# Tit for Tat — Productivity + Intimacy: To Do

> Shared to-do list app for couples that gamifies chores with points and rewards. (iPhone/iPad app by Boat Launch, Inc..)

- Source: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/tit-for-tat/id937658385 (this page in markdown: same URL + `.md`)
- Developer: [Boat Launch, Inc.](https://appshunter.io/developer/937658384)
- Category: Productivity, Lifestyle
- Price: Free
- Rating: 3.75/5 from 8 App Store ratings · 7 written reviews indexed
- Age rating: 17+
- Requires: iOS 11.0 · 25 MB
- Languages: English
- Released: 2015-09-12
- Data updated: 2026-06-10
- Monetization: free
- User reviews in markdown: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/tit-for-tat/id937658385/reviews.md

## What is Tit for Tat?

Tit for Tat helps you and your partner Get Things Done and Have Fun.

Sometimes relationships get bogged down in all the logistics and there's no room left for romance. For most couples, logistics and romance are at odds, but they don't have to be. With Tit for Tat, you share a To Do list with points tied to each item. You get to say to your partner how much it's worth to you for them to pick up the dry cleaning, or mow the lawn.

As you accumulate points (or hearts, or love potions, or tighty whiteys, or whatever you choose), you can redeem them for rewards with your partner. Rewards can be an enchanted dinner for two, breakfast in bed, the World's Greatest Foot Massage, or whatever you come up with. Don't worry if you're out of ideas -- we have plenty!

Best of all, Tit for Tat gives you a way to appreciate your partner for the little things they do every day. Let them know you're aware that the dishwasher didn't empty itself.

It's fun, sexy, and shockingly productive!

## Key features

- Shared To-Do lists
- Point system for tasks
- Customizable rewards
- Appreciation for daily tasks
- Relationship gamification

## Recent user reviews (7 of 7)

All indexed reviews: https://appshunter.io/ios/app/tit-for-tat/id937658385/reviews.md

### 4/5 — A great solution for neurodivergent couples struggling with Executive Dysfunction

*2023-06-01*

I recently began using T4T to help my partner manage their time better, and to ensure we can keep our home clean (and our needs met!). So far, it has been very beneficial and I can see this application being a very useful tool for creating routines with a reward system that makes all parties feel appreciated for what they do. I would only add two features to improve this experience. The first, would be the ability to read a full task, because sometimes I attach instructions to more complex chores, and unless I show my partner the full directions from my phone, they won’t be able to view it on their own. The second feature I would add is inclusivity for polyamorous relationships. I currently live with my two partners and would love to include our other partner in this rewarding experience!

### 2/5 — Too many glitches during basic setup

*2022-12-05, version 1.1.7*

The interface in the initial setup process is extremely poor. For example, you have to put in a partner’s name to move forward, but the keyboard blocks the “next” buttons. I had to restart the app multiple times in the set up process. 

Also, please just let me see the interface and make lists and use the app without adding a partner first. I want to see if this will even work for us before I initiate this conversation with my partner. This seems like the best app idea of the ones available now because it incorporates incentives/intimacy, but extremely poor design and interface so it’s unusable.

### 2/5 — Two must sign up to see the app

*2020-07-23, version 1.1.5*

Well this ad looks very promisingAnd I very much wanted to start the process by downloading it and taking a look at it to review all of his features to see if it really would meet our needs however the app requires two people to download and sign up before you can even get past the first page… That’s a lot of extra imposition for something that even sure you want try with your partner yet. So I guess I will leave it at two stars for now until I somehow can access this app to look and see if it’s something I want to pursue further with my girl.

### 4/5 — 4/5 Review

*2019-01-31, version 1.1.3*

Great app! Been using if for a few weeks with my husband (who has adhd) and it absolutely helps. We rely on a reward system in our household, and to physically see it on a device that you carry everyday has helped our system work even better. Besides the few glitches and crashes this app is fantastic.

**Developer response:** Thanks so much for the kind words! If you see a crash again, please send a message through the support option in settings and I'll take a look!

### 3/5 — Great app but.. IT CONSTANTLY CRASHES!!

*2019-01-18, version 1.1.3*

Please fix this. This is a great app but it crashes as soon as you open it.

**Developer response:** Sorry to hear that! If the latest version is still crashing, please drop us an email or send a support message if you're able to get into the app. Thanks!

### 5/5 — Fantastic

*2016-04-24, version 1.0.4*

This app is truly fantastic. My boyfriend moved across the country and we wanted a way to stay productive in our relationship and keep in touch. This app provides everything we wanted from it, and when it didn't, we wrote to support. Scott fixed the problem almost immediately. He was very kind to us and incredibly sincere. 

Thanks for creating such an awesome app!

### 5/5 — The perfect app for 2!

*2015-10-21, version 1.0.2*

My husband and I love this app! It's such a fun way to engage during the day. Love it!

## Frequently asked questions about Tit for Tat

### How does Tit for Tat help couples?

Tit for Tat helps couples manage shared tasks by assigning points to chores and allowing redemption for rewards. This gamified approach fosters appreciation and can add fun and intimacy to the relationship.

### What kind of rewards can be redeemed in Tit for Tat?

Users can redeem accumulated points for various rewards agreed upon with their partner. Examples include romantic dinners, breakfast in bed, massages, or any other mutually desired experiences.

### Is Tit for Tat suitable for all ages?

Tit for Tat has an age rating of 17+, indicating it is intended for adult users. This is likely due to the intimacy and relationship-focused nature of its features.

### How often is Tit for Tat updated?

The latest version of Tit for Tat is 1.1.7, which was last updated on December 22, 2020. Users can expect updates to address bugs and potentially introduce new features.

### What devices support Tit for Tat?

Tit for Tat is available on iPhone, iPad, and iPod devices. This means it is designed for Apple's iOS ecosystem.

### What is the user sentiment for Tit for Tat?

Tit for Tat has an average rating of 3.8 stars from 8 ratings. This suggests a generally positive but mixed reception from its user base.

### Can Tit for Tat be used offline?

The provided information does not specify whether Tit for Tat supports offline use. For shared task management, an internet connection is often required for real-time synchronization.

## Version history (last 1 release)

### 1.1.7 — 2020-12-22

Fixes a crash when logging in on iOS 13
Fixes a crash when sending email to partner

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