to just one person? Iconist the polyamorous dating app for individuals who want to break free from the constraints of traditional relationships and embrace their true selves. We offer a safe and inclusive space for you to connect with like minded people who share your values and desires. Iconist is designed as an alternative polyamorous dating app where you can express yourself with an eye-catching, detail-rich profile to find people locally or form long distance relationships. Our unique features allow you to choose the relationship orientation that suits you best - open relationship, polyamory, ethical non-monogamy (ENM) - to chat, meet, and date those who practice the same relationship style. Whether you’re a couple, dating individually, single or solo poly, Iconist is the place for you to build meaningful connections without limitations. Download Iconist to find the relationships you’ve been searching for within a loving community that celebrates diversity and inclusivity. If you’re already a member, update Iconist today to enjoy the exciting new features. WHY ICONIST? We believe that everybody is an icon. That's why we developed a polyamorous dating app where singles, couples and solo poly members can fully express who they are. • Specifically designed to find new connections based on their personality, hobbies and preferences • Create a relationship map to show a dyad, vee, triad, quad, kitchen table and other types of non-monogamous and polyamorous relationships • Flag unicorn hunters as a caution to the polyamorous community; this will show on the person’s profile for 7 days • Add a partner(s) and link them to your profile • Select what you are looking for - dating, friendship or both • Advanced privacy options for safe dating • Safe for single bisexual members and solo polys • Couples must have two individual profiles • Polyamorous parents can meet other poly families FEATURES UNIQUE TO ICONIST • See who viewed your profile • Send and read messages without limits • Read receipts for all messages • Voice messages • Send your location • Add a travel destination • Personality test • Personality dating match • Freeze your account • Choose your homepage • See mutual likes without paying for premium upgrade • Private photos/album • View singles, couples and polys on a world map • Polyamorous relationship map (up to five people) • Hide your profile from certain categories of users • Safe for bisexual, transgender and all LGBTQ+ persons • Advanced chat with voice messages • Special features for kink and fetish people to express their preferences • Advanced search and filtering without restrictions • And other surprises… ALL THESE FEATURES ARE FREE! (But donations are welcome) Iconist is 100% free: no ads, no pop-ups, no annoying restrictions. Please share the Iconist app with your friends and lovers to help polyamorous dating become more popular than ever! We welcome all communication, don’t be shy ;) email us hello@iconist.app ## Key features - Detailed profiles for self-expression - Relationship map for various non-monogamous structures - Flagging of 'unicorn hunters' - Add and link partner profiles - Select dating or friendship goals - Advanced privacy options - See who viewed your profile ## Pricing and in-app purchases Base price: Free. **One-time purchases** | Purchase | Price | Type | | --- | --- | --- | | Donation | $17.99 | one-time | | Donation | $17.99 | one-time | ## Recent user reviews (10 of 14) All indexed reviews: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/iconist-polyamorous-dating/id1541646049/reviews.md ### 1/5 — Can’t even make an account. *2024-01-25* Wife and I have tried more than once. Just keeps saying there’s a server error. I’ve submitted more than one email to their help desk and never heard back. Agree with other reviews stating owners either are rude or don’t seem to care. ### 1/5 — Can’t sing up *2024-01-04* Won’t let me sing up. Been trying for a few days and still won’t work. ### 5/5 — Very interconnected and wonderful UI *2023-11-29* Wonderful tutorial in setting up your profile, and in all aspects of the app the UI is incredibly clear and helpful. ### 5/5 — Honestly, great! *2023-10-13* This is the most healthy poly app I’ve found so far. It’s everything poly is about and I love it. ### 1/5 — Not available in Chile and many other countries *2023-07-16* I saw somebody else's review saying the developer is incredibly rude. I have absolutely no affiliation with that person, but I definitely agree about the developer being rude, if their first impulse is to call me a spammer, with not a shred of proof. My iCloud account is in the US region, but I live in Chile and have a Chilean phone number. First, what kind of "safety reasons" would justify excluding an entire country? Second, if I was using a US number as the developer says (as opposed to my Chilean number starting in +56), I would have been able to register just fine. 🤷🏼‍♂ **Developer response:** Iconist is unavailable in Chile for safety reasons, but this user is a spammer using a US number. Apple, please remove that feedback. Thank you! ### 1/5 — Not available in Chile and many other countries *2023-07-12* Welp **Developer response:** Iconist is unavailable in Chile for safety reasons, but this user is a spammer using a US number. Apple, please remove that feedback. Thank you! ### 1/5 — unicorn hunters United- not recommended *2023-01-14, version 0.9.395* The app tells you multiple times durrimg signup to be ethical, not to unicorn hunt, and not to use one account for two people- I’m under 5 minutes of looking into people on the app, I found more users doing exactly these things, than ones who were not. It was anger inducing and defeating all in one. Also- I’m in NY and it was recommending me users in Canada under the near you tab. Neat….😑 I was so hopeful that this would be an app truly geared towards healthy poly dating, it was an INSTANT disappointment. How can an app that warns you that many times during set up let that much slip through the cracks?! Would not recommend and will infact recommend against. **Developer response:** Hi Littlejackson, I'm unsure if your intention is genuine because if you live in the US, you probably know some people are unicorn hunters, and we can not prevent people from signing up, so if you saw unicorn hunters' members, why didn't you report them? Alternatively, on the Iconsit app, you can hide your profile from couples (partnered users), so in the end, we chat and meet with single or solo poly. Iconsit is a new FREE app, so if you want to see more members around NYC, please update your feedback to 5 stars so more people will install Iconsit :) Have an Iconic day! ### 4/5 — used to work but now … *2023-01-05, version 0.9.385* the update isn’t updating 🤬 **Developer response:** Hi kimikilljoy! Your feedback shows you care about Iconist, and we care about you! The happier our members are, the more successful Iconist will be. Please update Iconist. It's available in the App store :) We hope you will like the new polyamorous section, voice intro and many more new features. Let me know by updating the feedback here :D Have an iconic updating! ### 5/5 — New *2022-12-28, version 0.9.385* The app has a lot of potential and I’m glad to be apart of this app met someone on it and I’m hopeful this is going to be amazing ### 5/5 — Updated review *2022-12-23, version 0.9.385* Problem with the app glitching has been fixed! Was pretty fast at fixing the issue and should be noted they do respond to inquires and even listen to their customer complaints and offer new features as people suggest them **Developer response:** Hi TheGreatrygt, Please update the Iconist app :) It should work! Ruzzia bombed our homes, and we had no electricity, but we overcame and won! The bug was fixed and the Ruzzian got lost, and I can only apologize that the fix took a while. But now you can choose between a full name or a nickname to improve your privacy, and we've added a few more features as requested by our iconic members. I appreciate your care and would love to know if it works for you, let me know :) ## Frequently asked questions about Iconist ### What is Iconist - Polyamorous Dating? Iconist is a dating and community app specifically designed for individuals and couples practicing polyamory or ethical non-monogamy (ENM). It provides a safe and inclusive platform to connect with others who share similar relationship values and desires, allowing for open expression of identity and relationship preferences. ### What are the key features of Iconist? Key features include detailed profiles to express personality and hobbies, a relationship map to visualize different polyamorous structures, the ability to flag 'unicorn hunters', linking partner profiles, and advanced privacy options. Users can also see who viewed their profile and send messages without limits. ### Is Iconist free to use? Yes, Iconist is 100% free to use. The app states it has no ads, no pop-ups, and no annoying restrictions. While donations are welcome, all core features are available without cost. ### Who is Iconist for? This app is for singles, couples, and solo poly individuals who are interested in exploring or are already involved in polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous relationships. It's also designed to be safe for bisexual, transgender, and all LGBTQ+ persons, as well as polyamorous parents looking to connect with other poly families. ### How does Iconist help users find compatible partners? Iconist helps users find compatible partners through detailed profiles that highlight personality, hobbies, and preferences. It also offers a personality test and personality dating match feature. The advanced search and filtering options allow users to specify what they are looking for, whether it's dating, friendship, or both. ## Version history (last 5 releases) ### 0.9.480 — 2023-11-26 Welcome to Iconist :) where we value your feedback and strive to deliver the best experience possible. In this latest version, we have made significant enhancements and prioritized privacy for singles, solo poly members and those dating individually. With our latest updates, members now have even greater control over their visibility. You can choose who gets to see your profile, ensuring your interactions are matched to your preferences. Additionally, we've introduced a feature that allows you to hide your profile from members of the same gender, giving you more compatible matches. We've also made considerable improvements to the app's performance, resulting in a smoother and more efficient user experience. Not only will you notice a significant boost in speed, but you'll also find that the app consumes less battery energy. We've revamped the app's design to provide a visually appealing interface. Navigating through the app is now more enjoyable than ever, making it easier to connect with others and explore new connections. We believe in creating a respectful and safe environment for all users, whether they are single or partnered. We welcome individuals from all walks of life and are committed to creating an inclusive community where everyone can feel comfortable and secure. Your feedback drives us to continuously improve and enhance your dating journey. ### 0.9.475 — 2023-11-11 Welcome to Iconist, where we value your feedback and strive to deliver the best experience possible. In this latest version, we have made significant enhancements and prioritized privacy for singles, solo poly members and those dating individually. With our latest updates, members now have even greater control over their visibility. You can choose who gets to see your profile, ensuring your interactions are matched to your preferences. Additionally, we've introduced a feature that allows you to hide your profile from members of the same gender, giving you more compatible matches. We've also made considerable improvements to the app's performance, resulting in a smoother and more efficient user experience. Not only will you notice a significant boost in speed, but you'll also find that the app consumes less battery energy. We've revamped the app's design to provide a visually appealing interface. Navigating through the app is now more enjoyable than ever, making it easier to connect with others and explore new connections. We believe in creating a respectful and safe environment for all users, whether they are single or partnered. We welcome individuals from all walks of life and are committed to creating an inclusive community where everyone can feel comfortable and secure. Your feedback drives us to continuously improve and enhance your dating journey. ### 0.9.470 — 2023-11-06 We improved performance to help you meet more people around you :) We fixed a few bugs and improved the stability. Please share Iconist with your friends! ### 0.9.465 — 2023-10-27 In this release, we improved performance to help you meet more people around you :) We fixed bugs in search filters and improved the stability. Please share Iconist with your friends! ### 0.9.460 — 2023-10-19 Welcome to Iconist :) Iconist is a dating app for polyamorous and ethically non monogamous individuals that focuses on all that parts that make up YOU! We believe you are more than your profile photo, more than your sexuality, more than your relationship status, more than simply what you do or who you date. 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User reviews are verbatim App Store reviews. Ratings, prices and chart positions refresh continuously; this snapshot is from 2026-06-10.*