# Poly Dating vs Our Poly

The clearest difference is rating: Poly Dating at 4.1 against Our Poly's 1.0. Poly Dating also leads on review sentiment (28% vs 0%) and ratings volume (210 vs 2). Our Poly's advantage is update cadence (every 2 weeks vs every 2 months). On price, ads, in-app purchases and monetization model there is nothing between them.

Both are free to download. Poly Dating sells 19 in-app purchases, starting at $9.99 per month and Our Poly sells 3 one-off in-app purchases. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

Poly Dating holds the better App Store score, 4.1 against 1.0. That said, the two scores are not equally well evidenced: Poly Dating has 210 ratings behind it against 2, so its average is the more settled of the two. Written reviews point the same way: 28% of Poly Dating's written reviews are positive against 0% of Our Poly's.

Poly Dating ships an update every 2 months, Our Poly every 2 weeks. The most recent releases landed on September 26, 2026 and September 23, 2026 respectively.

## The numbers

| Metric | Poly Dating | Our Poly |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Price | Free | Free |
| Rating | **[4.1 (210 ratings)](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/poly-dating-hellopoly/id1212811230/reviews)** | [1.0 (2 ratings)](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/our-poly/id6740154701/reviews) |
| Number of ratings | **210** | 2 |
| Positive reviews | **27.8% of reviews** | 0.0% of reviews |
| In-app purchases | Yes | Yes |
| Ads | Yes | Yes |
| Update frequency | Every 2 months | **Every 2 weeks** |
| Monetization | Free with in-app purchases | Free with in-app purchases |
| Size | 144 MB | 54 MB |
| Requires iOS | **15.6** | 17.0 |
| Devices | iPhone, iPod | iPhone, iPad |
| Age rating | 17+ | 17+ |
| Developer | [Polyamorous Pty Ltd](https://appshunter.io/developer/1169998605) | [NGHBR Inc](https://appshunter.io/developer/1598124719) |

## What reviewers say

### Poly Dating

[App page](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/poly-dating-hellopoly/id1212811230)

This app facilitates connections for individuals practicing ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, or seeking kink experiences. It offers inclusive profile options and customizable match preferences to help users find compatible partners for various relationship styles and interests.

**Highlights:** Inclusive profile options, Customizable match preferences, Multiple connection levels, Search for kink and shibari partners, Find polyamorous, open, or poly-curious individuals

**Features:** macOS Compatibility, Family Sharing, Vision Pro support

**In-app purchases (19)**

| Purchase | Price | Billing |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Females Membership | $9.99 | per month |
| Males Memberhsip | $9.99 | per month |
| Females in couple Membership | $9.99 | per month |
| Males in Couple Membership | $9.99 | per month |
| Non-binary membership | $9.99 | per month |
| Full Membership | $9.99 | per month |
| Full membership for Non-binary | $9.99 | per month |
| Full membership for Other | $9.99 | per month |
| Transfemale Membership | $9.99 | per month |
| Genderfluid Membership | $9.99 | per month |
| Upgrades give more benefits! | $29.99 | per month |
| premium | $29.99 | per month |
| premium | $39.99 | per 3 months |
| Upgrades give more benefits! | $39.99 | per 3 months |
| premium | $59.99 | per 6 months |
| 250 Credits for Female | $5.99 | one-time |
| 250 Credits Male | $5.99 | one-time |
| 250 Credits Female in Couple | $5.99 | one-time |
| 250 Credits Male in Couple | $5.99 | one-time |

**What reviewers like**

- 👍 Tailored for poly dating
- 👍 Good for ENM crowd
- 👍 Genuine app
- 👍 Easy to use
- 👍 Well-structured app

**What reviewers complain about**

- 🐛 Buggy and clunky
- 🐛 App won't work
- 🐛 All scammers
- 🐛 Can't get verification
- 🐛 Can't access account

**Reported bugs**

- App won't work
- Email verification not received
- Account creation failure
- Location not setting up
- Nothing populates

**Requested features**

- Allow uploading photos larger than 1MB
- Improve photo framing and rearrangement
- Add autocorrect functionality
- Increase search distance options
- Include imperial measurements


### Our Poly

[App page](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/our-poly/id6740154701)

Connect with verified ethical non-monogamous individuals for real-life experiences. Plan dates, host gatherings, and build meaningful connections within a secure and private community.

**Highlights:** Verified member community, Real-life date creation, Event hosting and management, Partner profile linking, Advanced privacy controls, Detailed preference filtering

**Features:** macOS Compatibility, Vision Pro support

**In-app purchases (3)**

| Purchase | Price | Billing |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Lifetime Founding Member | $28.00 | one-time |
| Lifetime Community Member | $96.00 | one-time |
| Our Poly Life Time Ambassador | $100.00 | one-time |


## Frequently asked questions

### Is Poly Dating free?

Poly Dating is free to download, with in-app purchases available.

### Is Our Poly free?

Our Poly is free to download, with in-app purchases available.

### Which has better reviews, Poly Dating or Our Poly?

Poly Dating is rated higher. Poly Dating averages 4.1 out of 5 from 210 ratings, while Our Poly averages 1.0 from 2 ratings.

### Do Poly Dating or Our Poly have ads?

Both Poly Dating and Our Poly show ads.

### Which is updated more often, Poly Dating or Our Poly?

Poly Dating ships an update every 2 months, and Our Poly every 2 weeks. Most recently, Poly Dating was updated on September 26, 2026 and Our Poly on September 23, 2026.

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*Compared by [AppsHunter](https://appshunter.io/) from daily US App Store data. Review summaries are generated from verbatim App Store reviews.*