# I'm There vs RealMen

The clearest difference is price: RealMen at Free against I'm There's $1.99. RealMen also leads on ratings volume (439 vs 9) and update cadence (monthly vs every 2 months). I'm There's advantage is rating (5.0 vs 4.4) and in-app purchases (none vs 1). On ads, device support and iOS requirement there is nothing between them.

RealMen is free to download; I'm There costs $1.99 up front. RealMen sells 1 in-app purchase, starting at $9.95 per month. I'm There asks for nothing beyond the download.

I'm There holds the better App Store score, 5.0 against 4.4. That said, the two scores are not equally well evidenced: RealMen has 439 ratings behind it against 9, so its average is the more settled of the two. Written reviews point the same way: 100% of I'm There's written reviews are positive against 68% of RealMen's.

I'm There ships an update every 2 months, RealMen monthly. The most recent releases landed on October 19, 2026 and October 21, 2026 respectively.

## The numbers

| Metric | I'm There | RealMen |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Price | $1.99 | **Free** |
| Rating | **[5.0 (9 ratings)](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/im-there/id1055916255/reviews)** | [4.4 (439 ratings)](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/realmen/id1424378966/reviews) |
| Number of ratings | 9 | **439** |
| Positive reviews | **100.0% of reviews** | 68.1% of reviews |
| In-app purchases | **No** | Yes |
| Ads | No | No |
| Update frequency | Every 2 months | **Monthly** |
| Monetization | Paid | **Free** |
| Best chart rank | **#141** | — |
| Size | 15 MB | 37 MB |
| Requires iOS | 15.6 | **15.0** |
| Devices | **iPhone, iPad, iPod, Mac** | iPhone, iPad, iPod |
| Age rating | 17+ | 17+ |
| Developer | [Brian Gontowski](https://appshunter.io/developer/1031065703) | [RMN Media Hub GmbH](https://appshunter.io/developer/1424378965) |

## What reviewers say

### I'm There

[App page](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/im-there/id1055916255)

**Currently charting:** #141 Top Paid · Social Networking (US App Store)

Manage your profile, skills, groups, and real estate from your mobile device. Stay connected to your virtual world while on the go. This is a third-party application not affiliated with the official platform.

**Highlights:** Profile management, Skill management, Group management, Real estate management, Event viewing, Design viewing

**Features:** iMessage stickers, Fun Camera support

**In-app purchases:** none


### RealMen

[App page](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/realmen/id1424378966)

This platform offers gay male dating with an intuitive design for easy use across devices. Find matches nearby with location-based search and filters, or explore new areas on a map. Customize your profile with photos and preferences to connect with others.

**Highlights:** Location-based search, Explore map mode, Dozens of search filters, Chat with emoticons, Favorites list, Profile customization, Privacy settings

**Features:** macOS Compatibility

**In-app purchases (1)**

| Purchase | Price | Billing |
| --- | --- | --- |
| VIP PROFILE | $9.95 | per month |

**What reviewers like**

- 👍 User-friendly interface and easy to use
- 💑 Effective for finding meaningful connections and relationships
- 🌈 Inclusive and welcoming LGBTQ+ community
- 🔒 Strong safety features and reporting system
- 💬 Good messaging and communication features

**What reviewers complain about**

- ⚠️ High prevalence of scammers and fake profiles
- 💰 Users requesting money and personal information
- 🚨 Scam artists harassing for financial information
- 📞 Unwanted direct phone calls from unshared numbers
- 👤 Fake and stolen profile images

**Reported bugs**

- Invalid action error when attempting login
- Account deletion without user initiation
- Pending account reactivation requests not resolving
- Verification code delivery failures to iMessage
- Password reset link errors

**Requested features**

- Increased user base and advertising
- Better spam and scammer filtering
- Improved account security and verification
- More robust profile authentication
- Enhanced user moderation and vetting


## Frequently asked questions

### Is I'm There free?

I'm There costs $1.99, with no in-app purchases.

### Is RealMen free?

RealMen is free to download, with in-app purchases available.

### Which has better reviews, I'm There or RealMen?

I'm There is rated higher. I'm There averages 5.0 out of 5 from 9 ratings, while RealMen averages 4.4 from 439 ratings.

### Do I'm There or RealMen have ads?

Neither I'm There nor RealMen shows ads.

### Which is updated more often, I'm There or RealMen?

I'm There ships an update every 2 months, and RealMen monthly. Most recently, I'm There was updated on October 19, 2026 and RealMen on October 21, 2026.

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*Compared by [AppsHunter](https://appshunter.io/) from daily US App Store data. Review summaries are generated from verbatim App Store reviews.*