PolyAm Date User Reviews

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Buggy

Not worth the download. The app and the website are both riddled with bugs. No meaningful dating can take place because half of the options don’t load.

Response from developer

Hi. I'm sorry you had a bad experience with the app. We are constantly updating and working on fixing issues. I hope you will consider giving it another try.

Bummed

Would not allow me to creat an account.

Great site, still developing

This is a great resource for those searching for other polyamorous relationships.
The developers are still
Working out the kinks so everyone just needs to be patients because this is the App that is going to be the “go-to” for the poly community.

Glitchy

Messaging glitch. Shows lay conversation even though you are trying to talk to someone new.

Cool idea but ass

Review is based on how terrible the User interface is and then the actual app experiences. 1 star for idea and 1 Star for execution
1.) Trying to edit information is practically impossible. It’s like being at a restaurant and trying to call your waiter and you see your waiter but they keep helping other people or are completely gone. The buttons to save/cancel edits are blocked by location of time and battery bar of actual phone so not reactive when I touch it. Spend 15 minutes trying to select save. And doing that over and over 🙄.
2.)When i needed to access my account settings, it was virtually impossible by just clicking profile as it only led to my profile. I would have to exit the app completely at least three times hoping when I click profile that account settings would pop up. Too unreliable.
3.) Although having the most open criteria, there continued to be “no more matches for you. Reset profile” like bruh🙄
4.) the prompts for profile are borderline useful and not. Let me use the text space to enter what I want rather than appear to have an empty profile because of unnecessary questions.
5.) the ad said you swipe but you actually press thumbs up or down. And because they’re so close together, I’d give the wrong action to people that I couldn’t fix.
6.) visual quality and design is mediocre, unattractive, and not creative. Even if it wasn’t creative, there’s a model that works. Replicate that with the context of our poly lifestyle
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ADORE this app!

This app used to not have many users, but I have seen in the past few months more people on it and many more matches. I feel it is, with good cause, gaining traction in the Polyamorous Community.

There are so many choices so you can be as vague or specific as you want. The “Resources” section has helpful PolyAm Community Slang definitions. The questions are relevant and have more applicable options to choose than OKCupid did for me.

I especially adore the toggle switch for “I am open to dating a couple. As a Bisexual (I think I am actually Pansexual) CisGender Woman, I deeply appreciate being able to not have to deal with Unicorn hunters. Saves frustration all around and ensures a better experience for all. I really feel this app sets me up for success (how ever I define that to be).
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It’s just “ok”

The app force closes anytime I try to load earlier messages from chats I’ve previously had with anyone. Very frustrating.

Response from developer

Hello, Thank you for reporting this. I will look into this and try to get a fix into the next release.

Upload don’t work

Everything was fine until I was asked to take a picture or upload a picture. Tried to upload but it did not work! Was not able to complete the process as a picture is required. Bummer!

Response from developer

Hello, I'm sorry you had a problem with the app. The picture upload issue has been rectified. I apologize for the problems.

Broken

Can’t create a new account without it getting stuck on your orientation question. Good job!

Response from developer

Hello. I'm sorry you experienced problems with app. The orientation issue has been fixed. I apologize for any problems.

Love the idea, having some issues...

I love the idea of this app. I’ve been looking for a dating app specifically for polyamorous people, HOWEVER, while trying to make my account and I get to the sexual orientation part it’s just a blank screen. Restarting the app doesn’t help, deleting and reinstalling the app doesn’t help either. You cannot skip this step and come back to it later either, so the app is completely unusable. Please help!
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Response from developer

Hello. I'm sorry you experienced problems with app. The orientation issue has been fixed. I apologize for any problems.

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