Reluma: Dating Pattern Tracker
Date smarter. Red flag diary.
About
This app helps you understand your dating patterns by reflecting on your experiences without labels or quizzes. Built by a psychotherapist, it provides insights into your recurring behaviors and offers a quick read on relationship dynamics.
What's New in Reluma
1.0.3
August 23, 2026
Three subscription options: monthly, three months, and six months. Voice input for writing a moment. Notifications, off by default.
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RELUMA Founding
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FAQ
What is RELUMA?
RELUMA is a dating insights app designed to help users understand their recurring dating patterns. It was built by a psychotherapist and focuses on self-reflection rather than labels or quizzes.
How does RELUMA work?
After each dating experience, users can describe what happened. RELUMA then provides insights into underlying patterns and offers a quick 'read' signal (red, yellow, or green) to indicate the status of the interaction.
Is RELUMA free to use?
RELUMA offers a free first read. Additional features and insights are available through a subscription plan, RELUMA Founding, priced at $7.99 per month.
Who developed RELUMA?
RELUMA was developed by a psychotherapist with real clinical training, distinguishing it from dating content created by individuals without professional therapeutic backgrounds.
What kind of insights does RELUMA provide?
RELUMA provides insights into what you tend to do repeatedly in dating situations, focusing on actual behaviors rather than assigning diagnoses or labels like 'anxious attachment'.
Does RELUMA offer advice?
No, RELUMA does not offer advice or diagnoses. It presents the user's experiences and patterns in their own words, allowing the user to decide what happens next.
What devices is RELUMA available on?
RELUMA is available on iPhone and iPad devices.
How often is RELUMA updated?
The latest version of RELUMA is 1.0, and it was last updated on August 4, 2026. Further update frequency is not specified.