# Spilled: Dating Journal — Relationship Diary & Red Flags

> Private dating journal for tracking interactions and identifying behavioral patterns. (iPhone/iPad app by Decal Venue, Inc..)

- Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/spilled-dating-journal/id6767958322 (this page in markdown: same URL + `.md`)
- Developer: [Decal Venue, Inc.](https://appshunter.io/developer/1886342516)
- Category: Lifestyle, Health & Fitness
- Price: Free with in-app purchases
- Rating: 5.00/5 from 1 App Store ratings
- Age rating: 17+
- Requires: iOS 15.1 · 36 MB
- Languages: American English
- Released: 2026-05-28
- Data updated: 2026-08-11
- Monetization: freemium
- User reviews in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/spilled-dating-journal/id6767958322/reviews.md

## What is Spilled?

You met him on a dating app. The first date felt great. The second one got cancelled. Now you're three weeks in trying to figure out if this is something or nothing.

Spilled is the private journal that helps you read your own dating life. Log what actually happens, not the highlight reel. Spilled does the pattern-watching so you don't have to.

WHAT SPILLED DOES

Track each connection privately. Log entries the way you'd text a friend. Tag what happened, or let Spilled tag for you. Every entry feeds a consistency score that shows you, in plain numbers, whether his actions are matching his words.

When the same pattern repeats, Spilled flags it: high cancellation rate, breadcrumbing, hot and cold cycles, love bomb then disappear, broken promises, controlling behavior, financial concerns, disrespect, frequent silence, floodlighting. Eleven pattern detectors trained on the kinds of things women keep wondering about.

Spilled is built for the gray zone of modern dating. The talking stage. The situationship. The connection that started strong and quietly slowed down.

PRIVACY FIRST

Your journal entries never leave your phone. We never read what you write. The smart features that analyze your entries run through a secure connection and we keep no record of the text. Everything stays yours.

FREE INCLUDES

- Unlimited connections
- Unlimited entries
- Manual tag picking
- Consistency score with red, yellow, green zones
- Basic pattern flags
- Time window filters (7d, 30d, 90d, all)

SPILLED PRO INCLUDES EVERYTHING IN FREE, PLUS

- Smart tagging button (Spilled reads your entry and applies tags for you)
- Live personalized reads on every pattern that fires
- Score trend chart over time
- Multi-connection comparison side by side
- Full timeline view with filters
- Deep community stats (anonymous, aggregated)
- Designed shareable export
- Smart check-in reminders

Pro Monthly: $9.99 per month
Pro Yearly: $49.99 per year
Both plans include a 7-day free trial.
Cancel anytime in your Apple ID settings.

MADE FOR MODERN DATING

Use Spilled alongside the dating apps you already use. The apps get you the matches. Spilled helps you read what's happening once you're talking, dating, or trying to figure out what this is.


TERMS OF USE

Spilled Pro is offered as auto-renewable subscriptions. Payment is charged to your Apple ID account at confirmation of purchase. Subscriptions automatically renew unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. You can manage or cancel subscriptions in your Apple ID account settings.

Terms of Use: https://www.spilled.app/terms
Privacy Policy: https://www.spilled.app/privacy
Apple Standard EULA: https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/

## Key features

- Private dating journal
- Log interactions and events
- Analyze consistency scores
- Detect dating patterns
- Privacy-first design
- Smart tagging and reminders

## Pricing and in-app purchases

Base price: Free.

**Subscriptions**

| Subscription | Price | Period |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Spilled Pro Yearly | $49.99 | per year |
| Spilled Pro Monthly | $9.99 | per month |



## Frequently asked questions about Spilled

### What is Spilled?

Spilled is a private journal designed to help you track your dating experiences and analyze patterns in your connections. It provides insights into relationship dynamics through consistency scores and pattern detection.

### How does Spilled protect my privacy?

Spilled is built with privacy as a top priority. Your journal entries never leave your phone, and the app does not read your written content. Smart features that analyze your entries run through a secure connection, ensuring your data remains private.

### What features are included in the free version of Spilled?

The free version of Spilled offers unlimited connections and entries, manual tagging, a consistency score with color-coded zones (red, yellow, green), basic pattern flags, and time window filters for analysis.

### What are the benefits of Spilled Pro?

Spilled Pro includes all free features plus a smart tagging button, live personalized reads on detected patterns, a score trend chart, multi-connection comparison, a full timeline view, community stats, shareable exports, and smart check-in reminders.

### How much does Spilled Pro cost?

Spilled Pro is available through subscription plans: $9.99 per month or $49.99 per year. Both plans include a 7-day free trial.

### Can I cancel my Spilled Pro subscription?

Yes, you can cancel your Spilled Pro subscription anytime. Cancellations can be managed in your Apple ID settings at least 24 hours before the end of the current subscription period.

### Is Spilled available on Android?

Based on the provided data, Spilled is currently supported on iPhone and iPod. Information regarding Android availability is not specified.

### How often is Spilled updated?

The latest version of Spilled is 1.1.1, and it was last updated on June 12, 2026. This indicates a recent update, suggesting ongoing development and support.

## Version history (last 5 releases)

### 1.1.3 — 2026-08-08

Pattern flags and their detailed reads now stay visible across your full history, even for connections you haven't logged recently.

### 1.1.2 — 2026-07-16

Scores now show your full history. The Journal page and each connection now display your all-time score by default, so long-running connections are never blank. Use the time filter on any connection to zoom into 7, 30, or 90 days.

### 1.1.1 — 2026-06-12

Spilled is brand new and we're improving it fast.
- Polish and small fixes throughout
- Faster, smoother logging
Spot a pattern we should detect? Tell us at spilled@appsthathelp.com

### 1.1.0 — 2026-06-06

Your journal, now yours to keep.
You can now back up all your connections and entries to a file you control, and restore it anytime. Save it to Files, iCloud Drive, or email it to yourself, so your history survives a new phone or a reinstall. Find it in the Account tab under Your data.

Also in this update:

Pull to refresh on the Insights tab
A few fixes under the hood to keep things running smoothly

### 1.0.1 — 2026-06-02

A small bug fix:
- Fixed Account tab to correctly show your Apple Sign In info
- Internal improvements

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