# Spicer - Sex Ideas For Couples — user reviews

> 455 indexed App Store user reviews of Spicer by Spicer Limited, rated 4.60/5 from 3,719 ratings.

- Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/spicer-sex-ideas-for-couples/id1335558932/reviews
- App overview in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/spicer-sex-ideas-for-couples/id1335558932.md
- Rating breakdown: 5★ 2,799 · 4★ 605 · 3★ 150 · 2★ 63 · 1★ 102

## What do users think of Spicer?

Overall sentiment: positive

**Pros**

- 👍 Great for communication
- 🚀 Helps spice up sex life
- 💡 Opens up conversations
- 👍 Fun and enjoyable
- 👍 Improved intimacy and relationship

**Cons**

- 💰 Expensive subscription model
- 🐛 Buggy, crashes, and connection issues
- 🤔 Too many questions about non-monogamy
- 🤔 Repetitive questions
- 🤔 Unintuitive user interface

**Commonly reported bugs**

- Login/registration issues
- Chat feature not working properly
- Inability to delete or edit answers
- Disappearing chat history and matched data after unlinking
- Incorrect or missing notifications

**Most requested features**

- Ability to filter or exclude certain types of questions
- Improved chat functionality with notifications
- Option to create private lists or wishlists
- More free content and reduced waiting times between questions
- Ability to reset dare points

## Newest reviews (12 of 455)

### 4/5 — New to it but optimistic

*2026-07-08, version 3.16.0*

Overall very excited to try this out with my wife. We’ve only used it a few times so far but hope to use it more soon. However, I was messing around with the dares and created some of my own I would like to delete and or edit the ones I created but I can’t figure out how to do that without completely clearing all of my data in the app. Seems like there’s not an option for that? Would update my review to 5 stars if I could get some assistance with this!

### 3/5 — We want to see the “No’s”

*2026-06-16, version 3.16.0*

It’s awesome we can discuss and get creative with the things we agree on, it would still be beneficial if we could have the option to see the No’s because the answer might be deeper than that and it might spark a conversation of adjacent ideas.

### 4/5 — Good app

*2026-05-22, version 3.16.0*

Didn’t pay the extra $40 to open up completely, still not bad. Best part is the calendar excellent for D/S.

### 2/5 — Spell & Grammar Checks

*2026-05-14, version 3.16.0*

The concept of this app is wonderful easy to navigate I love the “dare” feature.
What killed it was question’s repeating themselves and the biggest issue is all the spelling & grammatical errors.
I paid for plus so that my new partner & I can get on the same page. 
Someone needs to let A.I. go over all of the questions and fix those errors.
That would make this app perfect. Also, clarifying statements as to who the question is about IE my partner or I.

Looking fwd to see where this goes.

### 3/5 — needs categories or tags

*2026-05-06, version 3.16.0*

we used it but gf got frustrated by questions she had no interest in or that kept repeating. plus packs are needed but tags and filters need to happen

### 4/5 — Question

*2026-03-15, version 3.15.1*

Is there a way to “unhide” questions that have been hidden?

### 3/5 — Unorganized app

*2026-02-18, version 3.15.1*

The app has potential but to me (a very type A person) it seems all over the place and unorganized and confusing.

### 4/5 — Make Sparks Fly

*2026-02-17, version 3.15.1*

Wish it was all free

### 3/5 — Good at First

*2026-02-02, version 3.15.1*

The app was designed fairly well. Easy to use and easy to restrict. That is until the app has asked nonstop questions involving other people. It’s been two months and we’ve had maybe three or four spicy questions that weren’t. I’m all for improving and finding new things to try but this? Yeah we’ve deleted it and won’t be back. Quite disappointing.

### 4/5 — Question

*2025-12-24, version 3.15.1*

Enjoying using the app. Got a few new ideas. Just wandering if I buy question packs will my partner see the same questions or does she need to purchase packs too?

### 3/5 — Needs ability to filter out questions

*2025-12-22, version 3.15.1*

Agree with a lot of the reviews here that it’s pretty good but needs the ability to filter out certain topics like including a 3rd partner or porn.

### 3/5 — Не грузится

*2025-12-02*

Перестало нормально работать приложение. Более менее работает если заходить с впн

## Most critical reviews (10 lowest-rated)

### 1/5 — App no longer works

*2026-08-09, version 4.0.0*

The app was pretty good for a few months until this week. It’s unable to connect to the server and none of the features work.

### 1/5 — No spanish

*2026-07-15, version 3.16.0*

Says it supports Spanish but it doesn’t. If it’s ever available let us know and remove it from the website.

### 1/5 — Basically for swingers

*2026-07-09, version 3.16.0*

So many of the questions involve adding extra people. It’s weird.

### 1/5 — Not for monogamous couples

*2026-04-08, version 3.15.1*

Good idea, but 90% of the questions are not for couples that are happily married to each other and want to stay that way.  Gave it a shot, but it’s just kind of disturbing, and gets old giving a thumbs down to all of the questions.  We’re not prudes either.  Seems to be overrun by swingers.  Delete and goodbye

### 1/5 — Horrible

*2026-03-06, version 3.15.1*

Worked great for a month but then kicked me out of my account, unlinked me from my partner, deleted all of my answers, yet it’s still charging my account each month.

### 1/5 — Don’t bother if you’re monogamous

*2026-01-30, version 3.15.1*

1. If there was a way to opt out of all the questions that ask about involving other people in your sex life, maybe this would be better. But there are so many redundant questions about involving other people as well as redundancy in other topics as well. 

2. And the way many of the questions are phrased, specifically the 2-part ones, are extremely confusing. 

3. Also, your answers aren’t private if either partner answers “maybe”. It tells you both answers under the “maybe” section. And under the “your answers” section, anything you answer “yes” to, it reveals what your partner said “no” to. 

4. Also some of the sexual suggestions on the app are vile.  There is no consideration made for people who may have had prior traumas. Y’all need Jesus. And a therapist.

### 1/5 — Scam

*2026-01-26, version 3.15.1*

Fun app but when I upgraded to the subscription, the extra questions and features were still not available.  Also, the link to report a problem does not work.

### 1/5 — Confusion

*2025-12-22, version 3.15.1*

Sheer confusion

### 1/5 — Don’t get

*2025-09-25, version 3.14.6*

Won’t let me cancel

### 1/5 — KINK IS CONSENTUAL

*2025-09-22, version 3.14.6*

I’m all for the concept of this app and love that it got some conversations going with my husband. But there are plenty of issues. 

My biggest issue is that it promotes things like “answering the door for pizza delivery naked” or “sunbathing naked so the neighbors might see”. This should not be promoted. You should NEVER include someone unconsenting into whatever play you do.

## Most praised reviews (10 highest-rated)

### 5/5 — Not Working

*2026-08-09, version 4.0.0*

The app is great but does not seem to be working right now. I just keep getting an error message

### 5/5 — Love the app but needs something

*2026-08-04, version 4.0.0*

Life gets busy, this app needs a reminder or someway to nudge your partner to come back the next day/week to answer more questions

### 5/5 — Does wonders

*2026-07-07, version 3.16.0*

I didn’t think an app could bring so many blessing into my life. please keep doing amazing things .

### 5/5 — Love the app but needs something

*2026-06-08, version 3.16.0*

Life gets busy, this app needs a reminder or someway to nudge your partner to come back the next day/week to answer more questions

### 5/5 — Не рпботает чат

*2026-06-07*

Приложение в целом классное . Но перестал работать чат, в т.ч. И на андроиде . Это общая проблема ?

### 5/5 — Podem baixar

*2026-03-06*

App muito legal para usar com o seu par, o melhor no seguimento.

### 5/5 — Can’t purchase

*2026-02-13, version 3.15.1*

I want the full thing for my wife and I

### 5/5 — Informative!

*2026-01-24, version 3.15.1*

No matter how well you think you know your partner… there are things that can surprise you.. hopefully in a positive way!

### 5/5 — Skeptical

*2025-11-29, version 3.15.1*

I was skeptical at first, but I will say it opened new doors for my wife and I. We found ourselves touching and being more flirtatious throughout the day and continually aroused all day. If nothing else it’s brought us closer together!

### 5/5 — Great for communication

*2025-11-19, version 3.14.6*

This app offers a lot of tools for communicating what you do and don’t want. There are a good amount of free questions, but the way they price things is annoying as it follows the new subscription-based format that everyone uses. That or you pay the same monthly price of $5 per question pack. I may pay for one month if it feels necessary, but I can’t see myself ever purchasing a lifetime membership or even a yearly

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