# Sova: Relational Intelligence — Your therapist approved dating

> Dating app focused on self-understanding and relational readiness before finding matches. (iPhone/iPad app by Luma Collective Inc.)

- Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/sova-relational-intelligence/id6749827757 (this page in markdown: same URL + `.md`)
- Developer: [Luma Collective Inc](https://appshunter.io/developer/1832326825)
- Category: Lifestyle, Health & Fitness
- Price: Free with in-app purchases
- Rating: 3.00/5 from 19 App Store ratings · 13 written reviews indexed
- Age rating: 17+
- Requires: iOS 13.0 · 56 MB
- Languages: English
- Released: 2025-09-29
- Data updated: 2026-08-01
- Monetization: free with in-app purchases
- User reviews in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/sova-relational-intelligence/id6749827757/reviews.md

## What is Sova?

The dating app a therapist built. Take the 50-question quiz, get your archetype and flag rating, and match on what actually predicts a healthy relationship.
But Sova isn't just a dating app.

Sova is a relational intelligence platform built to help you decode every relationship in your life: romantic, family, friendship, and peer. Dating is the entry point. 

Self-awareness is the product.

Built by a licensed marriage and family therapist who got tired of watching dating apps reduce real compatibility to a six-pack and a half-decent prompt answer.

Take the 50-question behavioral assessment (95.6% of users finish it, turns out people actually want to understand themselves), and we'll generate your relational archetype, your attachment style, and your flag rating: green, yellow, or red. Then we'll show you matches with theirs visible, too. So you can see who actually fits before you waste three weeks figuring out he's avoidant.

Yes, including yours. Yes, even if it's red. Especially if it's red.

HOW IT WORKS
→ Take the 50-question assessment (about 7 minutes)
→ Get your archetype, attachment style, and flag rating
→ Read your personalized Insight Report, long-form analysis written for your archetype
→ Match with people whose profiles show their archetype, flag, and how they actually love
→ Talk to Ask Sova when you need a sanity check at 2am, about anyone in your life
→ Find a licensed therapist in-app when you want to go deeper

WHAT MAKES SOVA DIFFERENT
- Built by a licensed therapist, not a marketing team
- 300+ behavioral data points per user, not just hobbies and height
- Compatibility scoring based on attachment theory, values, and relational style
- Flag ratings and archetypes visible on every profile
- Ask Sova: an AI relationship coach trained on attachment theory, for any relationship in your life
- In-app therapist directory for when AI isn't enough
- Long-form Insight Reports that read like a therapist's notes, but on you

BEYOND DATING
The same archetype that tells you who you'll fall for tells you why you fight with your sister. The same attachment style that explains your last breakup explains your boss. Sova's AI coaching works across every relationship type — romantic, family, friendship, peer. Because the patterns don't stop at dating.

WHO IT'S FOR
People who want to date with self-awareness. People tired of swipe roulette. People who want to know who someone is before committing time, energy, and feelings. People willing to find out if they're the red flag, and grow from it.
If you've ever screenshotted a text to your group chat and asked "is this normal?" — about a date, a parent, a friend, a coworker — Sova is for you.

FOUNDED BY A THERAPIST
Sova was created by a licensed marriage and family therapist with over a decade of clinical experience. Every archetype, flag rating, and compatibility score is grounded in attachment theory and behavioral science. Not vibes. Not vibes-with-extra-steps. Actual research.
Because relationships shouldn't feel like guesswork.

Download Sova. Take the quiz. Find out who you are. Then put that intelligence to work — on every relationship that matters.

Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/

## Key features

- Self-understanding before dating
- Explore relational readiness
- Identify patterns and habits
- Understand emotional dynamics
- Therapist-approved approach

## Pricing and in-app purchases

Base price: Free.

**Subscriptions**

| Subscription | Price | Period |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Sova Founder's Annual Bundle | $99.00 | per year |
| Sova Plus | $9.99 | per month |
| Sova Premium | $14.99 | per month |

**One-time purchases**

| Purchase | Price | Type |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Insight Report | $9.99 | one-time |


## Recent user reviews (10 of 13)

All indexed reviews: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/sova-relational-intelligence/id6749827757/reviews.md

### 1/5 — Verification Error Codes

*2026-03-23*

Verification photo feature doesn’t function.

**Developer response:** Hi there! We have reviewed your account and taken care of this issue - you're all set to use the app!

### 5/5 — The best on the market.

*2026-02-23*

Seriously this idea is so innovative and the reason I got back into dating. The quiz and Ask Sova are so insightful and actually helpful. I’ve never used an app that feels so supportive, can’t wait to keep using it :)

### 5/5 — New app, good support

*2026-02-04*

This is obviously a new app that is breaking into an established and clearly flawed industry. There were a few hiccups but support seems to be responding quickly and delivering solutions based on user feedback, which is nice. Will continue to use and watch the app as it grows. Hoping for a massive shift in how apps approach dating!

### 5/5 — This is amazing to use!!

*2026-02-04*

super refreshing to use a dating app that focuses on emotional readiness. love that this was created, and backed, by therapists.

### 5/5 — A healthy way to date

*2026-02-04*

Not only does this app screen the sex offender database, test emotional readiness and offer an AI support it also gives quality therapist referrals in your area for IRL dating support or self growth. The daily prompts are amazing and I feel safer on this app compared to the others. So excited to see where developers take it!

### 5/5 — Finally, a More Intentional Dating App

*2026-02-04*

Sova feels like a refreshing change from typical dating apps. It’s intentional, thoughtful, and clearly designed with emotional safety in mind. It feels calm, honest, and human.

### 1/5 — No CS

*2026-01-21*

Like a few others, I wasn’t able to verify my identity. Sent two emails to support with no response.

**Developer response:** Oh no! Please reach out to the CEO directly and she will get this taken care of for you: kieri@sovadating.com

### 1/5 — Buggy

*2026-01-02*

Had high hopes but wasn’t able to verify my identity due to recurring error. Couldn’t access anything without verifying, couldn’t verify. Nice idea, but app needs work still.

**Developer response:** We are still very much developing the app and trying to work through the bugs. If you haven't yet, you can access the most up-to-date version of the app with the least amount of bugs at: sovadating.app 

Thank you so much for your patience while we work through this!

### 1/5 — Buggy

*2025-12-29*

Downloaded it and did all the questions but keep getting an error when doing the verification process. Shame I had high hopes for this

**Developer response:** We are still very much developing the app and trying to work through the bugs. If you haven't yet, you can access the most up-to-date version of the app with the least amount of bugs at: sovadating.app 

Thank you so much for your patience while we work through this!

### 2/5 — Was a beta tester, but now the app is denying my identification before I begin

*2025-12-09*

I tried to upload my drivers license to complete the identification process. Not only did it fail to load, it didn’t give me a chance to try again. It failed to upload and failed my verification instantaneously.

Loved the app in the beta, but maybe they should’ve put the verification process through beta testing too before rolling it out with some obvious technical glitches

**Developer response:** Hi there! We are so sorry to hear about this. We have fixed this bug and removed identity verification for now. Please let us know if there's anything that we can do to improve your experience moving forward. Matching opens on Dec 20th!

## Frequently asked questions about Sova

### What does Sova Dating do?

Sova Dating is designed to help users understand themselves and their relational patterns before they start dating. It focuses on building self-awareness regarding habits and emotional dynamics that influence relationships.

### How does Sova Dating help with relationships?

By guiding users through an exploration of their relational readiness, the app aims to foster healthier connections. It emphasizes that strong relationships begin with self-awareness rather than chance encounters.

### Is Sova Dating free to use?

The app is free to download and use, with options for in-app purchases. This allows users to access its core features for self-discovery and relationship readiness exploration.

### Who developed Sova Dating?

Sova Dating was built with the expertise of a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. This ensures a professional and psychologically informed approach to understanding oneself in the context of relationships.

## Version history (last 5 releases)

### 2.0.6 — 2026-06-01

You're now able to highlight and copy your insight report to send and share with friends, lovers, and therapists!

### 2.0.5 — 2026-05-15

AI updates

### 2.0.4 — 2026-05-14

bug fixes and app stability

### 2.0.3 — 2026-05-12

Couples Mode is LIVE!!! Take our quiz, invite your partner and deepen your relationship. Then send it to your single friend so they can go find an emotionally available human to love.

### Sova 2.0.1 — 2026-03-17

Update to AI and Bug fixes

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