Pare Dating
Community Matchmaking
Archived App (Last seen on 9 Jul 2026)
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About
This app reimagines dating by having users actively match others in their community. Each week, a new season begins where you can join, help pair people, and then receive your own curated match. It emphasizes genuine connections through a verified community and a unique matchmaking process.
What's New in Pare Dating
1.1.4
April 2, 2026
- ux improvements
In-App Purchases
$9.99
Pare Season
Unlock one Pare season.
Developer apps
FAQ
How does Pare ensure its users are genuine?
Pare requires all users to apply and submit a profile with photos, prompts, and a short verification video. Each applicant is reviewed to maintain a genuine and intentional community.
What is the 'season' structure in Pare?
Each week, Pare runs a new season. Users join a season, which locks in their profile for that week, creating urgency and excitement. This prevents stale profiles from lingering.
How does Pare's matchmaking differ from other dating apps?
Instead of algorithms, your match is chosen by real people in your community. You actively help pair others before your own match is revealed, focusing on quality over quantity with limited thoughtful matchmaking votes per season.
What is 'The Drop' in Pare?
The Drop is the moment when your match is revealed after you've completed your matchmaking duties. It's a single reveal moment experienced by everyone in the season, adding a cultural element to dating.
What is 'Community Signal'?
Community Signal is a consensus score that shows how strongly the community believes in your match. It can be rated as Strong, Medium, or Wildcard, providing insight into the collective opinion of your pairing.
Is Pare available in my city?
Currently, Pare is live in New York, with plans to expand to more cities soon. Users can check the app for future city announcements.
What devices does Pare support?
Pare is available on iPhone and iPad devices, allowing users to connect and find matches on their preferred Apple devices.
What is the age rating for Pare?
Pare has an age rating of 17+, indicating it is intended for mature audiences due to its dating-focused nature.