Kiinvela: Couples Coach

Some conversations are hard to start and harder to finish. Kiinvela is a coach for couples. It listens to both of you, never takes sides and helps with the words, the timing and the tone. TALK IT THROUGH Type, or tap the microphone and just talk. Untangle a feeling or a moment, prepare a hard conversation or find your way back after an argument. Kiinvela asks one question at a time and offers short answers to tap. At the end you keep a note: what you found, a next step for this week and, when one came up, the sentence to open the real conversation with. A VOICE TO TALK WITH Members hear Kiinvela answer in a warm voice, female or male, as they choose. In a session together, Kiinvela calls each turn aloud, so nobody has to read. And Kiinvela remembers your last conversations, so you can pick up where you left off. TAKE TURNS, BE HEARD Put the phone between you and choose one of 7 topics, from chores and money to intimacy and plans for the future. One of you speaks, the other listens and says back what they heard. At the end, each of you promises one small thing for the week, and Kiinvela keeps what you agreed on. AFTER A FIGHT, BREATHE FIRST Breathe with Kiinvela for 2, 5 or 10 minutes: in for 4 seconds, hold for 2, out for 6. Then find the first step back to each other. SMALL RITUALS 9 short practices for talking, appreciation, repair, closeness and calm. Most take five minutes or less. SEE HOW CLOSE YOU FEEL Check in each day by sliding two lights closer together or further apart. Your journey shows the last two weeks, your agreements and your notes. An evening reminder helps, if you want one. On Sundays, members get a short letter about their week together. IN YOUR LANGUAGE Kiinvela speaks 27 languages and follows the language of your iPhone. FREE TO START Your first conversation with Kiinvela is free. Sessions together, breathing, the practices and your journey are free as well. No account, just your first names. KIINVELA MEMBERSHIP Membership opens all further conversations, Kiinvela’s voice, its memory of your last conversations and the weekly letter. Choose yearly, with 7 days free for new members, or monthly. Payment is charged to your Apple Account. The subscription renews automatically unless it is canceled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. You can manage or cancel it in your Apple Account settings. YOUR WORDS STAY YOURS Kiinvela asks before anything is sent. To answer, it sends what you write or say in a conversation, as text, to our server and an AI model; our server keeps none of it. When you speak, Apple’s speech recognition turns your voice into text; your recording never reaches us. Your notes, check-ins and agreements stay on your iPhone, and you can delete everything at any time. A COACH FOR EVERYDAY LIFE Kiinvela is made for adults and the everyday questions of a relationship. It is not a substitute for professional help. If what you write sounds like violence, fear of your partner or thoughts of self-harm, Kiinvela stops coaching and shows where to get help right away. Privacy notice: https://www.gamikaze.ch/kiinvela/privacy/ Terms of use: https://www.gamikaze.ch/kiinvela/terms/ End User License Agreement (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/