# 她说 | 认真交朋友 vs Second Me

她说 | 认真交朋友 and Second Me both sit at 4.4 stars, but that hides the real split: 90% of Second Me's written reviews are positive against 44% of 她说 | 认真交朋友's. Second Me also leads on ads (none vs shown). 她说 | 认真交朋友's advantage is chart position (#173 vs unranked) and ratings volume (519 vs 153). On price, rating, update cadence and in-app purchases there is nothing between them.

Both are free to download. 她说 | 认真交朋友 sells 18 in-app purchases, starting at $12.99 per month and Second Me sells 10 in-app purchases, starting at $0.99 per month. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

Second Me holds the better App Store score, 4.6 against 4.4. Both are backed by a comparable volume of ratings — 519 and 153 respectively. Written reviews point the same way: 44% of 她说 | 认真交朋友's written reviews are positive against 90% of Second Me's.

她说 | 认真交朋友 ships an update fortnightly, Second Me every 11 days. The most recent releases landed on October 26, 2026 and October 24, 2026 respectively.

## The numbers

| Metric | 她说 | 认真交朋友 | Second Me |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Price | Free | Free |
| Rating | [4.4 (519 ratings)](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/id1473403116/reviews) | **[4.6 (153 ratings)](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/second-me-your-digital-mind/id6475769640/reviews)** |
| Number of ratings | **519** | 153 |
| Positive reviews | 43.6% of reviews | **89.6% of reviews** |
| In-app purchases | Yes | Yes |
| Ads | Yes | **No** |
| Update frequency | Fortnightly | **Every 11 days** |
| Monetization | Free with in-app purchases | Free with in-app purchases |
| Best chart rank | **#173** | — |
| Size | 347 MB | 130 MB |
| Requires iOS | **15.0** | 15.5 |
| Devices | iPhone, iPod | **iPhone, iPad, iPod** |
| Age rating | 17+ | 4+ |
| Developer | [Intelcupid(sanya)Tech Co.,Ltd.](https://appshunter.io/developer/1473403115) | [Mindverse AI](https://appshunter.io/developer/1725116814) |

## What reviewers say

### 她说 | 认真交朋友

[App page](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/id1473403116)

**Currently charting:** #173 Top Grossing · Social Networking (US App Store)

This social app helps users build genuine connections, find romantic partners, make friends, and expand their professional network. It features a strict user review process and daily personalized recommendations of 21 real users to facilitate meaningful matches.

**Highlights:** Genuine connection building, Dating and finding partners, Friend making, Networking, Strict user review, Daily personalized recommendations

**Features:** macOS Compatibility, Vision Pro support

**In-app purchases (18)**

| Purchase | Price | Billing |
| --- | --- | --- |
| 她说VIP特权1个月 | $12.99 | per month |
| 她说VIP特权包月限时优惠 | $12.99 | per month |
| 她说黑金VIP特权1个月 | $34.99 | per month |
| 她说VIP特权6个月 | $39.99 | per 6 months |
| 她说VIP特权12个月 | $69.99 | per year |
| 她说黑金VIP特权3个月 | $69.99 | per 3 months |
| 她说黑金VIP特权6个月 | $99.99 | per 6 months |
| 她说黑金VIP特权12个月 | $179.99 | per year |
| 她说超喜欢2个 | $2.99 | one-time |
| 她说单人消息已读未读特权3个月 | $2.99 | one-time |
| 她说今日精选特权1次 | $3.99 | one-time |
| 她说超喜欢11个 | $9.99 | one-time |
| 她说曝光计划60次 | $9.99 | one-time |
| 她说定向搜索解锁卡8次 | $14.99 | one-time |
| 她说定向搜索解锁卡15次 | $22.99 | one-time |
| 她说超喜欢购买36个 | $29.99 | one-time |
| 她说曝光计划200次 | $29.99 | one-time |
| 她说心意直通卡 | $59.99 | one-time |

**What reviewers like**

- 💕 Successful matchmaking and relationships
- 🎨 Well-designed UI/UX interface
- 👥 Healthy community atmosphere and social features
- 🧠 Comprehensive personality profiles with MBTI and attachment styles
- 🛡️ Safety measures and user verification

**What reviewers complain about**

- 🤖 Abundance of fake profiles and bots
- 💰 High subscription costs with poor value
- 🎯 Poor matching algorithm and irrelevant recommendations
- 🌍 Location-based matching failures for international users
- ⚠️ Scams and fraudulent users (romance scams)

**Reported bugs**

- Typing lag and keyboard freezing issues
- Unable to receive SMS verification codes
- App crashes and frequent logouts
- Profile text randomly deletes
- Poor server connection and error messages

**Requested features**

- Poke/tap functionality in chat
- Better location filtering controls
- Gender preference filter in discovery
- Blacklist/block feature for users
- Improved constellation/astrology matching logic


### Second Me

[App page](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/second-me-your-digital-mind/id6475769640)

This social network uses AI to handle the initial social legwork, connecting you with people based on deep resonance rather than superficial criteria. Your AI identity learns from you to find meaningful connections, acting as a social concierge to maintain relationships.

**Highlights:** Dynamic AI identity learns from user data, Connection based on deep personality resonance, AI handles initial social legwork and small talk, AI acts as a social concierge for relationship maintenance, Ensures all identities are tied to real people

**Features:** macOS Compatibility, Vision Pro support

**In-app purchases (10)**

| Purchase | Price | Billing |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Pro | $0.99 | per month |
| Plus | $0.99 | per month |
| Pro (Monthly) | $10.00 | per month |
| Pro (Monthly) | $20.00 | per month |
| Max (Monthly) | $43.00 | per month |
| Pro (Annually) | $100.00 | per year |
| Pro (Annually) | $200.00 | per year |
| Max (Annually) | $439.00 | per year |
| 1,000 Diamonds | $22.99 | one-time |
| 10,000 Diamonds | $229.99 | one-time |

**What reviewers like**

- 🚀 Efficient and productive
- 👍 Intuitive and user-friendly
- 🤖 Impressive AI capabilities
- 💡 Innovative features
- 🎨 Visually appealing design

**What reviewers complain about**

- 🐛 Occasional bugs and glitches
- ⏱️ Slow response times at times
- 🔒 Concerns about security and privacy
- 💰 Hidden or unclear pricing
- 🚫 Limitations on certain features or functionality

**Reported bugs**

- Audio recording issues
- Syncing problems between devices
- Inconsistent performance on different platforms

**Requested features**

- iPad version
- More customization options
- Improved integration with other apps
- Enhanced voice recording and transcription
- Ability to turn off specific notifications


## Frequently asked questions

### Is 她说 | 认真交朋友 free?

她说 | 认真交朋友 is free to download, with in-app purchases available.

### Is Second Me free?

Second Me is free to download, with in-app purchases available.

### Which has better reviews, 她说 | 认真交朋友 or Second Me?

Second Me is rated higher. 她说 | 认真交朋友 averages 4.4 out of 5 from 519 ratings, while Second Me averages 4.6 from 153 ratings.

### Do 她说 | 认真交朋友 or Second Me have ads?

她说 | 认真交朋友 shows ads; Second Me does not.

### Which is updated more often, 她说 | 认真交朋友 or Second Me?

她说 | 认真交朋友 ships an update fortnightly, and Second Me every 11 days. Most recently, 她说 | 认真交朋友 was updated on October 26, 2026 and Second Me on October 24, 2026.

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