# Obedience: BDSM Habit Tracker — Kink lifestyle app for couples

> BDSM habit tracker for couples to manage rules, rewards, and punishments. (iPhone/iPad app by Obedience B.V..)

- Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/obedience-bdsm-habit-tracker/id1484629691 (this page in markdown: same URL + `.md`)
- Developer: [Obedience B.V.](https://appshunter.io/developer/1484629690)
- Category: Lifestyle, Utilities
- Price: Free with in-app purchases
- Rating: 4.70/5 from 2,817 App Store ratings · 391 written reviews indexed
- Age rating: 17+
- Requires: iOS 15.0 · 117 MB
- Languages: Dutch, German (Germany), European Spanish, American English, Italian, European Portuguese, Polish, French (France), Finnish
- Released: 2020-01-07
- Data updated: 2026-08-29
- Monetization: subscription
- User reviews in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/obedience-bdsm-habit-tracker/id1484629691/reviews.md

## What is Obedience?

Obedience is a kinky habit tracker for couples in a BDSM dynamic. Whether you've been practising kink for a long time, or you're new to the scene, Obedience will help you and your partner(s) track daily and weekly habits, and puts the dominant in charge of rewards and punishments. Couples can connect their phones, which enables one to update their habit status and spend their rewarded coins, and the other to see these real time updates and set up a reward and punishment system. 

Features:
-Add your own daily or weekly habits and tasks
-Add your own punishments and rewards
-Keep track of your rules
-Live chat with partner
-Assign rewards and/or punishments to your tasks and habits.
-Give punishments and rewards automatically or manually
-Give submissive points that they can spend on rewards
-Real time sharing between dominant and submissive
-Supports multiple partners
-See stats and graphs about your habits
-Set reminder/alarm notifications (coming soon!)

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This app contains auto-renewable subscriptions.
Subscriptions will automatically renew unless canceled within 24-hours before the end of the current period. You can cancel anytime with your iTunes account settings. Any unused portion of a free trial will be forfeited if you purchase a subscription.

Privacy policy:
https://obedienceapp.com/privacy-policy

Terms and conditions:
https://obedienceapp.com/terms-of-service

## Key features

- Customizable habits and tasks
- Personalized rewards and punishments
- Rule tracking
- Live chat with partner
- Real-time data sharing
- Multi-partner support
- Habit statistics and graphs

## Pricing and in-app purchases

Base price: Free.

**Subscriptions**

| Subscription | Price | Period |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Obedience Pro 1 Month | $6.99 | per month |
| Obedience Pro 3 Months | $14.99 | per 3 months |
| Obedience Pro 6 Months | $19.99 | per 6 months |
| Yearly | $29.99 | per year |
| Yearly | $29.99 | per year |
| Yearly | $29.99 | per year |
| Yearly | $29.99 | per year |
| Yearly | $29.99 | per year |
| Yearly | $29.99 | per year |
| Yearly | $14.99 | per year |


## What do users think of Obedience?

Overall sentiment: positive

**Pros**

- 👍 Good app for tracking habits
- 💡 Customizable rewards and punishments
- 🚀 Helpful for long-distance relationships
- 👍 Useful for accountability and motivation
- 💡 Discreet mode for privacy

**Cons**

- 🐛 Bugs with tracking and syncing tasks
- 🔒 Privacy concerns with Discord server
- 💰 Expensive premium subscription
- 🐛 Glitches with notifications and messaging
- 🔒 Lack of password protection

**Commonly reported bugs**

- Tasks not tracking or resetting properly
- Points not updating accurately
- Messaging and notification issues
- Losing data when switching between partners
- Compatibility problems with older devices

**Most requested features**

- Ability to add more than 5 habits on free version
- Option to pause tasks and habits
- Ability to request approval for completed tasks
- Customizable color themes
- Separate section for one-time tasks
- Suggestions for limits, rules, punishments, and rewards
- Calendar view and progress tracking
- Dedicated journal feature
- Ability to add photos and media to tasks

## Recent user reviews (10 of 391)

All indexed reviews: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/obedience-bdsm-habit-tracker/id1484629691/reviews.md

### 4/5 — bugs

*2026-08-19*

there are bugs in the notes section regarding the keyboard turning on and off, and selecting text / changing text size. it is significantly effecting my and my partner’s experience on the app.

### 5/5 — Perfekt

*2026-08-19*

Also diese App macht so viel Spaß! Aufgaben, Regeln, Betrafen alles übersichtlich und super einfach für beide anzuwenden 😁 vor allem, dass die Sub nichts einstellen darf, wenn erstmal eine Regel da ist🤭

### 5/5 — Application de soumission

*2026-08-13*

C’est une bonne application pour me garder obéissant et pour ne pas oublier mes bonnes habitudes de soumis

**Developer response:** Merci beaucoup pour ton retour ! Content que l'app t'aide à rester sur la bonne voie 🖤

### 5/5 — Chinese language

*2026-08-12, version 10.22.2*

Could you add Chinese as well? That way, we can use it better. Thank you

### 5/5 — What you’re looking for

*2026-08-12, version 10.22.2*

Incredibly customizable systems to track and improve your behavior. I honestly don’t know of a normal habit app this organized. Highly recommend!

### 5/5 — Unexpectedly, solo use helped my AuDHD brain become productive!

*2026-08-10*

I use this solo and can’t believe how much it works for my productivity! I’m being vulnerable in case another neurodivergent person can feel validated from this: I went from brushing about once every other day to brushing my teeth and flossing twice every day for several weeks!! You have no idea how huge that is for me. This is the habit I previously most struggled with as an AuDHD person!

I grew up struggling with authority because it felt like my autonomy was threatened when an adult told me what to do. On the other hand, if I would try to set goals for myself, I would end up failing because my own deadlines didn’t mean much. But when I set up all the goals, rules, rewards, and punishments as my own “master” it’s like it solved both problems. I’m not being too lenient with myself because the rules are clear and the possible outcomes are set out. I genuinely rush to get things done by the deadline just like I used to for school assignments. 

This app helped me realize that I’ve inadvertently done a similar setup to achieve past goals. Even if this app isn’t always available in my lifetime I’m honestly so grateful for what I learned from it. I feel like I uncovered a formula. This is what people meant when they talked about self discipline.

I only downloaded this app because it seemed exciting. It’s like I got rewarded with completed goals for just chasing a high.

**Developer response:** This genuinely made our day. Thank you for taking the time to write it out, and for being open about it. That thing you described, where being your own authority somehow works when neither self-imposed goals nor outside rules did, is something we hear from a lot of solo users and it never stops being interesting. Weeks of consistent flossing is no small thing either. Wishing you many more 🖤

### 4/5 — Features

*2026-07-31, version 10.21.6*

Could use a couple more features. Like punishments being apply to missed habits or a way to track some extra stuff. Like Chast i ty … time locked or something like that… Awsome otherwise. 

I never give 5 stars … always leaves room for improvement.

### 5/5 — Perfect

*2026-07-08, version 10.21.5*

I love this app

### 5/5 — Every kinky couple should have this!

*2026-06-24, version 10.21.4*

This has improved our d/s dynamic 10 fold. It’s thrilling checking off the demands and just gettin our dynamic easily structured

### 1/5 — Great in theory but buggy mess

*2026-06-11, version 10.21.3*

Maybe I downloaded this at a bad time? I had trouble signing up. I had trouble opening the app. I couldn’t add my partner. The whole app seems to get stuck or just not function. I would happily use it but I can’t because it’s terminally stuck on loading screens!

## Frequently asked questions about Obedience

### What does the Obedience app do?

Obedience is a habit tracker designed for couples in a BDSM dynamic. It allows users to track daily and weekly habits, manage rules, and assign rewards and punishments. The app facilitates real-time updates between partners, enabling the dominant to oversee the submissive's progress and manage their earned points.

### What are the key features of Obedience?

Key features include the ability to add custom daily or weekly habits and tasks, create personalized punishments and rewards, and keep track of established rules. It also offers live chat with partners, real-time sharing of habit status, multi-partner support, and statistics/graphs to monitor habit progress.

### How does the Obedience app make money?

The app utilizes an auto-renewable subscription model. Subscriptions automatically renew unless canceled at least 24 hours before the current period ends. Users can cancel anytime through their iTunes account settings. There is also a free trial available, but any unused portion is forfeited upon purchasing a subscription.

### Who is the target audience for Obedience?

This app is intended for couples and individuals who practice BDSM and are looking for a tool to help manage their dynamic. It's suitable for both long-term practitioners and those new to kink who wish to structure and track their habits and rules.

### Can I use Obedience with multiple partners?

Yes, the app supports multiple partners. This allows for flexible dynamics where a dominant partner can manage habits and rewards for one or more submissive partners, or vice versa, depending on the established dynamic.

## Version history (last 5 releases)

### 10.22.4 — 2026-08-24

In this version of Obedience (v10.22.4):
- We've improved the onboarding experience for new users
- We've squashed some bugs and improved performance

### 10.22.3 — 2026-08-20

In this version of Obedience (v10.22.3):
- Dominants now get notified about outstanding rewards and punishments
- We've improved the scrolling behavior of the collapsible sections throughout the app

### 10.22.2 — 2026-08-10

In this version of Obedience (v10.22.2):
- We're introducing Challenges! Sign up for a challenge every month and compete against your partner(s) and other Obedience users.
- We've updated translations
- We've addressed several bugs and accessibility issues

### 10.22.1 — 2026-08-06

In this version of Obedience (v10.22.0):
We're introducing Challenges! Sign up for a challenge every month and compete against your partner(s) and other Obedience users.

### 10.21.6 — 2026-07-14

In this version of Obedience (v10.21.4):
- We’ve fixed multiple minor bugs and UX issues.
- We’ve upgraded our app framework and plugins to improve performance.

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