# Xtremboy vs RealMen

The clearest difference is rating: RealMen at 4.4 against Xtremboy's 2.5. RealMen also leads on in-app purchases (none vs 3) and ratings volume (439 vs 20). Xtremboy's advantage is iOS requirement (13.0 vs 15.0). On price, ads and device support there is nothing between them.

Both are free to download. Xtremboy sells 3 in-app purchases, starting at $8.99 per month. RealMen asks for nothing beyond the download.

RealMen holds the better App Store score, 4.4 against 2.5. That said, the two scores are not equally well evidenced: RealMen has 439 ratings behind it against 20, so its average is the more settled of the two. Written reviews point the same way: 56% of Xtremboy's written reviews are positive against 68% of RealMen's.

Xtremboy ships an update every 3 months, RealMen monthly. The most recent releases landed on October 24, 2026 and October 29, 2026 respectively.

## The numbers

| Metric | Xtremboy | RealMen |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Price | Free | Free |
| Rating | [2.5 (20 ratings)](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/xtremboy/id1188285842/reviews) | **[4.4 (439 ratings)](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/realmen/id1424378966/reviews)** |
| Number of ratings | 20 | **439** |
| Positive reviews | 55.6% of reviews | **68.1% of reviews** |
| In-app purchases | Yes | **No** |
| Ads | No | No |
| Update frequency | Every 3 months | **Monthly** |
| Monetization | Freemium | **Free** |
| Size | 40 MB | 29 MB |
| Requires iOS | **13.0** | 15.0 |
| Devices | iPhone, iPad, iPod | iPhone, iPad, iPod |
| Age rating | 17+ | 17+ |
| Developer | [I-Planet](https://appshunter.io/developer/882463202) | [RMN Media Hub GmbH](https://appshunter.io/developer/1424378965) |

## What reviewers say

### Xtremboy

[App page](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/xtremboy/id1188285842)

A gay dating service connecting French men interested in alternative lifestyles, sports, and specific fashion. Offers private chat and advanced search filters for discreet connections.

**Highlights:** Gay dating for French men, Alternative lifestyle focus, Private chat, Advanced search filters, Discreet service

**Features:** macOS Compatibility, Vision Pro support

**In-app purchases (3)**

| Purchase | Price | Billing |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Abonnement Premium | $8.99 | per month |
| Abonnement Premium | $43.99 | per 6 months |
| Abonnement Premium | $78.99 | per year |


### RealMen

[App page](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/realmen/id1424378966)

Connect with other gay men for dating and social interaction. Discover nearby matches using location services and advanced filters, or explore new areas on a map. Customize your profile with descriptions and photos to express your personality.

**Highlights:** Location-based search, Explore map feature, Advanced search filters, Profile customization, Chat with emoticons, Favorites list, Privacy settings

**Features:** macOS Compatibility, Vision Pro support

**In-app purchases:** none

**What reviewers like**

- 👍 User-friendly interface and easy to use
- 💑 Effective for finding meaningful connections and relationships
- 🌈 Inclusive and welcoming LGBTQ+ community
- 🔒 Strong safety features and reporting system
- 💬 Good messaging and communication features

**What reviewers complain about**

- ⚠️ High prevalence of scammers and fake profiles
- 💰 Users requesting money and personal information
- 🚨 Scam artists harassing for financial information
- 📞 Unwanted direct phone calls from unshared numbers
- 👤 Fake and stolen profile images

**Reported bugs**

- Invalid action error when attempting login
- Account deletion without user initiation
- Pending account reactivation requests not resolving
- Verification code delivery failures to iMessage
- Password reset link errors

**Requested features**

- Increased user base and advertising
- Better spam and scammer filtering
- Improved account security and verification
- More robust profile authentication
- Enhanced user moderation and vetting


## Frequently asked questions

### Is Xtremboy free?

Xtremboy is free to download, with in-app purchases available.

### Is RealMen free?

RealMen is free to download, with no in-app purchases.

### Which has better reviews, Xtremboy or RealMen?

RealMen is rated higher. Xtremboy averages 2.5 out of 5 from 20 ratings, while RealMen averages 4.4 from 439 ratings.

### Do Xtremboy or RealMen have ads?

Neither Xtremboy nor RealMen shows ads.

### Which is updated more often, Xtremboy or RealMen?

Xtremboy ships an update every 3 months, and RealMen monthly. Most recently, Xtremboy was updated on October 24, 2026 and RealMen on October 29, 2026.

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*Compared by [AppsHunter](https://appshunter.io/) from daily US App Store data. Review summaries are generated from verbatim App Store reviews.*