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This dating app focuses on meaningful connections by limiting matches and encouraging focused conversations. It prioritizes real people and genuine interactions over endless swiping.
✓Limited matches at a time
✓Visible swap rate indicator
✓Filter by deal-breakers
✓Commitment Mode for focused dating
✓Human verification and screened photos
✓City-based user density
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What's New in Bemi
1.1.0
August 10, 2026
LOVE LETTERS Write a Love Letter and send it with your like. Your card goes to the front of their deck, the letter waits on its own line above everything else, and they open it in a room built for reading. Then you hear back. Accepting opens the chat, and declining still sends you a note, so you are never left wondering. PHOTOS AND VOICE NOTES Send a photo or record a voice note without leaving the conversation. Photos can be set to open once. BOOST Get seen first. A boost lifts your profile in other people's decks for thirty minutes, and Premium includes one every week. CLOSURE When a connection ends or a like is answered, it turns up in your Closure feed with a name and a reason. This release closes the last gap, so a letter answered from anywhere sends its writer a note. CONNECTIONS Your connections, the people who liked you, and your closure feed now share one clear panel. Letters arrive the moment they are sent, and tapping a letter notification takes you straight to it. PREMIUM Premium includes five Love Letters a week, a weekly boost, ten connection slots, unlimited likes, and seeing who liked you. ALSO IN THIS RELEASE • Consistent type and spacing on every screen Thank you for being here early. Bemi is built on the idea that five real connections beat five hundred conversations that go nowhere.
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FAQ
How does Bemi limit matches?
Bemi limits users to five matches at a time, encouraging focused conversations rather than endless swiping. This ensures you're actively engaging with the people you choose to talk to.
What is the 'Swap Rate' on Bemi?
The Swap Rate is a public signal indicating how often a user cycles through matches. It can be 'Stable', 'Active', or 'High', helping you gauge a user's engagement level before investing time.
Can I filter matches on Bemi?
Yes, Bemi allows you to filter by important factors like kids, lifestyle, and core values before you even connect. This helps ensure compatibility from the start.
What is 'Commitment Mode' in Bemi?
Commitment Mode is an opt-in feature for two users who wish to focus solely on each other. It archives all other conversations, signaling a mutual desire to deepen a connection.
Is Bemi safe to use?
Bemi emphasizes safety with human verification, screened photos, and one-tap block and report features. The app aims to connect users with real people who are actively present.
How does Bemi ensure there are people to meet?
Bemi opens new cities only when enough verified users have joined, preventing 'ghost towns'. When Bemi is live in your area, there are actively people available to meet.
What are the benefits of Bemi Premium?
Bemi Premium is an optional subscription that unlocks extra features, such as seeing who likes you. This can provide additional insights and convenience for users.
How do I cancel my Bemi Premium subscription?
You can manage or cancel your Bemi Premium subscription anytime in your App Store account settings. The subscription automatically renews unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period.