# Obedience vs Grower Diary

The clearest difference is device support: Obedience at 3 against Grower Diary's 1. Obedience also leads on iOS requirement (15.0 vs 17.0). On price, update cadence, ads and in-app purchases there is nothing between them.

Both are free to download. Obedience sells 9 in-app purchases, starting at $6.99 per month and Grower Diary sells 1 one-off in-app purchase. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

Obedience ships an update every 9 days, Grower Diary every 10 days. The most recent releases landed on November 7, 2026 and October 31, 2026 respectively.

## The numbers

| Metric | Obedience | Grower Diary |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Price | Free | Free |
| Rating | **[4.7 (3K ratings)](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/obedience-bdsm-habit-tracker/id1484629691/reviews)** | — |
| Number of ratings | **3K** | — |
| Positive reviews | 75.4% of reviews | — |
| In-app purchases | Yes | Yes |
| Ads | No | No |
| Update frequency | **Every 9 days** | Every 10 days |
| Monetization | Free with in-app purchases | — |
| Size | 123 MB | 124 MB |
| Requires iOS | **15.0** | 17.0 |
| Devices | **iPhone, iPad, iPod** | iPhone |
| Age rating | 17+ | 12+ |
| Developer | [Obedience B.V.](https://appshunter.io/developer/1484629690) | [Ondrej Prochazka](https://appshunter.io/developer/6775463232) |

## What reviewers say

### Obedience

[App page](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/obedience-bdsm-habit-tracker/id1484629691)

This app helps couples in BDSM dynamics track daily and weekly habits, with one partner managing rewards and punishments. It facilitates real-time updates and communication between partners, supporting multiple participants.

**Highlights:** Customizable daily/weekly habits and tasks, Define own punishments and rewards, Track rules and assign points, Live chat with partner, Real-time sharing and multiple partner support, Stats and graphs for habit tracking

**Features:** macOS Compatibility, Vision Pro support

**In-app purchases (9)**

| Purchase | Price | Billing |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Obedience Pro 1 Month | $6.99 | per month |
| Obedience Pro 3 Months | $14.99 | per 3 months |
| Yearly | $14.99 | per year |
| Obedience Pro 6 Months | $19.99 | per 6 months |
| Yearly | $29.99 | per year |
| Yearly | $29.99 | per year |
| Yearly | $29.99 | per year |
| Yearly | $29.99 | per year |
| Yearly | $29.99 | per year |

**What reviewers like**

- 👍 Good app for tracking habits
- 💡 Customizable rewards and punishments
- 🚀 Helpful for long-distance relationships
- 👍 Useful for accountability and motivation
- 💡 Discreet mode for privacy

**What reviewers complain about**

- 🐛 Bugs with tracking and syncing tasks
- 🔒 Privacy concerns with Discord server
- 💰 Expensive premium subscription
- 🐛 Glitches with notifications and messaging
- 🔒 Lack of password protection

**Reported bugs**

- Tasks not tracking or resetting properly
- Points not updating accurately
- Messaging and notification issues
- Losing data when switching between partners
- Compatibility problems with older devices

**Requested features**

- Ability to add more than 5 habits on free version
- Option to pause tasks and habits
- Ability to request approval for completed tasks
- Customizable color themes
- Separate section for one-time tasks


### Grower Diary

[App page](https://appshunter.io/ios/app/grower-diary/id6775463230)

**In-app purchases (1)**

| Purchase | Price | Billing |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Full Version Unlock | $4.99 | one-time |


## Frequently asked questions

### Is Obedience free?

Obedience is free to download, with in-app purchases available.

### Is Grower Diary free?

Grower Diary is free to download, with in-app purchases available.

### Do Obedience or Grower Diary have ads?

Neither Obedience nor Grower Diary shows ads.

### Which is updated more often, Obedience or Grower Diary?

Obedience ships an update every 9 days, and Grower Diary every 10 days. Most recently, Obedience was updated on November 7, 2026 and Grower Diary on October 31, 2026.

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*Compared by [AppsHunter](https://appshunter.io/) from daily US App Store data. Review summaries are generated from verbatim App Store reviews.*