# Tend - Outreach — Personal Relationship Manager

> Personal Relationship Manager (iPhone/iPad app by Matthew Wolff.)

- Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/tend-outreach/id6760388237 (this page in markdown: same URL + `.md`)
- Developer: [Matthew Wolff](https://appshunter.io/developer/1884245421)
- Category: Lifestyle, Productivity
- Price: Free
- Age rating: 4+
- Requires: iOS 15.1 · 50 MB
- Languages: American English
- Released: 2026-06-15
- Data updated: 2026-08-02
- User reviews in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/tend-outreach/id6760388237/reviews.md

## What is Tend?

Tend is a personal relationship manager designed for people who care deeply about their friendships but struggle to keep up. Set a frequency for each friend, and Tend will remind you when it's time to reach out.

STAY CONNECTED, YOUR WAY
• Set custom reach-out frequencies for each friend (every few days, weekly, monthly)
• Get gentle reminders when someone is overdue for a catch-up
• Log connections quickly — calls, texts, dinners, hangouts

RELATIONSHIP CIRCLES
• Friends are automatically organized into tiers based on how often you connect
• See at a glance who needs attention and who you're keeping up with
• Track your connection patterns over time

SMART FEATURES
• Import friends from your contacts
• Sync logged connections to your iOS calendar
• Birthday reminders so you never miss one
• Transit time to a friend's location
• Ask AI natural language questions about your connection history

PRIVACY FIRST
• All data stored locally on your device by default
• Optional encrypted cloud backup
• No ads, no tracking, no data selling
• Delete everything at any time

Built for people with ADHD and anyone who wants to be more intentional about maintaining the relationships that matter most.


## Version history (last 2 releases)

### 1.1 — 2026-07-29

What's new since 1.0

Insights / Analytics
- A dedicated Insights tab (promoted out of a sub-screen).
- AI data explorer ("Ask AI") — natural-language questions about your relationships, backed by multi-provider LLM support (Gemini default).
- A wave of new visualizations: Social Health radar with tap-to-detail, network graph, tier donut, stacked-area activity-by-tier, leaderboard with swipeable categories, plus streak / effort-balance / prime-time cards.

Calendar search 
- A full Calendar Search screen: free-text across friends, venues, types, and notes; field-scoped syntax (friend:, venue:, type:); people/type/date-range filters; recent searches; hybrid relevance×recency ranking.

Friends & relationships
- Pause reminders — pause a friend so they drop out of reminders (this is the feature we just spent the session hardening).
- Life Events on friend profiles (#39).
- Learned associations — the app notices which friends you see together and suggests linking them, with a post-save prompt.
- Customizable contact-row appearance (#36) and in-app contact search when adding friends.

Home screen
- Homework / "Needs Attention" surface (#31) for relationships that need action.
- Take a Break — shift due dates forward when you're overloaded, with undo.
- Spread overdue friends across a window; Focus mode (tier-filtered Next Due); tappable overdue/this-week stats; pull-to-refresh; uncapped list browsing.

Connections & calendar
- Dopamine celebration animation when you log a connection (#38).
- Venue capture from Places, passed through to the iOS Calendar as a real structured location.

Notifications & wellbeing
- Reminder-time picker + native iOS notification grouping (#37).
- Social Energy — density-aware pacing with configurable recovery blocks.

Settings & polish 
- Settings reorganized into Account / Data / Integrations / Personalization screens; compact identity row with Rate/Support; copyable user ID; Privacy Policy link; redesigned "How Tend Works" as collapsible tips; plus discovery hints that teach hidden gestures (long-press, swipe) one-shot.

### 1.0 — 2026-06-15

No release notes.

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