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A kinky dating app that actually seems to work
This app seems to do a great job of filtering out bots which are always populated with these types of apps. Actually met some great genuine people on here ! Still takes time but first app I’ve found that provides real communication.Join OPTD mw3
Not very good.
I downloaded this thinking a dating site for kinky people is pretty awesome. Issue is u have to pay for basic things such as seeing who you even matched with and just after a point u have can’t swipe on people without paying. Pretty ridiculous. It’s very buggy to where I can’t verify my pics and it was even a struggle to get one picture on there. To get more than that i just can’t.
Update: they’ve fixed some of the bugs but still very buggy. You can’t see who crushes you and can only see a few people who visited or matches n what not. There’s still a major bug with getting verified. It won’t work. When I take the selfie it flashes my screen but that’s it. Doesn’t actually take any photo or anything.Show lessdeathking4119
Developer Response
Hi there! All basic features and functions are free, and FET is free to use. Free users can see matches and crushes up to a certain time limit; for the extended features, natually, you'd need an upgrade. We take the content published very seriously, that's why the approval of the photos is strict and may take up to 24 hours - bots and humans work closely for it! 💪Too many “findoms”
I have findom in quotes because 99% of the people on here that claim to be “findoms” don’t know the first thing about it. They only know that they get money for doing literally nothing. It’s pathetic and sad tbh. I get people do have actual findom kinks, but 99% of these people are liars and are honestly ruining the community. I reported all of them but the app devs don’t do anything about it. App was fun at first, but every time I log in and see another findom, I lose interest so fast. Do something about this.Show lessDallas1854
Fet is a lot of fun
I’ve been on the app for just under 2 months and I’m enjoying myself immensely. I’m meeting kinksters from all over the world and right in my own city. I’ve established some good relationships already and there’s always someone to talk to if you want. I don’t have premium and I think it’s fine with everything that’s included free. A lot of apps charge for everything, Fet isn’t like that at all.Show lessEXoTie Plays
If I could give them 0 stars I would
They won’t let me upload pics of just myself in my car fully clothed with literally just me in the image no animals no drugs no kids or other adults also if you are poly they won’t let you add photos with your partners which seems an awe full lot like discrimination against people like us and when I try to contact support they have it set up so no one can get help if they need it anytime I hit send on the app to send in my questions to support it just reloads the pageShow lessdaddydomkl
Intentionally less functional than the site?
You need to go to the site to view some nsfw pictures, posts etc and in order to do that you have to a) go to the site and then b) verify you’re over 18.
Why make an app if all it’s going to do is direct us to the website? Also, why make a paywall for age verification? At this point, developers are choosing to make the site less safe by not allowing unpaid members to verify their age instead of requiring it up front.
Good place for the community, but needs a lot of functionality work.Show lessSadece Gezgin
Developer Response
Hi there! We're working on functionality! However, our app has to comply to the App Store rules, that's why we cannot display inappropriate content. The good thing is that there is much more to FET than only content flagged as inappropriate by the Store! 😉 Also, we assume that if you can pay for a subscription, you are old enough (+18) to be using our app. In any case, thank you so much for your feedback, we'll take it into account!Poor notifications
I enjoy the site and have met some great people however inevitably have to go somewhere else with whoever I meet and connect with in order to have a seamless conversation, with timely sent messages and instant notifications.
I don’t know why in this day and age, this issue cannot be fixed. Super frustrating. It would improve the site 100%.
That said, I’ve been here for 2 years and I’m still hopeful, lol.Show lessanry_g
Developer Response
We're glad that you've met many great people like you over the last two years! 💜💜 Thanks for your feedback about the notifications, we'll try to find where the problem is!Doesn’t send notifications
I’m so grateful something like this exists!
An app to connect kinky folks!
Yes, there are issues with moderating the forums.
Yes, there are people saying things they should not.
Yes, there are too many fake profiles which front as advertising for spicy pages or SWers.
But that is all getting somewhat better.
My issue revolves around the programming of the app itself. Most of the matches I’ve asked about it all say the same thing: no one gets accurate badges or notifications from the app, or even gets them at all in most cases.
Emails? Oh yeah! They have no problem filling your inbox the instant you get a match, message, spank, visitor, etc.
But the simple task of having the app tell you that you have messages through a badge or push notification seems beyond the capabilities of the developers.
Unless you already are using it. Then when you close it, you get notifications.🤦♂️
Besides that? It’s a good app. More in depth than Tinder, no questions with only inane answers to choose from like OKCupid and no conversations that lead to nowhere like Bumble.
It’s nice to see kink shaming going away.
Apps like this are assisting in demystifying and destigmatizing kink and BDSM.
But for god’s sake, at least do the bare minimum and make your app tell me when I have messages!
It cannot be that difficult.
Unless it is designed that way to increase engagement with the app itself…😳🤬🤯Show lessLeader Man
Developer Response
Hey! Thanks for your really valid and helpful feedback. It's great that you're loving the FET app (on the whole). Have you got your push notifications on? Check in the app notification settings, and make sure you've enabled your notifications for the FET app in your device. With all these settings, you should get notified when you receive a message! I get my message notifications through everyday... I hope that helps!Beginner friendly
I’m pretty new to this type of space and honestly it’s been so much easier to use than normal dating apps. Most are respectful of my time and my comfort. I’ve already made a couple friends! I wish the genders and sexuality’s were a little more inclusive and diverse. As just being marked as transgender makes some believe that I am Mtf instead of Ftm, which I am. But other than that It’s great. The layout if the app is very easy to understand. And I’m having fun using it!Show lessConneriskitty
Developer Response
💜💜💜 Thank you for flying by to give us feedback. We want the app to be the most inclusive kink and dating app on the market, so we'll take your comments on board! Keep having fun 🚀DO NOT GET IT
I was able to use this app for a whole two weeks before I got randomly banned. I still don’t know why, they won’t email me back. I’ve sent four requests trying to correct it.
They will deny your photos that are perfectly acceptable and allow others to be fully nude in theirs.
You cannot say the words “cash” or “money” in a message or you will get banned.
They track your messages 🙃 and they data share your info.
This app is literally the biggest disappointment and I’m so mad people recommended this to me.
Half of the people on there are bots. The other half wants nudes.
I would put ZERO stars if it allowed me to.
Screw this app and it’s “support team”.Show lesstoranceeeee
