Comparison

Stealf vs Don't Text Your Ex

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Stealf

This app helps you protect your private contacts by hiding them or masking their details. You can automate this process using Apple Shortcuts and secure your access with Face ID or a passcode.

Highlights
  • Hide or mask contacts
  • Automate with Shortcuts/Siri
  • Mute/unmute WhatsApp notifications
  • Archive/unarchive WhatsApp chats
  • Secure access with Face ID/passcode
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Hide or mask your secret phone contacts with Stealf! Introducing Stealf, the ultimate solution to add privacy to your secret connections. Stealf empowers you to hide or mask your secret contacts with ease, manually or automatically using Apple Shortcuts. Stealfed contacts will be hidden from your phone or masked whenever needed. Hidden contacts will not be found in your device while masked contacts will display under custom alternative names or phone number. Key Features: – Temporarily hide or mask your secret contacts. – Stealf automation through Siri and Shortcuts app. – Automatically mute and unmute WhatsApp notifications for a contact. – Automatically archive and unarchive WhatsApp chats for a contact. – Secure access to your stealfs using Face ID or passcode. Privacy Policy: https://stealf.app/privacy-policy Terms of Use: https://stealf.app/terms-of-service/

About

Don't Text Your Ex

Features
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The urge to text your ex always hits at the worst time. Right after you break up, it's 2am that gets you. Don't Text shows you what that message could cost you, based on your situation right now, and then lets you decide. Don't text him. Don't text her. Not tonight. This isn't a comfort app. It's the pause between the urge and the send button. OPEN IT WHEN • It's late and "you up?" is already typed • Your ex texted first and you don't know whether to reply • You want to get back together but don't know if reaching out now will help • You're sticking to the no contact rule, but you're starting to slip Whether you want them back or want to get over your ex and move on, the first step is the same: don't send this one. HOW IT WORKS 1. Tap "I want to text them" (or "They contacted me" if they reached out) 2. Go through four screens: Reality, Impact, Rule, Choice 3. Choose Wait or Send anyway 4. Every choice is logged IT READS YOUR SITUATION • Days since the breakup • What time it is, and how many times you've been here today • What you've logged here: whether you texted them recently, or they reached out first (and keep doing it) • Your goal: Reconnect, Protect myself, or Not sure yet • How many times in a row you've held back • Days that hit hard: Valentine's Day, Christmas, New Year's, and Thanksgiving in the US NO CONTACT TRACKER • How many times you held back, your streak, and your hold rate • A calendar with each day's decisions and how strong the urge was • A card to save or share on days you hold back: "I didn't send it." UNSENT MESSAGES Write what you want to say to them here instead. They'll never see it. LATE-NIGHT NUDGES One nudge around 11pm, only if you've struggled this past week and haven't opened the app that day. Every day, now and then, or off. WHY THIS EXISTS "Just don't text them" doesn't work at 2am. You need a pause, and a clear look at what you're about to lose. Closure was never going to come from their reply. FREE USE AND CONTROL PASS • Free: once a day, plus once more after a short ad. • Reaching the last screen uses one; leaving before then doesn't. It resets at midnight. • Need more without subscribing? Control Pass (paid) removes the daily limit for 24 hours, or 3, 7, 14, or 30 days. One-time purchase, no auto-renewal. THE NEXT YOU (SUBSCRIPTION) Holding back is step one. Breakup recovery is what comes next: putting the energy you'd spend on them back into yourself. That's where healing starts. • A daily question, "Did you look after yourself today?", with photos if you like • Goals across six areas (exercise, work, looks, money, hobbies, people) with something to do each day, one step at a time • Worn out? Take 3 or 7 days off; the daily question, tasks and reminders pause • The You Back Then: reread your unsent messages a week later, with the day and time you wrote them • No daily limit You can subscribe two weeks after you first open the app, or sooner once you've held back enough. PRIVACY • No account needed for the core app. Without one, your records stay on this device. • An account is only for The Next You and backup. Unsent messages, notes and photos are encrypted on your device before they're uploaded, so we can't read them. Other records, like dates and counts, are backed up without that encryption. On a new device, sign in to restore everything (with your recovery code, if asked). • We never read your texts, chats or contacts. SUBSCRIPTION TERMS The Next You is a monthly auto-renewing subscription. Payment is charged to your Apple Account at confirmation. It renews automatically unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Manage or cancel it in your Apple Account's subscription settings. Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/ Privacy Policy: https://darkmotivations.com/dont-text/privacy Silence is leverage. Made by Dark Motivations

Screenshots

Stealf4 screens
Don't Text Your Ex4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is ads: Stealf at none against Don't Text Your Ex's shown. Don't Text Your Ex's advantage is device support (3 vs 1). On price, update cadence, in-app purchases and iOS requirement there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Stealf sells 3 in-app purchases, starting at $1.99 per month and Don't Text Your Ex sells 5 one-off in-app purchases. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

Stealf ships an update every 3 days, Don't Text Your Ex every 5 days. The most recent releases landed on October 9, 2026 and October 18, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard2 real differences · 8 level
Stealf versus Don't Text Your Ex: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterStealfDon't Text Your Ex
PriceFreeFree
Rating5.0 (1 ratings) — better—
Positive reviews100.0% of reviews—
Number of ratings1 — better—
Update frequencyEvery 3 days — betterEvery 5 days
AdsNo — betterYes
In-app purchasesYesYes
MonetizationFreemium—
DevicesiPhoneiPhone, iPad, iPod — better
Requires iOS16.015.0 — better
Further details — not scored
Size55 MB71 MB
Age rating4+4+
DeveloperLonemark Solutions, LLCMyQuietSpot Inc.

In-app purchases

3 purchases

Stealf

Subscriptions2
  • Monthly Plan$1.991 Month
  • Yearly Plan$9.991 Year
One-time1
  • One-ime purchase$9.99
5 purchases

Don't Text Your Ex

One-time5
  • 24 Hour Emergency Pass$0.99
  • 3 Day Emergency Pass$1.99
  • 7-Day Control Pass2 variants$2.99
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  • 14-Day Control Pass2 variants$4.99
  • 30-Day Control Pass2 variants$7.99

Questions

Is Stealf free?
Stealf is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is Don't Text Your Ex free?
Don't Text Your Ex is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Do Stealf or Don't Text Your Ex have ads?
Don't Text Your Ex shows ads; Stealf does not.
Which is updated more often, Stealf or Don't Text Your Ex?
Stealf ships an update every 3 days, and Don't Text Your Ex every 5 days. Most recently, Stealf was updated on October 9, 2026 and Don't Text Your Ex on October 18, 2026.

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