PairJar: Stamps & Rewards

Notice the moment. Keep the spark. PairJar is a private appreciation app for invite-only circles of adults. Send personal thank-yous, move mutually chosen rewards forward, make low-pressure plans, and optionally open one Intimacy Space for two. HOW PAIRJAR WORKS 1. Create a private circle and invite the adults you trust. 2. Send appreciation for a thoughtful real-world moment. 3. For a reward, one owner and one chosen contributor approve the exact idea and stamp target. 4. Each eligible non-intimate thank-you from that contributor to that owner adds exactly one stamp while the reward is active and unpaused. 5. Share a plan idea. It becomes a plan only when the named participants agree. ONE OPTIONAL INTIMACY SPACE When a circle has exactly two active adults, both people can independently enable Intimacy Space. It offers private sparks, invitations, shared check-ins, and private memories. Either person can decline, pause, or remove something without penalty. Intimacy Space stays separate from rewards and never adds stamps. Choose Off, Discreet, or Spicy private-spark previews for notifications, the Home Screen widget, and Apple Watch. External actions open PairJar for review and confirmation; nothing sends by itself. Previews never include names, custom text, IDs, or invitation tokens. THOUGHTFUL BY DESIGN • See stamp progress directly on each reward • Start from quick reward and plan ideas with the fields already filled in • Use Face ID App Lock and hide PairJar in the app switcher • Open a personal QR shortcut without sending anything automatically • Decline, revise, pause, or remove rewards and plans without penalty • Keep ordinary circle activity visible to active circle members PRIVATE AND PRESSURE-FREE PairJar has no member leaderboard, fairness score, guilt streak, relationship grade, read receipt, owed balance, or contribution ranking. A stamp advances only its specific reward and has no cash value. There are no ads, public profiles, contact uploads, or behavioral tracking. PairJar is designed for consenting adults aged 18 or older. Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/ Privacy Policy: https://pairjar.vercel.app/privacy