# Secure Space: Love & Breakups — Anxious? Avoidant? Start here. > Anxious? Avoidant? Start here. (iPhone/iPad app by Abboud Abou Elias.) - Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/secure-space-love-and-breakups/id6761361007 (this page in markdown: same URL + `.md`) - Developer: [Abboud Abou Elias](https://appshunter.io/developer/1853210781) - Category: Health & Fitness, Lifestyle - Price: Free with in-app purchases - Age rating: 17+ - Requires: iOS 17.0 · 192 MB - Languages: American English, German (Germany) - Released: 2026-04-01 - Data updated: 2026-10-25 ## What is Secure Space? One text can take over your whole day. Maybe you are waiting for a reply. Maybe you are replaying a conversation, going quiet when you want to speak, or sending something you wish you could take back. Secure Space helps you pause, understand the pattern underneath the reaction, and choose a different next step. A private place to come back to yourself. WHO IT’S FOR Secure Space is for the moments when relationships feel hard to hold alone. For breakups. For chasing connection when someone pulls away, or pulling away when closeness feels overwhelming. For the “what are we?” phase, when every unread message feels like a verdict. For anyone who has felt “too much” or like they were disappearing to keep the peace. Not sure where you land? That is a starting point, not a problem to solve. HOW IT WORKS Begin with a short attachment assessment. Your result is not a label. It is a starting point for noticing your patterns around reassurance, space, and connection. When something happens, Check In. Type a few words or choose how you are feeling, then find the tool that fits the moment: a Reset for clarity, Ground Me for a calming pause, Secure Send before a message, or a reframe for another perspective. WHAT YOU’LL FIND INSIDE • People: Keep people, relationship moments, reflections, notes, and dates in one private place. • Check In: Name what is happening and find a helpful next step. • Reset: A guided path from reaction to clarity. • Repair: After a fight, a clear plan to make things right • Ground Me: A short calming pause for when your body gets there before your thoughts do. • Secure Send: Write in your voice, check tone and boundaries, then decide what feels right before you send. • Daily Quiz: Practice everyday relationship moments in two minutes. • Practice: Guided exercises for real situations in dating, relationships, breakups, communication, and self-worth. Return later for a gentle Look Back. • Reframe Library: Find another perspective for delayed replies, conflict, distance, breakups, trust, and more. • Learn and First Aid: Clear reads, prompts, and in-the-moment support. • Insights: See your Secure Path and Growth Signals, including patterns and what seems to help. • Daily Reframe: A fresh perspective and affirmation each day. • Siri and Shortcuts: Open Check In, Reset, Ground Me, Secure Send, Today’s Reframe, or search the Library. PRIVATE BY DESIGN Your reflections, People profiles, assessment results, and personal insights are stored on your device. No account is required. We do not sell your personal data or use what you write to train models. You can protect Secure Space with Face ID, Touch ID, or your device passcode. Some optional Secure Send requests can use Apple Private Cloud Compute on supported devices. Secure Space always asks first and explains what is shared for that specific request. We collect only limited anonymous onboarding events to improve the setup experience. We do not collect your notes, messages, assessment answers, scores, people, or relationship activity. SECURE SPACE PRO Secure Space is free to begin. Secure Space Pro unlocks full access to premium tools, practices, People, Secure Path, Growth Signals, and more. Payment will be charged to your Apple ID account at confirmation of purchase. Weekly and yearly subscriptions renew automatically unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Your account will be charged for renewal within 24 hours before the end of the current period. You can manage or cancel subscriptions anytime in your App Store account settings. A one-time lifetime purchase is also available. A NOTE ON WHAT THIS IS Secure Space is a self-reflection tool. It is not therapy and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you are in crisis or feel unsafe, please contact a licensed professional or local emergency services. Terms of Service: https://securespace.app/terms Privacy Policy: https://securespace.app/privacy ## Pricing and in-app purchases Base price: Free. **Subscriptions** | Subscription | Price | Period | | --- | --- | --- | | Monthly | $7.99 | per month | | Yearly | $39.99 | per year | | Secure Space Pro Yearly Discount | $22.99 | per year | | Weekly | $6.99 | per 7 days | **One-time purchases** | Purchase | Price | Type | | --- | --- | --- | | Lifetime | $99.99 | one-time | ## Is Secure Space safe? Not enough ratings yet to assess Secure Space. ## Is Secure Space legit? Secure Space: Love & Breakups has limited verification signals. The AppsHunter Legitimacy Score for Secure Space is 58 out of 100 points across 7 verification signals from App Store and developer data. ## Version history (last 5 releases) ### 3.1.2 — 2026-10-23 Thank you to everyone using Secure Space to grow in love and relationships. If the app helps you, we’d really appreciate a review. It helps us a ton! Here’s what’s new in this version: Bug fixes and Improvements In case you missed our previous version: NEW: Optimized for iPhone Duo Secure Space now feels at home on iPhone Duo, folded or open. • Open it up and Home, Library and Insights spread out side by side • Your buttons move into the side bar, out of the way of what you’re reading • Half folded, nothing lands on the fold • Folded, everything fits the smaller screen ### 3.1.1 — 2026-10-22 Thank you to everyone using Secure Space to grow in love and relationships. If the app helps you, we’d really appreciate a review. It helps us a ton! Here’s what’s new in v3.1.1: NEW: Optimized for iPhone Duo Secure Space now feels at home on iPhone Duo, folded or open. • Open it up and Home, Library and Insights spread out side by side • Your buttons move into the side bar, out of the way of what you’re reading • Half folded, nothing lands on the fold • Folded, everything fits the smaller screen Improvements: • People now has its own button on Home • Daily quiz reminders that arrive every day • Quizzes started from a reminder now count as done We also fixed bugs and made the app faster and smoother. ### 3.1 — 2026-10-10 Thank you to everyone using Secure Space to grow in love and relationships. If the app helps you, we'd really appreciate a review. It helps us a ton! Here's what's new in v3.1: NEW: Repair Had a fight or a hard moment with someone? Repair helps you make things right, one step at a time. • If it just happened, take two minutes to calm down first • Look at what it was like for you, then for them • Work out what's yours to own, and what isn't • Get a short first message to send, written from your own words • Know what to say when you talk, and what to do if it doesn't go well The next day, we'll check in to see how it went. With Pro, a few days later we'll also ask how you did with what you said you'd do differently. If something didn't feel okay, Repair can help you set a boundary instead. And if what happened was more than a disagreement, it points you to support. Find it on Home under "Repair". NEW: Highlights Your attachment results now say more about you. After the assessment, you get six personal highlights: your core need, biggest trigger, go-to reaction, growth area, a strength, and a hidden strength. They're built from your own answers, not just a label. Find them on your results, in Settings, and right after the assessment in onboarding. Took the assessment before this update? You'll see a one-time invite to retake it and get your highlights. The retake is free, even if you're not on Pro. NEW: App Icons Secure Space has a new face. Bloom, the calm little heart from inside the app, is now your icon! With Pro, you can switch to any Bloom character, or go back to our classic icon, in Settings → App Icon. CHANGED: Your tools are FREE to use That's right, Check-In, Ground Me, Reset, and Repair are now free, as often as you like. No more limit on Resets. Free means you do the work: every step is there, and you always finish with something you can use. With Pro, Secure Space works with you along the way: suggestions that fit your pattern, feedback as you write, AI reframes, and check-ins on how it went. We believe these tools should be open to everyone, and the extra help comes with Pro. Improvements: • An improved look for Reset • Better AI reframes • More accurate pattern notes while you write • New and updated Growth Signals • Quick actions on a person's profile now fit their relationship status We also fixed bugs and made the app faster and smoother. ### 3.0.3 — 2026-10-01 iOS 27 is here! along with a fresh new look for the app, Siri support, light mode, People, and more! What’s New in Secure Space 3.0 This is our biggest update yet. Secure Space 3.0 helps you understand your relationships, care for yourself in hard moments, and build more security over time. - Meet People People is a private place for the relationships in your life. Add someone you are seeing, have dated, are moving on from, or are building a life with. Keep dates, relationship moments, reflections, and notes together. Log how a date felt, what you noticed, what you needed, and what happened afterward. Over time, Secure Space can help you see patterns in your own experience with more clarity and less guesswork. From a person’s profile, you can write with Secure Send, work through a Reset, log a moment, or start a Practice. - Introducing Daily Quiz Most relationship tension doesn't come from big crises, it comes from the small, everyday moments: a message that feels cold, an impulse to pull away, or a sudden urge to double-text. Starting today, your Home screen features a fresh daily scenario designed to build emotional security in under two minutes. Every answer reveals what your instincts are trying to protect, with zero judgment. Each day rotates through a different dimension of connection: reality-testing ambiguous signals, upgrading reactive drafts into clear communication, seeing through the eyes of the other person, and building a mindful pause before you react. Zero Scores. No Right or Wrong. - A completely rebuilt Practice Choose a focus that fits your life, whether you are dating, in a relationship, or moving through a breakup. Work through short guided exercises built around real situations, not abstract advice. Save your progress, return later, and revisit what you learned. Secure Space may also invite you to a gentle Look Back, helping you notice what changed and what you want to carry forward. - More context in Secure Send Choose a person to make Secure Send feel more grounded in what has been happening for you. Write in your own voice, then use the message check to notice tone, clarity, boundaries, and whether your words say what you mean. You can also add a conversation screenshot. Secure Space reads text on your device first, lets you review and edit it, then helps you make sense of the exchange before you decide what to send. For more nuanced rewrites on supported devices, you can choose Apple Private Cloud Compute. Secure Space always asks first and explains what is shared. - Calmer, clearer Home Tell Secure Space what is going on by typing a few words or choosing what you are feeling. Your next actions and active reflections are easier to find, and People is only a tap away. - New Insights experience Insights is now home to your Secure Path and Growth Signals. See where you are now, revisit your Journey over time, and notice the patterns emerging across what you log, including the shifts and habits that are starting to stick. (Pro Only) - Refreshed Library Browse reframes by what you are feeling or facing. Save the ones that stay with you, pin a focus, and explore short Learn reads and first aid cards when you need something steady. - Better reminders, smoother returns Daily affirmations now arrive at a more natural time and stay in sync when your focus or relationship status changes. - A new look and smoother start Enjoy refreshed onboarding, light mode, and refined details throughout Home, Practice, People, and Library. - Siri support on iOS27 supported devices Use Siri and Shortcuts to open Check In, Reset, Ground Me, Secure Send, Today’s Reframe, and Library search. Try saying: “Siri, open Secure Send in Secure Space” or “Siri, search delayed replies in Secure Space” to find reframes related to that topic. Thank you for making space for yourself here. ### 3.0.2 — 2026-09-30 iOS 27 is here! along with a fresh new look for the app, Siri support, light mode, People, and more! What’s New in Secure Space 3.0 This is our biggest update yet. Secure Space 3.0 helps you understand your relationships, care for yourself in hard moments, and build more security over time. - Meet People People is a private place for the relationships in your life. Add someone you are seeing, have dated, are moving on from, or are building a life with. Keep dates, relationship moments, reflections, and notes together. Log how a date felt, what you noticed, what you needed, and what happened afterward. Over time, Secure Space can help you see patterns in your own experience with more clarity and less guesswork. From a person’s profile, you can write with Secure Send, work through a Reset, log a moment, or start a Practice. - Introducing Daily Quiz Most relationship tension doesn't come from big crises, it comes from the small, everyday moments: a message that feels cold, an impulse to pull away, or a sudden urge to double-text. Starting today, your Home screen features a fresh daily scenario designed to build emotional security in under two minutes. Every answer reveals what your instincts are trying to protect, with zero judgment. Each day rotates through a different dimension of connection: reality-testing ambiguous signals, upgrading reactive drafts into clear communication, seeing through the eyes of the other person, and building a mindful pause before you react. Zero Scores. No Right or Wrong. - A completely rebuilt Practice Choose a focus that fits your life, whether you are dating, in a relationship, or moving through a breakup. Work through short guided exercises built around real situations, not abstract advice. Save your progress, return later, and revisit what you learned. Secure Space may also invite you to a gentle Look Back, helping you notice what changed and what you want to carry forward. - More context in Secure Send Choose a person to make Secure Send feel more grounded in what has been happening for you. Write in your own voice, then use the message check to notice tone, clarity, boundaries, and whether your words say what you mean. You can also add a conversation screenshot. Secure Space reads text on your device first, lets you review and edit it, then helps you make sense of the exchange before you decide what to send. For more nuanced rewrites on supported devices, you can choose Apple Private Cloud Compute. Secure Space always asks first and explains what is shared. - Calmer, clearer Home Tell Secure Space what is going on by typing a few words or choosing what you are feeling. Your next actions and active reflections are easier to find, and People is only a tap away. - New Insights experience Insights is now home to your Secure Path and Growth Signals. See where you are now, revisit your Journey over time, and notice the patterns emerging across what you log, including the shifts and habits that are starting to stick. (Pro Only) - Refreshed Library Browse reframes by what you are feeling or facing. Save the ones that stay with you, pin a focus, and explore short Learn reads and first aid cards when you need something steady. - Better reminders, smoother returns Daily affirmations now arrive at a more natural time and stay in sync when your focus or relationship status changes. - A new look and smoother start Enjoy refreshed onboarding, light mode, and refined details throughout Home, Practice, People, and Library. - Siri support on iOS27 supported devices Use Siri and Shortcuts to open Check In, Reset, Ground Me, Secure Send, Today’s Reframe, and Library search. Try saying: “Siri, open Secure Send in Secure Space” or “Siri, search delayed replies in Secure Space” to find reframes related to that topic. 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