Experience with the Matrimonial RM Service – Please Be Careful
I strongly recommend that people think carefully before spending their time, money, and emotional energy on the RM service.
After creating a profile, I was repeatedly contacted and made to feel that finding a suitable match was just around the corner. Initially, several profiles were shared through WhatsApp with the impression that they were highly suitable and that marriage could happen within a few weeks.
However, after taking the RM service, my experience was completely different. I was told that only two profiles would be shared per week. Even those profiles frequently did not match the requirements we had clearly communicated. In some cases, profiles were kept on hold or did not receive any meaningful follow-up.
For example, my son is 6’4” tall, yet profiles with a significant height mismatch were shared. This made me question how carefully the stated preferences were actually being considered.
In one month, I received only around 8 profiles through the RM service, while I personally contacted nearly 100 profiles through the app without meaningful assistance from the RM. If the RM service is simply going to forward a couple of profiles every week, I fail to see the value in paying an additional service charge.
After paying approximately ₹15,000 for three months of RM service, I was also encouraged to consider a premium/elite service costing around ₹30,000 for three months. I was additionally encouraged to consider newspaper advertising, involving another significant expense.
What was most disappointing was the communication. There were occasions when calls and emails were not responded to promptly, and the overall experience with the RM was frustrating and, at times, discourteous.
I am sharing this review so that others can make an informed decision before purchasing additional services. Please carefully understand what exactly is included in the service, what level of assistance you can realistically expect, and whether the profiles being offered genuinely match your requirements.
For us, the experience has been extremely disappointing and did not justify the additional time, money, or expectations involved.
After creating a profile, I was repeatedly contacted and made to feel that finding a suitable match was just around the corner. Initially, several profiles were shared through WhatsApp with the impression that they were highly suitable and that marriage could happen within a few weeks.
However, after taking the RM service, my experience was completely different. I was told that only two profiles would be shared per week. Even those profiles frequently did not match the requirements we had clearly communicated. In some cases, profiles were kept on hold or did not receive any meaningful follow-up.
For example, my son is 6’4” tall, yet profiles with a significant height mismatch were shared. This made me question how carefully the stated preferences were actually being considered.
In one month, I received only around 8 profiles through the RM service, while I personally contacted nearly 100 profiles through the app without meaningful assistance from the RM. If the RM service is simply going to forward a couple of profiles every week, I fail to see the value in paying an additional service charge.
After paying approximately ₹15,000 for three months of RM service, I was also encouraged to consider a premium/elite service costing around ₹30,000 for three months. I was additionally encouraged to consider newspaper advertising, involving another significant expense.
What was most disappointing was the communication. There were occasions when calls and emails were not responded to promptly, and the overall experience with the RM was frustrating and, at times, discourteous.
I am sharing this review so that others can make an informed decision before purchasing additional services. Please carefully understand what exactly is included in the service, what level of assistance you can realistically expect, and whether the profiles being offered genuinely match your requirements.
For us, the experience has been extremely disappointing and did not justify the additional time, money, or expectations involved.
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Pathetic UI and worst Performance
I have probably never used any application this pathetic. I am not gonna talk about the prospect searching part but just how frustrating it is to operate the app. After 11 pm suddenly the app doesn’t work and this happens everyday, the details page doesn’t let you keep options of your choice, back end it will automatically keep updating. Try hiring good devs to the team so that the user experience can be enhanced!
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Weird people
Stop calling me multiple times. When I said once that I don’t need RM Service I mean it ,continuously they call and push for rm service I’m not so desperate to get married. I took a service and it’s fine if I need an upgrade I will take it don’t call multiple times. Extremely poor unnecessary talking even they say rude things when I cut the call. Also they say that good profile people don’t have time so they might not respond or care so they hire rm. They say good profiles ignore you because they don’t have time. I will definitely not gonna get married to someone who doesn’t have time
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Thank you Abpweddings
I have given my profile on many matrimonial sites but I have not been successful anywhere but after giving my profile here I have been guided very well i got my match thank you abp
Response from developer
Dear Susmita, Thank you for sharing your valuable feedback. We are really excited to see that you were satisfied with our services. Regards, ABP Weddings Care Team
Grateful for the Support from ABP Weddings – Special Thanks to Debankita Paul
Days ago, I subscribed to ABP Weddings, and I must appreciate the support provided by Ms. Debankita Paul. She was extremely helpful in understanding my requirements and setting the partner preferences accordingly.
I'm very happy with her assistance and would gladly recommend her to anyone seeking help or guidance with
ABP Weddings' services.
I'm very happy with her assistance and would gladly recommend her to anyone seeking help or guidance with
ABP Weddings' services.
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Response from developer
Dear Suvo, It was great to see that we could delight you through our services. Thank you for sharing your valuable feedback. Regards, ABP Weddings Care Team
