# Tame. — user reviews

> 82 indexed App Store user reviews of Tame. by Dately, rated 3.80/5 from 56 ratings.

- Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/tame/id6443941344/reviews
- App overview in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/tame/id6443941344.md
- Rating breakdown: 5★ 26 · 4★ 12 · 3★ 5 · 2★ 4 · 1★ 9

## What do users think of Tame.?

Overall sentiment: mixed

**Pros**

- 💡 Unique concept - one person at a time matching
- 👍 User-friendly interface and easy profile setup
- 🎯 Encourages meaningful connections over swiping
- ✅ No ghosting policy promotes accountability
- 🔍 Question-based matching for better compatibility
- 🛡️ Profile verification reduces catfishing
- ⏱️ Slows down dating process for sincerity
- 💬 Thoughtful communication required before matching

**Cons**

- 👥 Severely limited user base in most areas
- 💰 Paywall to message matched users
- 🚫 Restrictive one-person-at-a-time model frustrates some
- 📍 Location-based matching too narrow
- ⚠️ Subscription fees for new app with few users
- 🔧 Limited filtering and search options
- ❌ Confusing navigation and unclear instructions
- 😞 High investment required before knowing someone

**Commonly reported bugs**

- App freezes on first page after opening
- App fails to load properly
- Location-based search restricted to current location only
- UI spelling and grammar errors
- Discover option disappears after use
- Inconsistent error messages about user availability

**Most requested features**

- More aggressive marketing and advertising
- Advanced filtering options (political affiliation, interests, etc.)
- Ability to search outside current location
- More gender identity options beyond male/female/other
- Bio preview before matching
- Better in-app tutorials and explanations
- Flexible matching to talk to multiple people
- Free messaging without paywall
- Larger geographic search radius by default

## Newest reviews (15 of 82)

### 3/5 — Deserted

*2024-12-05, version 3.3*

Interesting concept, barely anyone in it yet sadly.

### 4/5 — Okay but needs more users

*2023-05-08*

I like the concept, only problem is that it’s a new app so went through all the people in my area quite quickly. Also one match I got wanted to get off the app immediately because he thought only speaking to one person at a time was ‘lame’ but if you’re considering downloading this app, please actually honour the concept and not turn it into another Tinder/ Hinge.

**Developer response:** Hi Lola, thank you for your review. We're working hard on advertising, the user base is steadily growing but it takes a while to populate all regions, age ranges etc. So thanks for your patience. Totally agree with you on the last point. Unfortunately we can't do anything about this type of behavior unless you report the user. Feel free to contact us at contact@tame-app.com and we'll remove him from the app.

### 2/5 — Okay until someone wanted to talk to me

*2023-05-06, version 1.9*

FINALLY someone answered my prompts and they seemed great! But I couldn’t talk to them unless I paid money. lmaoooooo

### 4/5 — Nice concept but too new

*2023-04-24*

App is still new so not enough people for dating options. Will update when there are better results.

**Developer response:** Hello, thanks for your review. We'll do our best to bring more people on :)

### 3/5 — Nice idea, disappointing people

*2023-04-23*

I really like what you're trying to do with this app but unfortunately a dating app lives and dies by the quality and quantity of people on there. Sadly Tame has neither right now.  Every time I try a new dating app I feel that it's not always that app itself that's the problem but the people using it. Also, I noticed a few spelling and grammar mistakes in the UI which I'll probably send you an email or DM about.

**Developer response:** Hello Miranda,

Thank you for your feedback. We believe that through the tone of our advertising, the concept of the app, the visuals and moderation, we will eventually be able to build the user base we wish for. We launched recently, so please be indulgent, we're consistently working to improve the app and our advertising. Though please do send us an email with the mistakes you found on the app, that would be super helpful. Have a nice day!

### 2/5 — Personne dans ma région

*2023-04-02*

Malheureusement il est difficile de donner un avis car malgré le fait que je suis en Seine-et-Marne, proche Paris, je ne vois aucun profil même 12km à la ronde.
Le concept de l’application est très prometteur, mais si personne ne s’inscrit, je finirai pas désinstaller…

**Developer response:** Hello, merci pour ton retour, on a lancé très récemment donc il va nous falloir un peu de temps avant de remplir toutes les régions, désolés du désagrément. Bonne journée !

### 3/5 — Diff

*2023-03-20*

I didn’t have a match yet but it’s Different

### 3/5 — Great app, not enough people on it

*2023-03-02, version 1.7*

This app has a great concept but there aren’t any people on it!

### 4/5 — site

*2023-03-01*

it’s a bit quite but like the sound ov it only chatting 2 1 person at a time

**Developer response:** Thanks :)

### 4/5 — Good In theory just needs to get off the ground

*2023-02-26*

The concept is a refreshing change to standard dating apps - there just needs to be more users!

**Developer response:** Thank you for your review, we're doing our best to advertise the app everywhere we can, it just takes time. We thank you for your patience :)

### 4/5 — Different

*2023-02-26*

This app is different to others I have tried. I haven’t had any luck yet but I definitely prefer the way matches are done as you actually get to send replies and talk before you match

**Developer response:** Glad you like the concept, hope you get to go on a date soon!

### 2/5 — Profils trop superficiels

*2023-02-20*

Le concept de l'application est chouette, mais je trouverais ça plus fluide de choisir la/les questions auxquelles on souhaite répondre pour entamer la conversation. 
Un espace d'expression libre aiderait un peu plus pour se présenter et choisir les personnes avec qui on aimerait discuter (car finalement, on a juste quelques photos, un âge, et des questions assez généralistes comme "aperçu", ce qui est au final beaucoup plus superficiel que sur T*****, dont cette app se veut concurrente). J'ai l'impression que moi-même je vais être davantage jugée sur mon physique que sur T. où j'ai pu écrire une brève bio

**Developer response:** Hello, merci pour ton retour. On a travaillé sur des mises à jour pour rendre les profils plus complets. Pour le choix des questions auxquelles répondre, on va y réfléchir, ca complique un peu le flux et pour l'instant on essaie de rester dans la simplicité au possible et de s'assurer que l'application fonctionne bien, mais au futur, pourquoi pas! Bonne journée a toi :)

### 2/5 — bug

*2023-02-18*

bug sur ios, impossible de s inscrire. vous avez besoin de beta testeur?

**Developer response:** Hello, désolé je viens de voir ton retour, as-tu toujours besoin d'aide? Contacte-nous sur contact@tame-app.com et on se fera un plaisir de régler le problème. Bonne journée :)

### 4/5 — Great concept, interested to see how things go

*2023-02-09*

Very little options sometimes but the idea of being able to write preliminary questions and bind to one conversation only is a great idea!

**Developer response:** Thank you! We launched recently so, trying to keep it simple. We'll flesh out the concept along the way.

### 4/5 — Tame

*2023-01-26*

Excellent idea for dating, especially if you’re over 60… safe, relaxed and no pressure… I appreciate the process used to make sure people are serious and not here for other reasons.  Thank you.

**Developer response:** Thank you, super happy to hear you like the concept. Hope you find what you are looking for!

## Most critical reviews (10 lowest-rated)

### 1/5 — Nobody uses this

*2023-11-24, version 3.3*

Downloaded two months+ ago and never was able to get into it because “not enough users on Tame please check again later”

How about some advertising?

### 1/5 — You have to pay

*2023-04-22*

Awful. Takes a while to get a match then you have to pay to actually talk to the person you matched with

**Developer response:** Hi, sorry to hear the business model does not work for you. Contact us at contact@tame-app.com if you want we'll do you a favor :)

### 1/5 — Waste of time

*2023-04-19, version 1.9*

Dnt bother all tht effort for them to pay wall the matches silly idea

### 1/5 — Problems

*2023-01-18, version 1.3*

Installed and opened the app. Got to the first page then nothing. App is froz. Anyone else have this problem? Tried to delete and install several times. Still does not work. Cmsad13

### 1/5 — Annoying!!’nn

*2023-01-10, version 1.3*

Does not load , what’s happening with it ?????

### 1/5 — I travel frequently and the app will not allow me to search anywhere except my current location.

*2023-01-10, version 1.2*

Please make it so that I can indicate my town of residence regardless of where I am at the moment.

### 1/5 — Not enough info on who I’m chatting/matching with!

*2023-01-09, version 1.2*

To me, this app was very confusing and very hard to navigate. I don’t see anywhere that it explains options or how to use. Took me 24 hours to match with someone but all I know is two photos, a name, and age, and that they live 11 miles away from me. That’s it. I’m not getting any type of vibe or answering a few questions and apparently now chatting. I was given the option if I wanted to “discover” more profiles. I wasn’t sure if I should select that because I thought that meant I would stop the contact with the first match. I really wasn’t sure what that meant because I thought we weren’t allowed to do that at the same time and just focus on one person… But never mind because I don’t see the option again so I guess it disappeared lol.This app is definitely giving me a headache already. and I just prefer to know a lot more about someone before I choose to message with them and waste my time or not. This is a lot of investment before knowing a lot about someone.

### 1/5 — App stipulates intense conditions/obligations

*2023-01-02*

Although this app has good intentions, it truly feels like a hostage situation since you’re not able to ghost your partner without a valid excuse or can only match with one person at a time. What criteria determines the validity of ones excuse? This makes the app a digital dictator. It shouldn’t be tedious to use. It makes sense that some of the requirements and features were designed to prevent catfishing; in fact, that is the only aspect of the program that I genuinely found useful. My advise, keep the functions that weed out bots and catfishes. Permit more flexibility for users.

**Developer response:** Hello, thanks for your feedback! Have you really used the app and this functionality so far? Nobody talks about "valid excuse", you just select the reason why you want to end the conversation, as shown in the app screenshots, with a simple click, and can add some text if you want to. You can end the conversation at any time, and at least the other will know why the conversation has ended, they won't just disappear or never answer you back as it would be on other dating apps. Have a good day :)

### 2/5 — Maybe one day

*2023-07-21*

I’ve had this thing since close to the beginning. I even got in on that pay once deal to help them get started. I cleared my likes just to start over and see if anyone else has joined my preferences are set to a 15 year age span and 250+ miles. I swiped through less than 10 profile before I was told that I’m out of options. 

Seems like a good idea, but I think it may take years to catch on of it ever does. A service this devoid of users shouldn’t be charging a subscription fee just yet.

**Developer response:** Hello, thanks for your review, your support, and for being understanding. The reason it's been slow to catch on so far is because we're holding back on advertising until we feel confident the app is completely ready. We'll be rolling out an update soon, so check back and you might see lots of new profiles in a bit!

### 2/5 — Love the concept

*2023-07-11*

Love the concept but not enough users to match with. I paid for the month and kinda feel like it was a waste. Only reason i found this app it's because I looked up another dating app and this one had a review so decided to give it a try.

**Developer response:** Hey, thanks for your review, we'll be upgrading the app and advertising soon, so check back to discover more profiles in a bit! Though if you love the concept and want to support us, please consider giving more than two stars, because that just deters new people from coming in. Thanks!

## Most praised reviews (10 highest-rated)

### 5/5 — Cool concept

*2023-06-03*

Very different to other apps

### 5/5 — Unique and different

*2023-05-03*

I just love the format of this app, and it’s a brilliant way to weed people out properly. I love the no ghosting rule too!

**Developer response:** Hey! Thank you for your kind review, super happy to hear you like the concept. Hope you find what you're looking for on Tame :)

### 5/5 — Great concept, great user experience.

*2023-04-20*

I’m really liking the concept, as someone looking for something serious. I feel like the people behind the app are on the right track. We just need more people, but the RIGHT people so it stays a place for serious dating.

**Developer response:** Hello, thank you for your review. We're glad you're on board with us. Don't worry, we'll keep verifying profiles, we'll keep making it clear that the app is for those who intend on taking online dating seriously. Quality over quantity is the motto! Have a good one.

### 5/5 — It’s amazing

*2023-04-14, version 1.8*

I love how it only lets you talk to one person and one person only

### 5/5 — Interesting Concept

*2023-04-06*

I like the way the app works. Having to answer questions means people are putting more effort into connecting. It will be a great app once there are more people on it.

**Developer response:** Hello, thanks for your review. We'll do our best to bring more people on :)

### 5/5 — Just launched

*2023-04-03*

Advertising in Oz, I’m Uk resident, and I hope it get going—love the sign up.

**Developer response:** Thanks a lot, we hope you find what you're looking for :)

### 5/5 — I love this app

*2023-03-30, version 1.7*

5 Stars ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

### 5/5 — Great app ever

*2023-03-29*

I love this dating app is for free and not useing I love it so much today I get a date and I would love this app I’s so serious

### 5/5 — Bon concept qui démarre bien

*2023-03-24*

L’appli est bien faite avec de vrais profils, c’est cool :)

**Developer response:** Merci beaucoup!

### 5/5 — Different

*2023-03-08*

This app is different to what I have been on before not had any success yet but it’s a better way of doing things

**Developer response:** We're glad our concept resonates with you, glad we're fulfilling our aim of bringing a different online dating experience to our users. Hope you get lucky soon ;)

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