I'm Not Yelling You're Yelling

Speak softer. Connect deeper. Some of us do not realize our volume is rising until the moment has already shifted. A conversation gets tense. Someone pulls back. What we meant with passion lands with pressure. I'm Not Yelling, You're Yelling is a conversational awareness tool designed to help transform conflict into closeness— one conversation at a time. Using real-time voice volume awareness, the app gently lets you know when your voice begins to rise, so you can soften, reset, and stay connected. A subtle chime. A light vibration. A calm cue in the moments that matter most. No judgment. No shaming. Just a simple way to build more awareness, more intention, and better communication. HOW IT WORKS Tap to begin a session. The app uses your microphone to monitor voice volume in real time. When your voice crosses your selected threshold, you will get a gentle nudge with a vibration and soft chime. Adjust the sensitivity to fit your voice, your environment, and your comfort. When your session ends, you will receive a simple report card to help you notice patterns and track progress. BUILT FOR PRIVACY Your conversations stay yours. No audio is ever recorded or stored. No personal data is collected. No Wi-Fi is required. No ads, no tracking, no analytics. Everything works offline, and microphone data stays on your device. Try 3 sessions free. Then unlock unlimited use for $1.99 — one time.