# the L - Lesbian Dating & Live — Queer & Bisexual Women Dating

> Queer women's community for dating, social connection, and live interaction. (iPhone/iPad app by Hangzhou Re Lan Network Technology Co., Ltd..)

- Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/the-l-lesbian-dating-and-live/id1086944243 (this page in markdown: same URL + `.md`)
- Developer: [Hangzhou Re Lan Network Technology Co., Ltd.](https://appshunter.io/developer/1255732948)
- Category: Social Networking, Lifestyle
- Price: Free with in-app purchases
- Rating: 3.50/5 from 211 App Store ratings · 128 written reviews indexed
- Age rating: 17+
- Requires: iOS 15.0 · 479 MB
- Languages: American English, Chinese (Simplified, China), Chinese (Traditional, Taiwan)
- Released: 2016-02-28
- Data updated: 2026-08-31
- Monetization: free with in-app purchases
- User reviews in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/the-l-lesbian-dating-and-live/id1086944243/reviews.md

## What is the L?

Join 30 million queer women on the L.
A place to date, talk, and actually feel at home, whether you're looking for a girlfriend, new friends, or just women who get it.

the L  is a completely  women's community. We use strict identity verification to ensure the social safety of women. 

QUEER COMMUNITY
「Journal」: Your personal space to record your feelings, support live images, and capture your truest moments.
「Topics」: Participate in hot topics with girls and meet fascinating souls.
「Mood」: Share how you feel, anytime, anywhere.
「Anonymous」: Post your journal anonymously for a more carefree sharing experience.

 MEET HER
「Nearby」: Discover like-minded people around you, with advanced filters to help you find your match.
「World Travel」: Explore dating opportunities around the globe.
「Quick Match」: Quickly swipe to match with someone you feel a spark with.

LIVE STREAMS
Watch live streams — singing, gaming, and everyday life moments from the community.

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Subscription Service Statement for Members:

1. Service Name: Continuous Monthly Subscription
2. Subscription Period: 1 month
3. Subscription Price: $3.78/month (27 CNY)
4. Payment: The payment will be charged to your iTunes account once the subscription is confirmed.
5. Auto-Renewal: If you purchase a continuous monthly subscription, your iTunes account will be charged 24 hours before the current period ends, and your membership will be extended by 31 days.
6. To unsubscribe: You can cancel the subscription by manually turning off the auto-renewal function in the iTunes/Apple ID settings 24 hours before the current subscription period ends.
  
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Privacy Policy and User Agreement:
https://rela.me/termandconditions/

Service Agreement for Automatic Renewal Members:
https://www.rela.me/vip/continue-subscription/terms.html

## Key features

- Personal journal for sharing moments
- Topic discussions with other users
- Nearby user discovery with filters
- Global dating opportunities
- Video and voice live chats
- Anonymous posting option

## Pricing and in-app purchases

Base price: Free.

**Subscriptions**

| Subscription | Price | Period |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Monthly Subscriptions | $3.99 | per month |
| quarterly membership | $10.49 | per 3 months |
| Unlimited Chat- subscription | $1.99 | per month |
| Monthly SVIP Subscription | $5.99 | per month |
| Monthly VIP Subscription | $3.99 | per month |

**One-time purchases**

| Purchase | Price | Type |
| --- | --- | --- |
| 1 month VIP | $3.99 | one-time |
| 3 months VIP | $11.99 | one-time |
| 12 months VIP | $39.99 | one-time |
| Unlimited Chat-1 month | $1.99 | one-time |
| 2,086 Credits | $39.99 | one-time |
| 686 Credits | $14.99 | one-time |
| 210 Credits | $3.99 | one-time |
| 42 Credits | $0.99 | one-time |


## What do users think of the L?

Overall sentiment: negative

**Pros**

- 👥 Good platform for meeting LGBT community members
- 💬 Effective communication features for connecting with others
- 🎯 Successfully helped users find relationships
- 📱 Simple and easy-to-use interface
- 🌈 Safe space for LGBT expression and community

**Cons**

- 🐛 Frequent crashes and app instability
- 📢 Excessive and intrusive advertisements
- 🚫 Aggressive content moderation and censorship
- 🔐 Account suspension without clear explanation
- 🎮 Poor customer service and support
- 🔑 Persistent login and verification code issues
- 👤 Abundance of fake accounts and scammers
- ⚠️ Safety concerns with user tracking and harassment
- 💰 High membership fees compared to competitors
- 🌍 Restrictive policies for international/foreign users
- 🎬 Live streaming and video features disabled or broken
- 📍 Location tracking and privacy vulnerabilities

**Commonly reported bugs**

- Frequent app crashes and force closes
- Unable to receive SMS verification codes
- Login issues and automatic logouts
- Profile picture and bio updates not saving
- Video and live streaming features not working
- Messages not displaying in chat despite notifications
- Profile photos and past posts disappearing
- App incompatibility with iPhone X and older iOS versions
- Lag and stuttering during app usage
- Splash screen ads with non-functional skip buttons
- System maintenance errors preventing normal operation
- Teen mode activation without user consent

**Most requested features**

- Translation tool for multi-language support
- Group chat and community group functionality
- Message recall/delete feature for private messages
- Privacy controls to hide posts from specific users
- 24-hour status visibility feature
- Music/song sharing functionality
- Account deletion/deactivation option
- Distance-based sorting and range selection for broadcasts
- Auto-send message on Enter key press
- Video upload capability for English version
- Improved verification system for account authenticity

## Recent user reviews (10 of 128)

All indexed reviews: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/the-l-lesbian-dating-and-live/id1086944243/reviews.md

### 1/5 — Sudden loud ads and live influencer harassment

*2026-08-26*

One star for the ad bug that plays loud ads suddenly and for not providing details for what exactly triggers a system warning. Like how do you expect users to know? Many of their contracted live influencers are rude and entitled; they will keep harassing you to tip. This app has been going steady downhill in the past 10 years. If you’re one of the original users, they also make account recovery basically impossible.

广告bug会突然播放震耳欲聋的广告还无法关闭，而且系统警告的触发条件也没有任何说明具体是哪句话或者那个行为违反文明条约。用户怎么可能知道？他们合作的很多主播都粗鲁无礼，自以为是，还会不停地骚扰你让你打赏。这app过去十年一直在走下坡路。如果你是早期用户，他们还设置重重找回账号的门槛，几乎不可能。

### 2/5 — 糟糕的app

*2026-07-15*

我的账号好像突然被屏蔽了… 然后我在加拿大，但是国内有人短信发给我说过，为什么我在加拿大但是显示在国内离她150米..

### 1/5 — 关注列表

*2026-07-08*

页面的关注页，和发现页面没有任何区别，全是没有关注的系统推送的人，真正关注的人你想看都刷不到

### 4/5 — Can’t  upload photos

*2026-06-08*

Can’t upload photos

### 1/5 — 狗逼热拉无缘无故封我账号

*2026-05-22*

烂货平台快倒闭

### 1/5 — 广告真他爹的多

*2026-04-02*

哪哪都是广告，还到处杀猪盘骗子

### 1/5 — 到处都是bug

*2026-02-10, version 5.58.0*

浑身上下都是bug，最新的bug是，需要不停登出登入才能看到别人发的最新的消息。请赶紧解决一下吧！

### 3/5 — Translation

*2025-11-23*

I hope there’s translation tool

### 1/5 — 这种软件不建议上除中国外的商店

*2025-10-10*

国粹主义着实是有点恐怖的

### 3/5 — what i feel

*2025-08-08, version 5.52.80*

I’m Asian and I cannot post any things about 🌈，so you know. I can only post those in LGBT applications, including this one, but you guys don’t allow me to do so even (profile)I wanna put my own photo but grabbing a rainbow flag my hand you guys said that illegal. i’m so sorry. I know others gonna spy on the application. but please please give a rest if you can. I need somewhere to be myself. I can’t in real life so now I can’t even online?
Maybe because the culture different , girls only wink, They don’t wanna talk with each other. and I feel awkward a lot, or I’m even afraid to talk to each other, cause they don’t want to talk to me. I don’t know I’m just saying so, because everyone have different thoughts. but still thank you to your people following r my suggestions: can we set up some groups? so we can make some friends and if I’m some same topics to talk… whatever have a good day guys and bye.hehe..

## Frequently asked questions about the L

### What is the L app?

The L is a popular community app for queer women to connect, share moments, and date. It offers features like personal journals, topic discussions, and live chats, with a focus on social safety through strict identity verification.

### What are the key features of the L app?

Key features include a personal 'Journal' for sharing thoughts and images, 'Topics' for discussions, 'Mood' for sharing feelings, 'Nearby' to find local users, 'World Travel' for global dating, and live video and voice chats.

### How much does the L app cost?

The app is free to download and use, with an optional 'Continuous Monthly Subscription' available for $3.78/month. This subscription offers extended membership benefits and auto-renews unless canceled.

### Is the L app available on all devices?

While the description doesn't explicitly state compatibility, it mentions payment through iTunes, suggesting it is available on iOS devices. Users can check their respective app stores for availability.

### What are common use cases for the L app?

Common use cases include finding local lesbian and queer women for dating and friendship, participating in community discussions, sharing personal experiences anonymously or openly, and engaging in live video or voice chats for entertainment and connection.

## Version history (last 5 releases)

### 5.63.0 — 2026-08-29

What's New:
1. Browse the recommendation post by category
2. Upload your own custom stickers
3. Fixed an issue where some accounts couldn't log in
4. Bug fixes and performance improvements

### 5.62.5 — 2026-08-24

Top bugs fixed and user experience improved

### 5.62.3 — 2026-08-15

Top bugs fixed and user experience improved

### 5.62.1 — 2026-07-29

Top bugs fixed and user experience improved

### 5.61.6 — 2026-07-23

Top bugs fixed and user experience improved

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