Between Us: Intimacy Checklist
Private questions for couples
About
This app facilitates private conversations between partners by providing a shared checklist of questions. Each person answers independently, and results are only revealed when both have completed the list, highlighting commonalities and differences as a conversation starter.
What's New in Between Us
1.6
October 1, 2026
Between Us now runs on iPad. On a wide screen your whole sheet sits beside the card you're on, grouped by category, so you can see how far you've got and jump to any card. Narrow the window and it works the way it does on iPhone. iPad and iPhone compare with each other over the same in-room connection. Also: the app-lock switch now names the unlock your device actually uses, so it says Touch ID on a Touch ID device.
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FAQ
How does Between Us work?
Between Us provides a checklist of over 100 questions for couples to answer privately on their own iPhones. Each person answers on a five-point scale, and results are only shared when both partners have finished and chosen to compare.
Is Between Us free to use?
The app and the full checklist are free to download and use. Comparing your answers requires a single one-time purchase, which only one partner needs to make. There are no subscriptions.
Does Between Us collect my data?
No, your answers never leave your phone. There is no account creation or cloud storage. Data is exchanged directly between the two phones when you choose to compare, and the app's privacy label states 'Data Not Collected'.
Can I peek at my partner's answers early in Between Us?
No, neither partner can peek early. Nothing is revealed until both individuals have completed their answers and have both explicitly chosen to compare their responses.
What kind of questions are in Between Us?
The checklist includes over 100 cards covering topics related to closeness, comfort, and boundaries, designed to facilitate deeper conversations between partners.
Does Between Us give a compatibility score?
No, Between Us does not provide a compatibility percentage or any verdict. The results are intended to be a starting point for conversation, not a judgment on the relationship.
How often is Between Us updated?
The latest version, 1.3.1, was released on September 2, 2026. Updates are provided to enhance the app's functionality and user experience.
Can I secure my answers in Between Us?
Yes, you can lock the app using Face ID or your passcode to ensure the privacy of your answers.
