I only feel less alone from reading the reviews
The name of this site is so inaccurate it's insulting. You can't come here if you just want someone to listen. Long-time users will line up to judge you, highlighting your failings and criticizing you one after another. Rarely do they offer actual encouragement or support, and even their advice is clinical in its delivery. Everything is a one-size-fits-all solution, and they jump down your throat the moment you disagree. I believe genuine help requires compassion, taking into account the other person's perspective and limitations. These people are blind to both. The only thing they're out to help is their own egos, proving their supposed wisdom and superiority. (How arrogant do you have to be to name yourself "Wiseman" on a forum like this?) Go to this site and you'll leave feeling more alone than when you came.
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Bullies
Please think very carefully before downloading this app and creating an account. If you post on an forum, it’s PERMANENT. They will never delete it. Also, the moderators are bullies. I was seeing an advice years ago about dating and I was trashed and called names. When I contacted one of the moderators Hollyj to let them know about the bullying, she bashed me. Horrible forum!
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So far has helped a lot
Idk why it has bad reviews I like it a lot. I’ve had it for a week and made 2 posts so far. I like hearing opinions of others when it comes to my relationship. This app allows me to do it without telling all my family/ friends about my problems.
Judgmental and ban-happy jerks
I think the people who frequently post and moderate on this forum are emotionally wounded and try to heal themselves by mastering a situation that hurt them and they do this by berating posters who they perceive as either not being as strong as the supposedly healed berater or as being someone who represents the person who hurt the berater in the past.
So I wanted to get some support on how to breakup with my girlfriend because I felt guilty. First responder insulted me. Another person asked a question. I tried to log back in to answer and found this message — You have been banned for the following reason: trolling. Date the ban will be lifted: Never
The moderators obviously get some pleasure from this little power trip. You can sense it from the way they worded the ban notice.
So I wanted to get some support on how to breakup with my girlfriend because I felt guilty. First responder insulted me. Another person asked a question. I tried to log back in to answer and found this message — You have been banned for the following reason: trolling. Date the ban will be lifted: Never
The moderators obviously get some pleasure from this little power trip. You can sense it from the way they worded the ban notice.
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Not worth the 5 seconds it takes to download
Read the terrible reviews and stay away. The people are mean, posts will get banned - this is in NO WAY doing its job as a platform and community for supporting and uplifting others.
Not to mention the interface is designed horribly.
Not to mention the interface is designed horribly.
