Comparison

Pairings vs Agapi

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

Pairings

Features
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Ten minutes. One phone. A better conversation. Pairings turns your evening into a short ritual for two: one thoughtful question, one small memory saved, one easy plan for the week. No partner invites, no feed, no account. TONIGHT Open Pairings together and get one guided ritual. Answer a prompt out loud, trade an appreciation, and finish in the time it takes to make tea. DATE JAR Pull a date idea that actually fits your night. Filter by energy, budget, and time instead of scrolling a list you will never use. MEMORY SHELF Keep the good ones. Notes, appreciations, and saved ideas collect in one place you can look back on. MADE FOR YOUR STAGE Tell Pairings where you are, whether that is new, long distance, long term, married, or reconnecting, and the prompts follow. FREE - One daily ritual - Starter prompt decks - Basic Date Jar filters - Anniversary and milestone context - A starter memory shelf PAIRINGS PLUS - Full ritual deck library - Advanced Date Jar filters - Weekly ritual planning - Unlimited saved memories - Premium milestone recap cards A CALMER COUPLES APP - Local-first and private by default - No partner accounts, no feeds, no public sharing - No AI coach and no therapy claims - Built for one shared device, side by side Terms of Use: https://killex00.github.io/tos2 Privacy Policy: https://killex00.github.io/privacy-policy2

About

Agapi

Strengthen your connection with daily shared prompts and insightful quizzes designed for couples. Organize important dates, create shared lists, and send small gestures of affection. This app provides a private space for couples to deepen their understanding and appreciation of each other.

Highlights
  • Daily shared prompts
  • Couples personality quizzes
  • Important dates tracker
  • Shared lists for activities
  • Private note wall
  • Optional cycle sharing
Features
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Agapi is a warm app for couples who want to keep noticing each other. Every day brings one shared prompt. You both answer before seeing each other's, small rituals that add up to a richer picture of the two of you over time. WHAT'S INSIDE - Daily shared prompt. Answer separately, then read each other's. No skipping ahead. - Couples quizzes: attachment style, love languages, MBTI, enneagram, big five. Each renders a shared report showing where you meet and where you'll stretch. - Important dates on a warm home screen: anniversaries, birthdays, trips, the stuff you never want to forget. - Shared lists for movies to watch, activities to try, things you want to buy together. - Pokes: a kiss, a hug, a "thinking of you." Tiny gestures that land where a text wouldn't. - A private note wall for love letters, inside jokes, and the things that don't fit anywhere else. - Optional cycle sharing: period, ovulation, and reminders synced privately between partners. Fully opt-in. ONE SUBSCRIPTION, TWO PEOPLE One partner subscribes. Both of you unlock every quiz, every report, and every premium ritual. No ads. No algorithm feed. No followers. Just a quiet space that belongs to you two. WHAT AGAPI MEANS Agapi is Greek for unconditional love, the deep and steady kind. We built this for the long middle of a relationship: after the infatuation, into the real work, through the parts that don't fit in a highlight reel. PREMIUM INCLUDES - Every couples quiz with shared partner reports - Attachment, MBTI, enneagram, love languages, big five - Unlimited report refreshes as you grow - Priority access to new rituals FREE INCLUDES - Daily prompt for both of you - Shared lists, important dates, notes - Unlimited pokes - One attachment preview PRIVACY Your space is shared only between you and your partner. No social graph. No public profiles. No sharing with anyone outside the two of you. Subscriptions auto-renew unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the current period ends. Manage or cancel any time from Apple ID, Subscriptions. Terms of Use: https://getagapi.com/terms Privacy Policy: https://getagapi.com/privacy

Screenshots

Pairings4 screens
Agapi4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is update cadence: Agapi at every 2 weeks against Pairings's every 4 months. Agapi also leads on iOS requirement (15.1 vs 18.0). On price, ads, in-app purchases and device support there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. Pairings sells 2 in-app purchases, starting at $7.99 per month and Agapi sells 3 in-app purchases, starting at $7.99 per month. Whichever you choose, the download price is not the number that matters.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

Pairings ships an update every 4 months, Agapi every 2 weeks. The most recent releases landed on September 20, 2026 and September 19, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard2 real differences · 8 level
Pairings versus Agapi: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterPairingsAgapi
PriceFreeFree
Rating—4.3 (8 ratings) — better
Positive reviews—0.0% of reviews
Number of ratings—8 — better
Update frequencyEvery 4 monthsEvery 2 weeks — better
AdsNoNo
In-app purchasesYesYes
Monetization—Freemium
DevicesiPhoneiPhone, iPod — better
Requires iOS18.015.1 — better
Further details — not scored
Size1 MB66 MB
Age rating12+17+
DeveloperMarek SokolTestcode, Inc.

In-app purchases

2 purchases

Pairings

Subscriptions2
  • Pairings Plus Monthly3 Days trial$7.991 Month
  • Pairings Plus Annual7 Days trial$34.991 Year
3 purchases

Agapi

Subscriptions2
  • Agapi Premium - Monthly$7.991 Month
  • Agapi Premium - Yearly7 Days trial$69.991 Year
One-time1
  • Agapi Premium - Lifetime$200.00

Questions

Is Pairings free?
Pairings is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Is Agapi free?
Agapi is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Do Pairings or Agapi have ads?
Neither Pairings nor Agapi shows ads.
Which is updated more often, Pairings or Agapi?
Pairings ships an update every 4 months, and Agapi every 2 weeks. Most recently, Pairings was updated on September 20, 2026 and Agapi on September 19, 2026.

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