Tired of asking, "What should we do tonight?"
Date Night Jar helps you save, organize, and randomly pick better date ideas — from cozy nights in to spontaneous adventures out.
Whether you're planning something thoughtful for a first date, trying to stand out from the usual drinks-and-dinner routine, keeping things fresh in a relationship, or building a shared list of ideas with your person, Date Night Jar makes it easy to turn "I don't know" into an actual plan.
For singles, it's a simple way to keep a stash of creative date ideas ready to go — so when you match with someone, ask someone out, or want to suggest something better than "grab a drink," you already have options.
Create custom jars, add your own ideas, draw one when you need inspiration, and keep track of the plans you want to try next.
NEW: AI DATE IDEAS
Tell Date Night Jar what you're in the mood for and get date ideas built around where you actually are — real places, not generic lists. Remix any idea into a new vibe with one tap.
NEW: DISCOVER JARS FROM OTHER COUPLES
Browse jars other people have made, search for ideas, find dates near you, and save your favorites. Proud of your jar? Publish it for others to discover.
SHARE A JAR WITH YOUR PERSON
Invite your partner with a link or QR code and build your jar together. You'll get a heads-up when they add something, and a quick recap of what changed when you open the app.
SAVE IDEAS FROM ANYWHERE
See a date idea on Instagram, TikTok, or the web? Share it straight into your jar and decide later whether it's a keeper.
PLAN IT, THEN REMEMBER IT
Put dates on your calendar, get reminders, and save memories with photos and ratings after.
MAKE IT YOURS
Choose your jar, colors, and calendar style, then decorate with stickers, photos, and doodles.
Perfect for:
• First dates
• Singles who want better date ideas
• Couples date nights
• Weekend plans
• Anniversary ideas
• Surprise dates
• Low-effort nights in
• Fun things to do when you're out of ideas
Why you'll love it:
• Save all your date ideas in one place
• Randomly draw an idea when you can't decide
• Get fresh AI ideas based on your area and your vibe
• Create different jars for different moods
• Share a jar and plan together
• Keep, remove, or revisit ideas
• Plan more thoughtful dates without overthinking it
• Great for singles, couples, and anyone trying to make dating feel more fun
No more boring default plans. No more endless scrolling. Just open the jar and pick something worth doing.
PURCHASES & SUBSCRIPTIONS
Date Night Jar is free to try. Unlock the full app with a one-time purchase, or subscribe to Date Night Jar Plus for AI date ideas. Plus is also available bundled with the full app.
Subscriptions renew automatically unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Payment is charged to your Apple ID at confirmation of purchase, and your account is charged for renewal within 24 hours before the end of the current period. You can manage or cancel your subscription in your App Store account settings.
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