# Tend: A Daily Couples Ritual — Your relationship, in color

> Daily couples ritual for sharing feelings and visualizing relationship progress. (iPhone/iPad app by Malek Aldoss.)

- Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/tend-a-daily-couples-ritual/id6794927461 (this page in markdown: same URL + `.md`)
- Developer: [Malek Aldoss](https://appshunter.io/developer/6794927463)
- Category: Lifestyle
- Price: Free with in-app purchases
- Rating: 5.00/5 from 3 App Store ratings · 2 written reviews indexed
- Age rating: 4+
- Requires: iOS 16.4 · 66 MB
- Languages: American English
- Released: 2026-09-13
- Data updated: 2026-10-03
- Monetization: freemium
- User reviews in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/tend-a-daily-couples-ritual/id6794927461/reviews.md

## What is Tend?

Tend is a daily ritual for two.

Each night, you and your partner each choose one word for how the day felt between you. Your words stay private until you've both logged, then the day opens, and your shared calendar fills in with color.

Over time, that calendar becomes something no other app can show you: a picture of your relationship, made of the small honest moments you'd otherwise forget.

HOW IT WORKS
- One word a day, each of you, in private
- The day is revealed only when you both log
- Your months bloom into a calendar of color
- Leave a gratitude, keep a moment, mark the trips and days that matter

WHAT YOU'LL SEE OVER TIME
- Warm weekly and monthly recaps, in plain language
- Whether you're reading the relationship more alike than before
- How you find your way back after a rough stretch
- A hearth that stays lit as long as you keep showing up

Tend isn't a mood tracker or a scoreboard. A hard week logged honestly counts just as much as an easy one. There's nothing to optimize, just a quiet, shared place to notice each other.

One subscription covers both partners.

Made by one person who believes the small things are the relationship.

Terms of Use: https://link.tendcouples.com/terms.html
Privacy Policy: https://link.tendcouples.com/privacy.html

## Key features

- Daily private word sharing
- Shared calendar visualization
- Weekly and monthly recaps
- Gratitude and moment logging
- Relationship progress tracking

## Pricing and in-app purchases

Base price: Free.

**Subscriptions**

| Subscription | Price | Period |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Tend Plus Monthly | $6.99 | per month |
| Tend Plus Annual | $59.99 | per year |


## Is Tend safe?

Not enough ratings yet to assess Tend.

## Is Tend legit?

Tend: A Daily Couples Ritual has limited verification signals. The AppsHunter Legitimacy Score for Tend is 58 out of 100 points across 7 verification signals from App Store and developer data.

## Recent user reviews (2 of 2)

All indexed reviews: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/tend-a-daily-couples-ritual/id6794927461/reviews.md

### 5/5 — Really Fun

*2026-09-29*

Such a great app to navigate your relationship! It was really helpful to understand myself and my partner and how we feel about each other and how to make our relationship more fun and more enjoyable

### 5/5 — Makes communication a little easier

*2026-09-25*

This a nice way of bettering communication. It makes it easier to communicate how you feel without having to come off as confronting

## Frequently asked questions about Tend

### What is Tend?

Tend is a daily ritual designed for couples to privately share how their day felt with a single word. The app then visually represents your relationship's journey over time through a colored calendar, offering insights into your connection.

### How does Tend work?

Each partner privately selects one word to describe their day. The day's entry is only revealed when both partners have logged their word. Over time, these entries fill a shared calendar with color, creating a visual history of your relationship.

### What kind of insights does Tend provide?

Tend offers warm weekly and monthly recaps in plain language. It helps you see if you're perceiving the relationship similarly, how you navigate difficult periods, and encourages consistent engagement.

### Is Tend a mood tracker or scoreboard?

No, Tend is not a mood tracker or a scoreboard. It emphasizes honest logging, where a difficult week counts just as much as an easy one, focusing on noticing each other rather than optimization.

### What are the subscription options for Tend?

Tend offers a monthly subscription for $6.99 with a 7-day free trial, and an annual subscription for $59.99 with a 14-day free trial. One subscription covers both partners.

### Is Tend available on Android devices?

Currently, Tend is only supported on iPhone devices. The app was released on September 13, 2026, and its latest version is 1.2.0, last updated on September 25, 2026.

### What is the age rating for Tend?

Tend has an age rating of 4+, making it suitable for a wide range of users. It is designed to be a simple and accessible tool for couples.

### Does Tend have ads?

No, Tend does not contain advertisements. The app is focused on providing a private and uninterrupted experience for couples.

## Version history (last 4 releases)

### 1.2.0 — 2026-09-25

Your recaps just got more personal.

• Every week, month and year now has its own title, plus one question to ask each other.
• Suggestions draw on what your partner has been grateful for, their love language, and what's coming up, like birthdays and plans.
• Tap "Did it" when you've acted on a suggestion, or jump straight to making a plan or leaving a gratitude.
• Tap the signature at the end of a recap to see the moments it was written from.

Tend Plus
• Get a clear look at what a full month or year recap holds before you subscribe.
• On a free trial, you'll get a reminder two days before it ends.
• When you subscribe, your partner gets a note that Plus is theirs too.

Finding your way
• About us now sits beside your journal, at the top of the calendar.
• Settings has moved to the Wellness tab.

### 1.1.0 — 2026-09-20

Notifications, rebuilt.

Every kind now has its own switch: the evening nudge, plan and
date reminders, and partner activity. Turning one off keeps it
off everywhere, which it did not always do before.

Three new reminders:
- A note the evening after a partner's gratitude is still sealed,
  so it does not sit there unopened.
- A Saturday nudge when the week's goals still have room.
- A Sunday recap reminder, for Plus.

Notifications about your partner now use their name.

Elsewhere:
- The reveal has new motion, and describes a day the same way
  every other screen does.
- Day detail, the Plus card and the add sheets have been brought
  in line with the rest of the app.
- The banner that tells you your partner has logged now sits on
  the same glass as everything beside it.

Plus fixes to reminders that could fire on the wrong day, and a

### 1.0.1 — 2026-09-14

New words for the weather between you
Your daily words are now weather: Golden, Sunny, Mild, Cloudy, Mist, Fog and Storm, plus Clearing for the days you find your way back. They describe the space between you, not either of you. Every day you've already logged carries over with the same meaning, in a softer new palette.

The journal
Every day you've tended, in one place. Tap the book at the top of the calendar to read your record newest first, grouped by week with that week's Tending Ring. Filter by gratitudes, moments, flags or your timeline, or jump straight to a date.

Sealed gratitudes
A gratitude your partner leaves for you now stays sealed until you tap to open it.

A cleaner calendar
Flush, square days, a weekday row that marks today, and trips drawn as a strip across the weeks they cover. Today's tile shows at a glance when your word is still waiting.

Recap
Most felt now shows how your words moved since the last period, and the shape chart has been redrawn to read at a glance.

Smaller touches
Day details open half way up the screen and rise when there's more to read. The word picker glows as you choose. A new launch screen. Plus fixes and polish throughout.

### 1.0 — 2026-09-13

No release notes.

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