# the L - Lesbian Dating & Live — user reviews > 128 indexed App Store user reviews of the L by Hangzhou Re Lan Network Technology Co., Ltd., rated 3.50/5 from 211 ratings. - Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/the-l-lesbian-dating-and-live/id1086944243/reviews - App overview in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/the-l-lesbian-dating-and-live/id1086944243.md - Rating breakdown: 5★ 103 · 4★ 20 · 3★ 22 · 2★ 8 · 1★ 58 ## What do users think of the L? Overall sentiment: negative **Pros** - 👥 Good platform for meeting LGBT community members - 💬 Effective communication features for connecting with others - 🎯 Successfully helped users find relationships - 📱 Simple and easy-to-use interface - 🌈 Safe space for LGBT expression and community **Cons** - 🐛 Frequent crashes and app instability - 📢 Excessive and intrusive advertisements - 🚫 Aggressive content moderation and censorship - 🔐 Account suspension without clear explanation - 🎮 Poor customer service and support - 🔑 Persistent login and verification code issues - 👤 Abundance of fake accounts and scammers - ⚠️ Safety concerns with user tracking and harassment - 💰 High membership fees compared to competitors - 🌍 Restrictive policies for international/foreign users - 🎬 Live streaming and video features disabled or broken - 📍 Location tracking and privacy vulnerabilities **Commonly reported bugs** - Frequent app crashes and force closes - Unable to receive SMS verification codes - Login issues and automatic logouts - Profile picture and bio updates not saving - Video and live streaming features not working - Messages not displaying in chat despite notifications - Profile photos and past posts disappearing - App incompatibility with iPhone X and older iOS versions - Lag and stuttering during app usage - Splash screen ads with non-functional skip buttons - System maintenance errors preventing normal operation - Teen mode activation without user consent **Most requested features** - Translation tool for multi-language support - Group chat and community group functionality - Message recall/delete feature for private messages - Privacy controls to hide posts from specific users - 24-hour status visibility feature - Music/song sharing functionality - Account deletion/deactivation option - Distance-based sorting and range selection for broadcasts - Auto-send message on Enter key press - Video upload capability for English version - Improved verification system for account authenticity ## Newest reviews (16 of 128) ### 2/5 — 糟糕的app *2026-07-15* 我的账号好像突然被屏蔽了… 然后我在加拿大，但是国内有人短信发给我说过，为什么我在加拿大但是显示在国内离她150米.. ### 4/5 — Can’t upload photos *2026-06-08* Can’t upload photos ### 3/5 — Translation *2025-11-23* I hope there’s translation tool ### 3/5 — what i feel *2025-08-08, version 5.52.80* I’m Asian and I cannot post any things about 🌈，so you know. I can only post those in LGBT applications, including this one, but you guys don’t allow me to do so even (profile)I wanna put my own photo but grabbing a rainbow flag my hand you guys said that illegal. i’m so sorry. I know others gonna spy on the application. but please please give a rest if you can. I need somewhere to be myself. I can’t in real life so now I can’t even online? Maybe because the culture different , girls only wink, They don’t wanna talk with each other. and I feel awkward a lot, or I’m even afraid to talk to each other, cause they don’t want to talk to me. I don’t know I’m just saying so, because everyone have different thoughts. but still thank you to your people following r my suggestions: can we set up some groups? so we can make some friends and if I’m some same topics to talk… whatever have a good day guys and bye.hehe.. ### 3/5 — 支持rela *2025-07-29* 广告弹窗有点多，影响使用体验。建议减少强制广告 ### 2/5 — 动不动跳转广告，你没事吧？ *2024-11-30, version 5.45.0* 正编辑帖子呢，给我跳转广告，而且没有退出的选项，什么流氓软件赶快倒闭吧 ### 1/5 — 离大谱 *2024-09-29, version 5.44.0* 很垃圾，这开屏广告跟别的软件还不一样，热拉的只要你手机稍微动一下下立马跳转广告，感觉钱全花在研究这个跳转上了，导致我打开时候只能把手机放在一个稳定的平面上。简直是太离谱了 ### 1/5 — 杀猪盘太多，质量差，改个签名要求还高 *2024-07-23, version 5.42.0* 这样还不倒闭？网红装姬直播，各种圈钱。 脑残太多 ### 1/5 — 垃圾软件 *2024-07-09, version 5.41.3* 我两个新号 人脸人工认证后 再次登陆就被封永久，垃圾软件 ！直接下架好吗 ### 1/5 — 不懂 *2024-06-18* 本来弹窗广告➕应用内频繁卡顿已经很让人恼火了，图标还改得更丑了，技术力不行就算了审美也不行，不能仗着老用户多就做些恶心人的勾当啊，无语 ### 1/5 — 这个软件的广告让我非常失望 *2024-06-02, version 5.40.4* 打开软件就能获得随时随地弹出霸屏广告的美好体验，打开软件时的前置广告的跳过按钮十有八九点不动并且会跳转到广告里面，无语啦，热拉你是不是觉得我们是什么很贱的人吗 ### 1/5 — 這是一個沒有任何言論自由的LGBT平台 *2024-05-03* 這是一個嚴格遵守中國大陸獨裁政府的法律法規的平台 一切言論和行為模式都需要符合中國大陸的思維模式和法律法規 所有用戶都需要進行自我言論審查 需要完全遵從大陸共黨獨裁政府的一切規範 沒有言論自由 彼此歧視和鄙視鏈 堅決支持台灣獨立自主和民主自由 抵制此類配合大陸統戰台灣人民工作的滲透平台 台灣需要有自己的 言論自由的LGBT平台 而不是讓自己的LGBT群體在這種大陸軟件上被拉攏 滲透 和洗腦 很悲哀看到幾乎所有台灣les在這個平台上就像大陸人一樣嚴格遵守言論審查和自我審視 完全喪失了自由思考能力和批判思維能力 ### 3/5 — 无法连上视频麦 *2024-05-03* 大概三个月前发现再也不能开播 也不能上视频麦 是因为什么原因呢？ ### 1/5 — 垃圾的软件 *2024-04-05* 一个非常垃圾的软件，里面都是骗子，作为一个在Rela中7年的老会员，莫名其妙封号，而且用身份证也没有用，就是垃圾的软件，别人在里面网暴也不管，里面就是一群小孩子，很愚蠢，再也不会用。 ### 1/5 — 多次封头像艺术家摄影作品你们都能看脏活该下架 *2024-03-20, version 5.39.3* 都去隔壁，热拉该凉了，审核眼脏看什么都是脏的 ### 4/5 — 求求了 让我登上去吧 *2024-03-19* 澳服根本就是说一个完全无法登上去的状态在 ## Most critical reviews (10 lowest-rated) ### 1/5 — Sudden loud ads and live influencer harassment *2026-08-26* One star for the ad bug that plays loud ads suddenly and for not providing details for what exactly triggers a system warning. Like how do you expect users to know? Many of their contracted live influencers are rude and entitled; they will keep harassing you to tip. This app has been going steady downhill in the past 10 years. If you’re one of the original users, they also make account recovery basically impossible. 广告bug会突然播放震耳欲聋的广告还无法关闭，而且系统警告的触发条件也没有任何说明具体是哪句话或者那个行为违反文明条约。用户怎么可能知道？他们合作的很多主播都粗鲁无礼，自以为是，还会不停地骚扰你让你打赏。这app过去十年一直在走下坡路。如果你是早期用户，他们还设置重重找回账号的门槛，几乎不可能。 ### 1/5 — 关注列表 *2026-07-08* 页面的关注页，和发现页面没有任何区别，全是没有关注的系统推送的人，真正关注的人你想看都刷不到 ### 1/5 — 狗逼热拉无缘无故封我账号 *2026-05-22* 烂货平台快倒闭 ### 1/5 — 广告真他爹的多 *2026-04-02* 哪哪都是广告，还到处杀猪盘骗子 ### 1/5 — 到处都是bug *2026-02-10, version 5.58.0* 浑身上下都是bug，最新的bug是，需要不停登出登入才能看到别人发的最新的消息。请赶紧解决一下吧！ ### 1/5 — 这种软件不建议上除中国外的商店 *2025-10-10* 国粹主义着实是有点恐怖的 ### 1/5 — 无语的经历 *2025-02-12* 跨越十年 在热拉上成功脱单过一次 最后这次彻底销号并卸载 不是因为无止尽的广告跳转 也不是因为比安卓用户更加高昂的会员费 而是因为遇到了变态 对方通过热拉定位在两天内进入我的主页一百多次 最终成功定位我的具体住址 我保留自己报警的权利 在向热拉举报无果后对社交软件终于走向厌倦 社交软件没法筛选“精神病”患者 很可惜。 ### 1/5 — 无缘无故封号 *2025-01-30, version 5.47.1* 走客服告诉你只能申诉没有别的办法 申诉了十几遍还是不成功 让我换手机号换手机 赶紧倒闭吧 ### 1/5 — Full of pathetic losers *2025-01-25, version 5.47.1* 可悲的中国女同 ### 1/5 — 广告太恶心了 *2024-11-29, version 5.45.0* 我能理解你们要恰饭，但是不分场合直接倒计时硬怼广告还没有关闭键是谁教你的？ ## Most praised reviews (10 highest-rated) ### 5/5 — 超可爱的app *2025-07-30, version 5.52.50* 特别简单好用的社交APP，会推荐给身边拉子一起玩的～ ### 5/5 — Bad quality social media app. *2025-03-24, version 5.48.1* . ### 5/5 — Dear Customer Service Team, *2025-01-21* I am having trouble using the app and cannot use the video feature or play games. Can you help me understand why I cannot accept the video feature or access the games? I would be very grateful if you could help me solve this problem. Thank you, [Emily Escobar] ### 5/5 — 亲爱的程序员 发帖的时候能不能出个不给谁看的选项 *2024-04-27, version 5.39.4* 我不想让我暧昧对象看我发呜呜 ### 5/5 — Best app ever *2024-02-25* I love this app because I get to communicate with new people and that’s a good thing. I never had a problem so the interesting part when they text people I’ll let them fully get to know me is a great app to me, but there’s a problem I fully introduce myself and it won’t let me send a message but that’s OK. I will leave the ratings good because I love the app. ### 5/5 — 嘻 *2024-01-22, version 5.38.0* 下载了送对象吗 ### 5/5 — 帮忙顶一下谢谢 *2023-07-05* 虽然功能很丰富 可以看一一粥粥直播🥰但是不知道为什么每次下载好第一次关闭玩软件就卡住了点啥都没用希望官方大大能看到及时作出回应 ### 5/5 — 请官方重视我的建议 *2022-07-30* 1.假装情侣的头像太丑了 尤其是那个猫头鹰 能不能给它换掉或者干脆空白 而且假装情侣的算法能不能筛选一下只匹配对应属性 身为一个ppl 我绞尽脑汁留住对面的姐姐聊了五分钟最后发现是个t… 2.玩热拉快两年了 中途换过号 变了很多 唯一不变的是我一直没找到对象 没对象我就没有软件体验 官方能不能给我分配一个对象啊 ### 5/5 — 评价 *2022-03-15* 很好很好很好很好很好很好很好真的非常感谢大家的支持和支持你们知不知道有多好呢快来一起下载下载吧吧吧吧吧吧吧吧快快更新更新更新为什么不给我打开注册要写多少才可以啊 ### 5/5 — 怎么注册啊 *2022-03-06* 真的要写八级作业写论文作业写作业的我都不知道为什么要这样对我的情绪和美不美 乡中水烧开后放入教你如何快速发展的重要作用。我是鹃家庭前花的一朵玫瑰代表着自己喜欢的人是一种美德。 --- *Data collected daily from the US App Store and indexed by [AppsHunter](https://appshunter.io/). User reviews are verbatim App Store reviews. Ratings, prices and chart positions refresh continuously; this snapshot is from 2026-09-07.*