Dahlia gives you a great date idea in one tap, so deciding what to do tonight stops being the hardest question of the week. No accounts, no ads, no feed to scroll.
ONE TAP, ONE IDEA
Open the app, tap once, and get a specific, doable date idea. Tap again for another. Every idea is self-contained, so you can use it anywhere.
IDEAS THAT DON'T GO STALE
Dahlia remembers what you have already seen and keeps the rotation fresh, across more than 400 ideas in 14 decks.
FILTER TO TONIGHT
Got an hour and no budget? Staying in? Want something adventurous or something calm? Filter by mood, budget, time, and whether you are staying in or heading out, and get an idea that fits the night you actually have.
THE DATE BUILDER
Build your own night by mixing an activity, something to eat, and a twist. Save the plan or share it with your partner.
BUILT-IN CONVERSATION
Most ideas come with an optional conversation starter, so the date does more than fill an evening. Prompts range from light and playful to genuinely reflective, and you choose the depth. Beyond the ideas themselves, browse seven question decks any time, play sixty Would You Rather cards to see where you two lean, and put a night on the calendar with the built-in date planner.
INCLUSIVE BY DEFAULT
Turn on the filters that fit your relationship and life: alcohol-free, LGBTQ+, non-monogamous, faith-friendly, low-mobility, and long-distance. They stick, and every idea you see respects them.
A STREAK THAT NEVER SHAMES YOU
Mark the nights you actually go on a date and watch the streak grow. Miss one and a freeze quietly covers it. There is no scolding and no lost-streak banner.
THE GARDEN THAT REMEMBERS
Every date you actually go on plants something. Your garden grows with the two of you and marks quiet milestones along the way. Nothing ever shrinks because life got busy.
YOUR DATE JOURNAL
Every evening you mark as done is written down, with how it went and one line about what made it worth remembering. The journal itself is free. Searching it, filtering by how you felt, and exporting the whole thing are Premium.
FORGET-ME-NOTS
Keep the small things you keep meaning to remember: their sizes, their tastes, allergies, the people who matter to them, and the days you do not want to miss, with a reminder before each one.
BACK UP AND RESTORE
Save your whole record (favorites, date history, plans, forget-me-nots, preferences, streak) to one file in Files or by email, with an optional passphrase only you know. Restore with a preview first. No account needed.
INVITE YOUR PARTNER
Turn a planned night into a calendar file that opens on any phone, email it, copy it as text, or add it to your own calendar. Dahlia never reads your calendar.
ANNIVERSARY MODE
Mark the day you began, watch the countdown, set an optional reminder, and pick from ten curated ideas.
WORKS ANYWHERE
Everything lives on your phone. No sign-up, no account, no server, and it all works offline.
DAHLIA PREMIUM
Unlock everything with a subscription:
• Every deck, including Adventurous, Cozy, Creative, Foodie, Reconnect, and Long-Distance
• Seasonal packs for Valentine's, the holidays, and rainy days
• Unlimited saved ideas and saved date plans
• The full set of conversation prompts
• Search, filter and export your date journal
• Unlimited forget-me-nots
The free version is genuinely usable: four full decks, the generator, the Date Builder, filters, streaks, and reminders, with room to save 15 ideas, 3 Date Builder plans and 10 forget-me-nots.
Subscriptions renew automatically unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the period ends. Payment is charged to your Apple ID. Manage or cancel anytime in your App Store settings.
Dahlia offers date suggestions for entertainment. It is not relationship therapy or professional advice, and you know your own relationship best.
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Stop scrolling. Go on a date.
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