Obedience: BDSM Habit Tracker

Obedience: BDSM Habit Tracker

Kink lifestyle app for couples

3K ratings
398 reviews
Free
In-App Purchases

Details

Released
January 7, 2020
Updated
October 26, 2026

Features

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This app helps couples in BDSM dynamics track daily and weekly habits, with one partner managing rewards and punishments. It facilitates real-time updates and communication between partners, supporting multiple participants.

✓Customizable daily/weekly habits and tasks
✓Define own punishments and rewards
✓Track rules and assign points
✓Live chat with partner
✓Real-time sharing and multiple partner support
✓Stats and graphs for habit tracking
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What's New in Obedience

10.22.11

October 26, 2026

In this version of Obedience (v10.22.11): - You can now set a maximum amount for habits - We've fixed bugs and made several UI/UX improvements

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Subscriptions & In-App Purchases

Obedience Pro 1 Month

Have unlimited habits for 1 month.

$6.991 Month
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User reviews

Getting worse

I used this app a year or so ago, stopped, and then went back to using it. Features that were previously free now are paywalled, and I feel like it’s each time laggier: messages, habits, the habit logs. The idea behind the app is good, but these things make the experience mediocre at best. I only use it still because I haven’t found an alternative.
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機能は良いが、あまり活用できず…

アプリの機能自体はとてもいいのですが、私のパートナーは日本語の対応がされていないことを理由に、導入に消極的です…
日本語対応の予定があるとすごく嬉しいのですが、将来的に一部でも対応する予定はありますか?
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lifechanging

my Domme and i use this, its been so helpful!

me and my John

me and my love really like this app it's so sweet we get closer this also motivates me to do more since I have severe depression, thank you for this app!!

No support

Support has given the runaround, ignored tickets, promised to fix issues and did not, and now has deleted accounts for reaching out for assistance again. This is not acceptable for an app that has options for paid account.

*update on 109/13/2026

Sent a message saying “we’re here to help”. Has not sent or responded to another message since. These people are scammers. There is no encryption between users and staff from what I’ve heard and they will never even try to help a customer whether they are paid or otherwise. Skip this app developer. They won’t do anything to help you if you have a real problem. Customer for over x1 year and still no results or responses x1 year later.
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Reported Bugs

5 issues

Tasks not tracking or resetting properly

Bug

Points not updating accurately

Bug

Messaging and notification issues

Bug

Losing data when switching between partners

Bug

Compatibility problems with older devices

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Requested Features

9 requests

Ability to add more than 5 habits on free version

Feature

Option to pause tasks and habits

Feature

Ability to request approval for completed tasks

Feature

Customizable color themes

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Separate section for one-time tasks

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Suggestions for limits, rules, punishments, and rewards

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Calendar view and progress tracking

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Dedicated journal feature

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Ability to add photos and media to tasks

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FAQ

What is Obedience?

Obedience is a lifestyle app designed for couples in a BDSM dynamic to track habits, set rules, and manage rewards and punishments. It allows for real-time sharing of progress and communication between partners.

How does Obedience work for couples?

Couples can connect their phones, enabling one partner to update habit status and spend rewarded coins. The other partner can view these updates in real-time and set up a reward and punishment system.

Can Obedience be used with more than two partners?

Yes, Obedience supports multiple partners, allowing for more complex dynamics and tracking within a BDSM relationship.

What are the subscription options for Obedience?

Obedience offers several auto-renewable subscription plans, including monthly, 3-month, 6-month, and yearly options, with prices ranging from $6.99 to $29.99. A free trial is available for the yearly plan.

How can I cancel my Obedience subscription?

You can cancel your subscription anytime through your iTunes account settings. Subscriptions automatically renew unless canceled within 24 hours before the end of the current period.

What is the user sentiment for Obedience?

Obedience has a positive overall sentiment, with users praising its habit tracking, customizable rewards, and usefulness for long-distance relationships and accountability. However, some users have reported bugs and privacy concerns.

Is Obedience available on all devices?

Obedience is available on iPhone, iPad, and iPod, indicated by its supported devices. The app is rated for ages 17+.

How often is Obedience updated?

The latest version of Obedience is 10.22.11, last updated on October 26, 2026. This suggests a history of regular updates to improve functionality and address user feedback.